UPDATE: went to her office hours, was playful, but not overtly flirty she asked a bit about me. I noticed a picture of her and some people one of which was a dude, but it looked more like a brother. I'm planning on keeping the energy light until semester is done and marks are in, then I'll make my move.
Bang: Teacher Edition
Quote: (01-22-2012 12:21 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:
UPDATE: went to her office hours, was playful, but not overtly flirty she asked a bit about me. I noticed a picture of her and some people one of which was a dude, but it looked more like a brother. I'm planning on keeping the energy light until semester is done and marks are in, then I'll make my move.
I am just curious, does that long term stuff work? I tried something similar to this a few times but girls just seem to have the expectation that if it didn't happen basically within a week or two of meeting than it's never going to.
Good luck man!
This was my fantasy in high school and college. Good advice in this thread. Be slow and calculated, and strike at the right moment. Keep us posted
Nothing ever happened from this, kind of a bummer because banging a teacher would be sweet!
Hades: It depends. I could see long term working in this situation because you're building up the sexual tension making it more exciting for her and like you two have some crazy conspiracy going on. Long roll game is also really good if you have a main girl or girlfriend. Slow roll a bunch of girls and reap the rewards when you "have a big fight" or "break up" with your girl. In that situation you're basically turning girls into beta orbiters... and whats every beta orbiters dream? The girl finally realizing that hes so much better than her asshole boyfriend.
Hades: It depends. I could see long term working in this situation because you're building up the sexual tension making it more exciting for her and like you two have some crazy conspiracy going on. Long roll game is also really good if you have a main girl or girlfriend. Slow roll a bunch of girls and reap the rewards when you "have a big fight" or "break up" with your girl. In that situation you're basically turning girls into beta orbiters... and whats every beta orbiters dream? The girl finally realizing that hes so much better than her asshole boyfriend.
Quote: (10-22-2012 12:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:
Nothing ever happened from this, kind of a bummer because banging a teacher would be sweet!
Why? What did you learn from this (failure, bad game, wrong approach...) ?
"Fart, and if you must, fart often. But always fart without apology. Fart for freedom, fart for liberty, and fart proudly" (Ben Franklin)
Quote: (10-22-2012 12:24 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:
Nothing ever happened from this, kind of a bummer because banging a teacher would be sweet!
Hades: It depends. I could see long term working in this situation because you're building up the sexual tension making it more exciting for her and like you two have some crazy conspiracy going on. Long roll game is also really good if you have a main girl or girlfriend. Slow roll a bunch of girls and reap the rewards when you "have a big fight" or "break up" with your girl. In that situation you're basically turning girls into beta orbiters... and whats every beta orbiters dream? The girl finally realizing that hes so much better than her asshole boyfriend.
Holy shit, this slow roll stuff is diabolical. It would be definitely very good to try sometime. I'm liking it.
"Teacher"? Was this in high school?
For all those interested in college profs:
In the U.S. younger attractive female college professors all loved sexual attention they were getting from their male students. Key word being from their students, because unlike guys on the street (who would be seen as individual creeps if showed the same level of attention) students are generally seen as this faceless, harmless mass, up to a point. So although they all basked in the attention from their students - they would never act upon it because they were far more rational, calculated, cunning (than their male counterparts) and would not want to not only potentially end up with a kiss-of-death job/career-wise, but would not want ("post-mistake") to end up as a potential target of stalking from an infatuated psychopath.
That said, it is still quite possible to bang a prof. but it has to be done after the semester is over. And your chances will increase exponentially if the prof. in question is a temporary lecturer, visiting prof. or some other type of instructor (including graduate T.A.) who is on time-based contract (which today is actually a majority of faculty).
To maximize chances hit on profs. who are in last semester/year of their contract.
For all those interested in college profs:
In the U.S. younger attractive female college professors all loved sexual attention they were getting from their male students. Key word being from their students, because unlike guys on the street (who would be seen as individual creeps if showed the same level of attention) students are generally seen as this faceless, harmless mass, up to a point. So although they all basked in the attention from their students - they would never act upon it because they were far more rational, calculated, cunning (than their male counterparts) and would not want to not only potentially end up with a kiss-of-death job/career-wise, but would not want ("post-mistake") to end up as a potential target of stalking from an infatuated psychopath.
