[jariel]

(02-03-2015 04:56 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

This is why guys must have a tiered system to deal with women.

A 50 year old and smooth player/Natural taught this to me.

The Barn - Keep your sweet, innocent like, Low N count, LTR/Wife material women in here. Don't pressure them too much. Date them. Take them out on weekends. Like a prized cow you give these the good hay and keep em brushed.

The Pasture (With the fence) - Keep your girls that are not LTR material in here. Treat them nice but you want to set and maintain boundaries. Never give them access to anything that can hurt you. Think Arm's Length. They are down to fuck. They are your fuck buddies that you can call when you need some loving and they enjoy your company. They will make time for you if they are free and if you guys cannot sync up, she isn't trippin. (And nor should you). Keep you some 5-7s in here.

The field/range or Pasture with no fence - ONS go in here. Fuck buddies. Women that already have a man, just might want some good dick from a dude. These will give you the drawls. This area is where you experiment with your game. Throw grenades out here. This area is a minefield. Dick pics. Whipping it out. Being blunt. Telling her, "Girl you better come over here and give me that pussy and quit playing with me." Asshole game is the best here. You do not ultimately care what happens in here because they are just merely in your sphere of influence. They come in and out as they please. The other cattle thieves can rope them and you would never give a shit.

As women improve their standing with you, feel free to move them from the pasture to the barn, or back out if they cop an attitude you do not like.

You must give yourself options because women can tell when you are thirsty or not. Your lack of thirst will always make them more curious than they were at first. Bitches are nosy. They want to know who you are fucking, whether or not you and her are fucking or not. Keep the mystery alive.

A good example:

"Do you have other girlfriends?"

Why? Anyone tell you something?

No... Im just asking you if you have another woman or not.

I'm here with you right now.

If she keeps asking, then go ahead and say no you dont. but that seed has been planted that someone else is vying for your attention. This turns on pre-validation or preselection game instantly. If she starts with that exclusive stuff, reply back saying, you can do exclusive but you need something in return. A be dead serious about it.

Another thing. You need to be more straight up with some of these women. You need to let them know that, you are constantly taking care of their emotional or being attentive to what they need. Tell them that and then follow up with, "I am a man and I have needs that I have to attend to, just like you do with your needs." Then you can give them that blank and serious look. You could even say, "Enough with the bullshit, You gonna give me those drawls or what?" But you better say it with enough conviction that you are about to grab your keys and leave. If she say, no, then walk off.

(02-03-2015 06:07 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

I also want to add that based upon your posts a reoccurring theme I see is that your portfolio sucks. You need options brother. All men do. You cannot rush for pussy with high quality candidates and strong wife material women. Use your hoes for that. When you are not thirsty your game is A grade. So when the time does come, she will be ready and you can do your thing.

Every dude needs a diverse herd of heifers. Real talk.

Also you are in France! Didn't they invent drama? You better create some tension and drama with these women. Have other women loud while you are on the phone. Make intentional mistakes to grab that curiosity. These aren't black women or hot blooded Latinas are they? If not, then work some tryst and scandal and see how they react. Romance is not good guy game. Romance is lustful in nature. So stir the pot.