not exactly. getting physical fast 'works' when it's done properly, gotta have some intuition about what/when/where/how and be able to deal with things in real time.
to clarify, when i approach i don't obliviously grope/molest girls left and right from the get go ignoring her peer group. but, for example, i might introduce myself to the girl I WANT with a handshake and as i'm holding her hand i can gently pull her towards me, put her hands around my neck while i put my hands on her hips. and i know whether it's ok or not cause i hold good eye contact and her eyes tell me how she feels (so i can react immediately). we exchange few words, then i can ask her group "hey, we love each other, is that ok with you guys? can we get some blessings??".
so it's not blindly executed technique, i stay extremely responsive to her reactions, i smile, i have fun with it, she enjoys it, it's clear i'm good dude so they don't fuck with me.
i recommended you something less direct cause, look, if you can't deal with a random drunk uncalibrated dude stealing your girl, i think that getting more physical and confrontational would only harm you. so like a said, maybe try different angle, be more chill, chit chat them, befriend, become temporary buddies, flirt with girls in that group try to have one on one conversation with the girl you like. so this is another way to be a 'part of their team' instead of weird outsider trying to steal their girls.
don't follow any kind of school of thought. don't get into that black and white type of thinking. different styles fit (so work) different guys. try different courses of action and angles to find out your preferenced style
to clarify, when i approach i don't obliviously grope/molest girls left and right from the get go ignoring her peer group. but, for example, i might introduce myself to the girl I WANT with a handshake and as i'm holding her hand i can gently pull her towards me, put her hands around my neck while i put my hands on her hips. and i know whether it's ok or not cause i hold good eye contact and her eyes tell me how she feels (so i can react immediately). we exchange few words, then i can ask her group "hey, we love each other, is that ok with you guys? can we get some blessings??".
so it's not blindly executed technique, i stay extremely responsive to her reactions, i smile, i have fun with it, she enjoys it, it's clear i'm good dude so they don't fuck with me.
i recommended you something less direct cause, look, if you can't deal with a random drunk uncalibrated dude stealing your girl, i think that getting more physical and confrontational would only harm you. so like a said, maybe try different angle, be more chill, chit chat them, befriend, become temporary buddies, flirt with girls in that group try to have one on one conversation with the girl you like. so this is another way to be a 'part of their team' instead of weird outsider trying to steal their girls.
don't follow any kind of school of thought. don't get into that black and white type of thinking. different styles fit (so work) different guys. try different courses of action and angles to find out your preferenced style