That said, it is still quite possible to bang a prof. but it has to be done after the semester is over. And your chances will increase exponentially if the prof. in question is a temporary lecturer, visiting prof. or some other type of instructor (including graduate T.A.) who is on time-based contract (which today is actually a majority of faculty).
To maximize chances hit on profs. who are in last semester/year of their contract.
damn, I was hoping we could have another thread like this with WesternCancer's story making the rounds
Just a thought: do you think that DubVeeU kid who just banged his teacher was worried about his grade in the class?
When I was teaching in college, here is how my students banged me...
Volunteered to work at the events I was hosting
Came to my office to chat with me
Signed up to to take my classes
Always found a reason to be around me
Gave me the "fuck me" eyes
I knew of at least 3 other male teachers banging their students. It's very common and almost all the male teachers talked about it.
Volunteered to work at the events I was hosting
Came to my office to chat with me
Signed up to to take my classes
Always found a reason to be around me
Gave me the "fuck me" eyes
I knew of at least 3 other male teachers banging their students. It's very common and almost all the male teachers talked about it.
I had one professor in college who made it absolutely clear several times throughout the semester that "at my age, my tenure and pension are more important than sleeping with students."
I know, I know...It's not a good idea for college teachers to sleep with their students!
It's not a good idea to risk your job just to fuck some young pussy.
Do you think that stops any guys from doing it? Hell no! They see a teenage girl in tight shorts and a little tank-top staring at them with submissive little puppy dog eyes,their dick gets hard and their logical brain shuts down.
But I agree, it's not worth it.
It's not a good idea to risk your job just to fuck some young pussy.
Do you think that stops any guys from doing it? Hell no! They see a teenage girl in tight shorts and a little tank-top staring at them with submissive little puppy dog eyes,their dick gets hard and their logical brain shuts down.
But I agree, it's not worth it.
Quote: (10-23-2012 03:47 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
I know, I know...It's not a good idea for college teachers to sleep with their students!
It's not a good idea to risk your job just to fuck some young pussy.
Do you think that stops any guys from doing it? Hell no! They see a teenage girl in tight shorts and a little tank-top staring at them with submissive little puppy dog eyes,their dick gets hard and their logical brain shuts down.
But I agree, it's not worth it.
Can't give crack to a crack head and expect him not to smoke it.
Gio how did you guys end up banging? Did you just make a move or wait for them to make one? Did you set up a coffee so she could learn more about your studies or w/e?
Quote: (10-23-2012 12:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
When I was teaching in college, here is how my students banged me...
Volunteered to work at the events I was hosting
Came to my office to chat with me
Signed up to to take my classes
Always found a reason to be around me
Gave me the "fuck me" eyes
I knew of at least 3 other male teachers banging their students. It's very common and almost all the male teachers talked about it.
How did you tell if the students are really into you or are just attention whoring? I am currently an instructor and I get a lot of "fuck me" eyes, but as soon as I show interest or wait till the semester is over to make a move, they go cold.
Quote: (10-23-2012 07:41 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:
Gio how did you guys end up banging? Did you just make a move or wait for them to make one? Did you set up a coffee so she could learn more about your studies or w/e?
I wait for them to make a move. I wait for them to suggest a date. But, I don't just sit around hoping it will happen. I actively game them every week. Usually, towards the end of the semester they would suggest some sort of meet up.
One girl met me at a gym and we worked out together. Later that week, she met me at a hotel. She used to come by my office all the time to "chat". "Working out together" became out secret little code for "we wanna fuck each other".
Another girl came to my house to make me some special pasta that she liked. She suggested this after 1 year of working together in the same office. We flirted alot in that year. She came to my house a few days after graduation.
Another girl met me a local swimming pool, the day after graduation. We swam, hung out, and then went to get dinner. We were banging the next week.
Another girl and I just started hanging out after a gave her a ride home one day. She ended blowing me in a closet on campus once.
The teacher can't be too aggressive, so the student has to suggest "hanging out".
Alot of the male teachers said that they like to wait til the students graduate. Many time they would start banging a few days after graduation.
