I've been getting this one frequently enough that I thought it was worth discussing. I'm getting it during night game, usually about 30-60mins into the interaction when I'm trying to close.
How do you guys answer this? I feel like spitting out her name is playing into her frame and gives off a pedestalizing vibe of "How could I ever forget?"
I know this is a small sample but there's two instances I can recall where I actually forgot her name and blurted out my best guess, which happened to be incorrect. In one instance I got the bang and in the other we were making out 5 minutes later.
I'm thinking about going with something obviously incorrect/ridiculous next time, like "It's Cleopatra, right?". Either that or an eyebrow raise/smirk with a "really?" expression.
How do you guys answer this? I feel like spitting out her name is playing into her frame and gives off a pedestalizing vibe of "How could I ever forget?"
I know this is a small sample but there's two instances I can recall where I actually forgot her name and blurted out my best guess, which happened to be incorrect. In one instance I got the bang and in the other we were making out 5 minutes later.
I'm thinking about going with something obviously incorrect/ridiculous next time, like "It's Cleopatra, right?". Either that or an eyebrow raise/smirk with a "really?" expression.