Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma and want to hear your stance on this problem:
How do you deal with people who don't reply to your communication? Let me give you a few examples:
I'm wondering whether I'm overreacting, maybe in some cases I shouldn't be concerned about it as it's no big deal and I still might be able to profit from relationships with people who behave like that, but I just can't make myself be cool with it, when someone ignores my communication for me that's a major act of disrespect, the only time I ignore others is when they've done me wrong and I want them to know that I don't want to ever see them or hear them.
It seems to me that with technology the world has changed and I haven't adapted to it, so I really want to hear your opinions guys, how do you guys deal with situations like this?
How do you deal with people who don't reply to your communication? Let me give you a few examples:
- A girl or an acquaintance doesn't reply to some minor question through facebook.
- A close friend doesn't reply to something you've asked him on skype, facebook or text message and behaves as this is no big deal.
- I call someone on the cell phone coz we had agreed to go somewhere, and instead of answering and telling me that he changed his mind, or is tired or is not in the mood (which I'd be ok with), he just doesn't answer and then doesn't reply to my message either, neither immediately nor the next day nor ever.
I'm wondering whether I'm overreacting, maybe in some cases I shouldn't be concerned about it as it's no big deal and I still might be able to profit from relationships with people who behave like that, but I just can't make myself be cool with it, when someone ignores my communication for me that's a major act of disrespect, the only time I ignore others is when they've done me wrong and I want them to know that I don't want to ever see them or hear them.
It seems to me that with technology the world has changed and I haven't adapted to it, so I really want to hear your opinions guys, how do you guys deal with situations like this?