Quote: (10-23-2012 09:10 PM)anewtypedude Wrote:
How did you tell if the students are really into you or are just attention whoring? I am currently an instructor and I get a lot of "fuck me" eyes, but as soon as I show interest or wait till the semester is over to make a move, they go cold.
The ones who are interested in you will always find reasons to be around you. They will volunteer to work your events, they will come to your office, they will always have questions for you. Nurture and promote these friendly relationships. The more you get to know each other the better.
You can't just wait til the end of the semester and then ask them out. The seduction is taking place everyday. Its a slow methodical seduction. Little by little, she gets more comfortable around you and realizes that she wants to bang you.
You have to game them. You have to maintain and develop the attraction and comfort. If you suspect a student wants to bang you, talk to her, subtly flirt with her.
The ones who want to bang you will consistently and regularly make eye contact with you, talk to you, and hang around you. These are young girls and they don't know how to hide their feelings very well. If they like you, they will give you attention.
If they don't like you, they will not give you any attention. Its really that simple. Identify the ones giving you attention and develop those relationships. When the semester is almost over, drop hints that you guys should hang out off campus.
I used to take a free salsa class on campus because one of my students set it up and this gave me a good excuse to dance with my students.
I also used to work out in the campus gym with many of my students.
Game them! Just be subtle about it! The ones who like you will game you back!
Also, I would usually ignore the good looking girls for the first 2-3 months of the semester. That strategy worked well for me. You want them to chase you, not vice versa.
Would you strategy be different if you were teaching a 100+ student lecture class? That's what I am doing right now, meaning there is rarely time for one on one interaction with a girl.
Quote: (10-25-2012 04:15 AM)anewtypedude Wrote:
Would you strategy be different if you were teaching a 100+ student lecture class? That's what I am doing right now, meaning there is rarely time for one on one interaction with a girl.
Professor Anewtypedude,
Start with your appearance. Dress sharp. Hair cut, etc. When you are talking to the class, you are gaming them. You are projecting your confidence, wit, humor, etc. Jokes are always good! This is your chance to display yourself. You have to present yourself in an attractive way.
That is really the question here..Are you presenting yourself in an attractive way or not? How could you do better?
How are you doing in these areas?
1. Looking good (clothes, grooming)
2. Speaking in an attractive way (calm, stimulating, funny, interesting)(attractive, masculine tone of voice)
3. Displaying your best personality (not displaying your beta habits)(keeping a strong frame under pressure)
4. Dropping bait (insights from your life that display "coolness", travel, high end events, funny gf stories, etc.)
Have any bangable girls come to your office or emailed you?
I do or have tried to do all of these things. Sometimes I think I am overgaming in class because one nontraditional student (an old dude) tried to report me for hostile environment sexual harrassment because apparently I used some mild sexual innuendo that was too much for him to handle. My teaching supervisor warned me years ago before I started teaching: "don't try anything funny with a student" because apparently it was written on my forehead and my current supervisor is watching me like a hawk because of that.
With my smaller classes in the past I frequently have students come and visit me. But I never dared to try anything with them during the semester because I am paranoid that my supervisor is always watching me, even when one girl literally tried to rub herself against me, I just insinuated that she should probably wait until after the semester is over or when she graduates. One professor in our department got fired couple years back for trying to date a student and everyone has been pretty paranoid since then.
I did once hang out with a former student a couple of times, then she told me that one of her guy friends who was also in my class is pissed because she is hanging out with me. I was like "you told your friends that you came to hang out with me!?". And that was the end of that. She was bangable too but I wasn't going to let that gossiping ho ruin my career.
The thing is, when semester ends, I usually don't hear back from my flirtatious students again. Like you said, I let them chase me and I don't ever pursue because job > pussy, but they stop chasing once semester ends. Your advices are helpful but I understand that I do need better logistics. The problem with being in this position is that it is much easier to bang them during the semester than after, but also much riskier. When you were banging your current students at the time (if you did), did you just not care if you get into trouble?
With my smaller classes in the past I frequently have students come and visit me. But I never dared to try anything with them during the semester because I am paranoid that my supervisor is always watching me, even when one girl literally tried to rub herself against me, I just insinuated that she should probably wait until after the semester is over or when she graduates. One professor in our department got fired couple years back for trying to date a student and everyone has been pretty paranoid since then.
