Quote: (10-04-2014 10:53 PM)Atlantic Wrote:
I am loving this thread.
I got burnt badly my first year in Canada running dinner and drink game on a girl. After she refused to kiss when she came back to my hotel room 'I am not that sort of girl' (already kissed her when I met her in the club the week before) I released I had been hustled and told her promptly to get the fuck out.
Now I run as close to 'zero cost bang' game as possible.
Food? 'Sure - I will cook at my place' (I always cook big portions anyway)
Drinks? 'Ya I would love some wine, bring some over and I will cook'
Movie? 'Ya sure, come on over, whats your netflix password'
Activity? Walking, coming with me to the supermarket (actually pretty fun) or a coffee n walk (prefer to move around)
After I bang a girl a few times I might start bringing them out for breakfast or getting some takeaway for a night in. If they are particularly nice maybe the odd dinner out when I feel like it.
This is a combination of knowing that we are seeing each other primarily for sex, making sure I am not getting hustled and avoiding all the drama and time of bar dates/nightclubs. My turnover/failure rate is way down and I get a lot less bullshit using this approach.
I am a fan of trying to hustle girls as much as they try hustle guys. It is fun to reverse all the sneaky tricks.
Great tips
Do you think they would work in big city USA?