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(07-11-2012 02:16 PM)Lemmo Wrote:
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My main point was that I see a lot of guys on here saying they'd like to travel around impregnating women and moving on. I can see the appeal and have thought about it myself. But if these women aren't somewhat stable, which they generally aren't, you are setting yourself up to have some dark stories show up at your door. I wouldn't want a mother tracking me down with a story like this in my old age. In this case, the birth father will never know but it is getting easier to track people down.[/quote]
I guess it would depend much on your estimation of the value of your heritable traits.
It might be arrogance, but I think I would endow offspring with unusual advantages in life. I'd like to think that my children would be better than the surrogate fathers children, in most cases.
There may or may not be "right and wrong" actions. But there is no right and wrong until there are people to judge it so. Creating life bring forth the possibility of even having a right and a wrong. Without that, there is nothing. Yes, the cuckolded husband wouldn't like it, were he to know. But I for one am grateful to be alive, and am proud of my genetic heritage. I'd be proud of it no matter how I acquired it - legitimately or not.
It's not easy getting a suitable well positioned girl to agree to carry your child, you know. Anyone who can do that has to have something going on for himself - something worth passing on.
And no, I don't have fantasies of knocking up random crazy chicks. The challenge is "a suitable well positioned girl". I've come close - the girl living with me leaving to go marry her financially secure fiance. It's been discussed.
And I've had plenty of options to let a girl keep my kid and then go on to find a husband. I didn't take those up. Again - the challenge is that the girl is already well set up, and is suitable, and would make a good mother.
I really don't see any right and wrong about it. There is only advantage (to me and to my children), and disadvantage - to the cuckold who spends resources on my genetic legacy. If my genes are better then the greater good was served.
Some think that if you want kids, you have to pay for them with responsibility. Apparently not. In the real world (that is not one monolithic social agreement of shoulds and coulds) you can also pay for them with risk.
I mean, what are you going to do about it? Give me internet ire? Threaten to track me down and put a bullet in my head? I know the job of society is to prevent guys like me from doing our job. But you can't, you know. Guys like me are part of the system that can never be eradicated. We arise out of the niche that guys like you create. You can't have a social system without this niche arising.
In fact women preferentially fuck guys like me, exactly because guys like you try to stop it. It's the "sexy son hypothesis". Guys that have the ability and bad boy morality to make cuckolds out of husbands get wives wet. You can't have team family-oriented-society without creating the ecosystem for team cad.
Nature abhors a vacuum, and in nature, all niches get filled.