I did once hang out with a former student a couple of times, then she told me that one of her guy friends who was also in my class is pissed because she is hanging out with me. I was like "you told your friends that you came to hang out with me!?". And that was the end of that. She was bangable too but I wasn't going to let that gossiping ho ruin my career.
The thing is, when semester ends, I usually don't hear back from my flirtatious students again. Like you said, I let them chase me and I don't ever pursue because job > pussy, but they stop chasing once semester ends. Your advices are helpful but I understand that I do need better logistics. The problem with being in this position is that it is much easier to bang them during the semester than after, but also much riskier. When you were banging your current students at the time (if you did), did you just not care if you get into trouble?
My buddy is banging an assistant principal right now. I'm jealous.
"...it's the quiet cool...it's for someone who's been through the struggle and come out on the other side smelling like money and pussy."
"put her in the taxi, put her number in the trash can"
Quote: (10-26-2012 06:43 AM)anewtypedude Wrote:
I do or have tried to do all of these things. Sometimes I think I am overgaming in class because one nontraditional student (an old dude) tried to report me for hostile environment sexual harrassment because apparently I used some mild sexual innuendo that was too much for him to handle. My teaching supervisor warned me years ago before I started teaching: "don't try anything funny with a student" because apparently it was written on my forehead and my current supervisor is watching me like a hawk because of that.
With my smaller classes in the past I frequently have students come and visit me. But I never dared to try anything with them during the semester because I am paranoid that my supervisor is always watching me, even when one girl literally tried to rub herself against me, I just insinuated that she should probably wait until after the semester is over or when she graduates. One professor in our department got fired couple years back for trying to date a student and everyone has been pretty paranoid since then.
I did once hang out with a former student a couple of times, then she told me that one of her guy friends who was also in my class is pissed because she is hanging out with me. I was like "you told your friends that you came to hang out with me!?". And that was the end of that. She was bangable too but I wasn't going to let that gossiping ho ruin my career.
The thing is, when semester ends, I usually don't hear back from my flirtatious students again. Like you said, I let them chase me and I don't ever pursue because job > pussy, but they stop chasing once semester ends. Your advices are helpful but I understand that I do need better logistics. The problem with being in this position is that it is much easier to bang them during the semester than after, but also much riskier. When you were banging your current students at the time (if you did), did you just not care if you get into trouble?
Damn! It sounds like you are in a tough position. Some schools are tougher then others. Some schools try to discourage interactions between students and teachers, some schools don't worry about it so much. You do have to be careful.
Honestly, I didn't care if I got caught. I was not breaking any laws so I wasn't worried about getting in trouble. I knew I could lose my job but I wanted to get out of education anyways, so fear of losing my job didn't stop me.
In your case, it sounds like you are doing just about everything you can. Dressing sharp, speaking well, being funny and interesting, and subtley flirting. Maybe you can be a bit more agressive? Especielly, towards the end of the semester. The last month of school I really games hard. I tried to bait them into inviting me out.
Once, I was trying to bang my student secretary, I took her to lunch but I also invited her ugly assistant. This way it didn't look like a date, it was an office lunch. This was in the last few weeks of school.
Another student that I wanted to bang was organizing salsa classes. I would occasionally stop by and dance. during the last few weeks of school I started going almost everytime and dancing with my target. This was an on campus event so it raised no flags.
Honestly, since you can't really game them, you have to drop alot of bait and encourage them to game you!
The students that I banged pursued me just as much as I persued them.
One thing that I did that helped me is I tried to have personal conversations with the girls. I tried to find something in common that we could connect over. One girl was a swimmer, we talked about swimming and how we love to hang out by the pool. Another girl loved to eat and we always talked about the dishes we made. Another one was just a freak with daddy issues.
Fuck! Banging your students is tough because its not worth the risk. But, I would not give up if I were you. What can you do to appear more attractive to your students? What can you do to drop better bait to get them curious about you? What can you do to get more one on one time with them?
It's tough but its a fun game challenge.
Think of ways that you can be a little more agressive but while maintaining plausible deniability!
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