[JohnnyAppleSeeds]

So 2 weeks ago I went to a strip club, 2 days in a row (fri-sat) and got the 18yr old cashier's number, I'm in my early 30's. When I went in 2nd time she recognized me right away "back again" or something, I said "all it takes Is 2 days in a row to be recognized" or something. I was dressed in slacks + tie, nice watch, $ in my wallet, strong body language, constant eye contact, flirting.making her laugh, Etc. After a bit I was like "i probably can't stand here too long" she tells me she's waitressing later, so I go sit by the stage, we're looking at each other right after that, I'm chilling, get a dance, after that I sit away from the stage when she's waitressing. Then we're talking again and she's like over my shoulder from behind, again I cracked a funny joke with either a dead pan or smirk and so goes "your funny" or something, she prob asked me about my dance or if I was having fun or something cause then I was saying how I was trying to get Into iit but I just couldnt, saying she ruined it for me. She says "that's ok with me", i said "if that's ok with you then u need to give me if # RIGHT now" (stressing timing). She's not allowed to give out her # so she writes it on a napkin, gives it to the bartender and tells me to ask the bartender for a napkin before I leave.

I texted her 4 days later "hey, what's up"
H-"who's this?"
Me-"that depends on how many men u give your # to..."
H-"who is this and I'm guessing it's a guy, I don't give out my number out a lot"
M-"in that case u should remember me. Unless u forgot my name , AGAIN" ----- she had forgot my name when I first sat down, then remembered after a sec
H-""Jim."
.....
H-"my nammme!!"
M-"haha, nice save... Tell Jim to take a hike."
H-" lol how are you"
M-"I'm real good, we need to hang out soon."
H-"I don't normally hangout with people I meet at work but the again I gave you my number and I don't give my number out at work either so sure lol"
M - 1day later:- "how about Sunday"
H - 2 days later "hey"
M-"what's up"
M-2 days later-"hey her name, what's going on"
H- " hi handsome nothing in *resort town*"
M-" relaxing at home,laundry,etc. have to get up at 4:0@, I'm still thinking we need to hang out soon"
H-late that night"that's fun sounds productive and yeah okay"
M-next day-"Gotta stay productive... What's your work schedule like. W should get together tomorrow night, I'm starting to forget how beautiful your eyes + smile are."
H- right away-"awed I'm free tomorrow I don't work till Friday"
M-"k, I'll text u when I get home from work but figure on getting together around 8:30"
H-"alright that's fine talk to you then"
M- day later 5:53pm- "looks like I'm stuck at work, are u free Sunday.". -- mostly true
H- "I work Sunday night"
M-"how bout during the day? A girl from work is involved with some fair / music festival, it should be fun."
H-"yeah that sounds fun why not"
M-"I promise it will be fun. I'll text the details when I find out."
H-"Okay "
M- 2 days later-"I know u work late, what time do u usually wake up at."
H-"not till like 12 or one"
M-"k and what time do u work? This is all day thing so we'll go when ur ready."
H-"I have work at around 5 so I can be ready whenever"
M-"hmm, well earlier the better. Text me when ur up and like an hour away on being ready to go."
H-"okay sounds good I'll get up early cause I don't work tonight."
M-"it starts around 11:00 so let me know when you"ll be ready and I'll pick u up."
H-day later 3:00- festival day-" Dont hate me"

I was always waiting longer to text herback than she took, sometimes MUCH longer.

So how do I handle this? I was drunk and high ("at the same time") but she is definitely at least a 9, hottest girl I've ever gotten a # from and I haven't had sex in a LONG time. I just started a new job where i work 60-80 hours a week so my free time is limited. Unfortunately I live at home in a crowded house for the next month Or so which obviously isn't conducive to banging chicks, maybe I could get away with it late at night. I don't think I told her my age, people often think I'm 5-7 years younger.

Typing out my texts I think I dragged things along too long...

I have a room at a nice casino this Friday and Saturday night for my birthday and the plan was to bring her and bang her, or some other random chick. This chick is a fine girl with ass, tits, amazing face + smile, r+b singer/front of magazine type...

What should I do?

Thanks in advance if u read, I know it's long.

[BCien]

You had to show more of a wild/agressive straight out dont give a fuck type of attitude as I can see you pretty much had a long thread of texts regarding a date.

All you had to do was call certain day set up a date at some bar a place youre in your comfort zone and take it from there..

Texting game I dont recommend it to be honest, as I read here and from experience a phone call is all it takes and a couple of texts for little things not to flirt or anything you're obviously a busy man you cant be fooling around..

[WanderingSoul]

So you waited 4 days to text her, then she agrees to hang out, and you wait another whole day to text her back a day to hang out? A long time to wait if you ask me. This girl works at a strip club, she gets hit on by horny guys 24/7. Gotta strike while the iron is hot. I know it seems "Alpha" to not text he right away and let her think you are so fuckin cool you can't be bothered to text a 18 year old you met at a strip club, but you have to build a solid connection first. She probably completely forgot about you by the time you got around to texting her.

[JohnnyAppleSeeds]

I could have done better setting up the date and I didn't wait 4 days to be cool, I'm just that busy right now. I haven't texted her back, how can I salvage this and get her to come to the casino with me and get the bang? Seems to me she still wants to get together, especially with her "don't hate me comment", I definitely did much better when interacting with her in person. I'm trying to learn as much as possible from this experience.

My action would be to text her tonight and say something like she needs to make it up to me, but does that come across as me caring too much? I would think I need to try to hangout with her once before trying to get her to travel to a casino. Thoughts?

[JohnnyAppleSeeds]

So last night I texted her "now you'll have to make it up to me" she responded an hour later "okay I'm fine with that", thoughts on where to take it from here? I think I'm going to try to get her out for a run on the boardwalk and dip in the ocean in the next day or 2 and then bring her to the casino this weekend.

[michelin]

Stop texting. call her unless you want to get stuck in a texting hell.