[Stratos]

I can't think of any SNL's or first date lays I've had that have involved food before sex. Burping and digesting during sex is not romantic. Buying a woman dinner who you haven't slept with is not romantic; it's a job interview. Meet up after dinner at 9 bounce at 10 or 11 and you're good. If she demanded food I would say sure order whatever you want and I'll get the next round of drinks, to make the point.