You guys are gonna call me a bum but...This is more my style...
Long board shorts that are hard to find, exotic t-shirts or sweatshirts that no one else has, and a rare hat..
Yes, I'm a beach bum.
I want stuff that no one else around here has. I like the stuff from Hawaii, Australia, or Brazil.
This is my style. No pressure, no stress. And, that is also my vibe with women. I don't wanna marry her, I don't wanna take her out to dinner, I don't want to meet her parents, I just want to smoke a bowl with her and bang her, maybe get a few fish tacos and talk about music, comedy, and TMZ.
I leave the fancy clothes and the wining and dining for other guys. I don't want to have to keep up that image. I let her know from the beginning that I'm not the guy who is gonna try to impress her and take her to her office holiday party. I'm the guy to just come and chill with. When the world is stressing her out, she can come see me to relax.
I'm not about more clothes, I'm about less clothes.
Of course, When I need to dress up I can. And I look like Leonardo Dicaprio in "Titanic" when he put a tuxedo on and nobody recognized him. I like doing that because it gives me more "pop" and "flair". If you always see me in shorts and t's and then once in a while, you see me in nice suit, sweater, and slacks, if has a better effect then if I dressed like that all the time.
My look fits my lifestyle and budget and allows me to operate successfully in the "fishbowls" I swim in. In a few years I will probably start dressing more like what we see in this thread.