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WoW!! 5000 Approaches! The sad and Painful truth about the Pick up industry...
01-21-2012, 10:20 PM
It's funny when I first "discovered" game a couple years, I went through a phase where I was reading just about any free stuff I could find on the internet.
I found this site called "casanova crew" which is basically a PUA forum, with a bunch of "lairs" mainly down in SoCal, and this guy "Sexter" the one the OP posted about was one of the main posters on the forums. He got a lot of hate from the other main forum contributors and called out on a lot of shit.
Anyways, I do remember reading through a bunch of the guys posts and field reports, and from what I can gather he is a pretty good looking guy, but like he straight up states he's short (only 5 ft 7 in, and he's Filipino). Now I don't want to be called a race troll or go off on that whole topic or debate, but there are certain social/cultural facts that we can't ignore.
To give "Sexter" some credit he did seem to honest with his field reports, and he did post pics of him making out with some seriously hot women 8+... But he even wrote himself that making out is bogus, and he wasn't converting those to SNL, or even dates to lead to sex.
I'm not sure where the guy was going wrong exactly, like a bunch of guys on here it seems like he may not have escalated properly, but I do recall a couple of his field reports where he fingered girls in the club.
But, I do know where he went majorly wrong, for one he straight up says that he doesn't go after Asian women, that was his down fall IMHO. For as much as guys on here say that all Asian women want white men, from my experience and observations, Asians tend to stick together a lot. It is not uncommon to see a nerdy, ugly, beta-chode looking Asian guy with a hot Asian girl, and this is highly less of a common site with other ethnicities. I have a good friend who is Asian-American and he kills it with Asian girls, but only had mild success with white women, and the white women were drastically less attractive than all the Asians he got with.
So right off that bat, Sexter cockblocked himself out of a lot of ass. Now to where you guys may harsh on me, but I believe it's the facts. The guy is a short Asian dude, who hangs out at high end clubs in SoCal and focuses on trying to pick up hot (8+ white women). Now I am sure there are short Asian guys with good game and lifestyles that pull hot white women, but as a generality white women typically aren't that attracted to Asian men, and especially not to short Asian men. Now I don't know why that is, and like I said, I'm sure there are guys that brake that mold, but I personally haven't met any of them. In fact I have a friend that fits Sexters' mold, he's a short Korean American guy, doesn't pursue Asian women, and only wants to date hot blondes, but goes sexless for months, sometimes years, or resorts to doing P4P, both in the bay area and abroad.
Next point, is that height is a big factor, now this has been debated for ages, and it's not everything, but to a lot of women height is crucial in attraction. This is especially true for taller women 5 ft 9 in. plus, which there are a lot of where I live for some reason. Women typically do NOT want to date/fuck guys that are shorter than them, especially if it's more than 1 in. difference. I'll go ahead and use Mixx as an example, here we have the most respected player on this forum, who like me is avg. high (5 ft 10 in), he straight up says that he's sees height as a major factor. So much so that he went out and go 3 in. lifts for his shoes, that he even admits are extremely painful.
So point being a short Asian guy like Sexter is facing an up hill battle in the high end club environment in SoCal trying to "pick up" in high end clubs. There are just certain truths that are hard to admit, sometimes we are faced with limitations in life, and reality can frankly "be a bitch". Now maybe Sexter could have reached Casanova's level of game and overcome that shit, but we got to ask ourselves would a guy like Roosh see the same results with women if he were 5 ft. 5 in. in stead of 6 ft. 2 in? My feeling is he'd still bang a lot of women, and understand the concepts of game, but he'd have no where near the same level of success (notch count, sex frequency, and quality of women).