Quote: (04-18-2015 06:06 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
I think this may stem from a lot of repressed depression and frustrations as a child and teenager that manifested in my body language, mannerism, and social functioning.
When we met, a few years ago, I could sense this..
Your vibe was very "stoic". I mean, it was fun hanging with you and I really enjoyed talking to you but girls need to see more engaging, more emotive, more inviting, more "fun loving" type of body and facial language.
I used to have the same exact problem!
I was too unemotional, too cynical, not expressive enough.
My sense of humor had been suppressed by the pressures of modern life.
I had to "lighten up", relax and learn to enjoy life more.
Anger and depression is not attractive to girls -- unless, it is balanced out by fun.
I'm not saying that you were angry and depressed, you obviously were not.
I'm just saying that are inner cynicism often is reflected in our body and facial language.
Learning how to gently smirk and smile has helped me a lot with girls.