^Did you really think that gym girl was going to sleep with you like that? Would that have worked where you live.
Just asking, not criticizing.
Just asking, not criticizing.
Quote: (08-28-2017 10:31 AM)corsega Wrote:
Quote: (08-23-2017 01:14 PM)corsega Wrote:
Quote: (08-20-2017 10:07 AM)Lermontov Wrote:
Quote: (08-20-2017 08:30 AM)corsega Wrote:
Any Tinder-specific advice for an American guy visiting Montreal for 7 days? Every city's Tinder culture is different, trying to get a feel for Montreal.
Do girls respond to directness/sexual messages?
Is it OK to say you're just visiting or are they tired of tourists?
I speak French.
I hope that you are very good looking and have great pictures, or else you'd better walk around Mont-Royal / Saint-Denis streets, around laurier street/laurier park and cold approach every cute girl you see, the ROI will probably be much higher than spending time on Tinder in Montreal. I live in that area and always see many cute girls passing infront of my place when it's sunny, it's shocking.
On Tinder, I'd go direct and say I'm visiting, personnally. Good luck.
Not good looking, but do have good photos.
I've not ever been to a city where daygame approaches were higher ROI than Tinder. Especially since I work most of the day whenever I travel.
Findings from a week in Montreal: it's almost impossible to bang a decent-looking girl while you're on vacation in a touristy city unless you're Chad. Especially with bad logistics (I was sharing a room so I had to find a girl that could host).
50 Tinder matches, 2 Bumble messages, and opened 50+ girls on Instagram the week I was there.
Had two 6s that were into it but wouldn't see me because they weren't looking for a hookup and I was just visiting. 6 girls (all average-looking) responded positively to DTF opener. Made plans with one but she lived with her family so I bailed.
Had a 5 I messaged on Instagram drive 20 minutes to pick me up from my apartment, take me to her gym and work out with her, nothing happened because she lived with her family and my bad logistics, she wasn't down to have sex in public even though I tried to escalate.
As Murphy's Law dictates, had three girls down to meet the night I ended up leaving early. One even opened me on Instagram. Never happens.
Quote: (08-28-2017 06:10 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
^Did you really think that gym girl was going to sleep with you like that? Would that have worked where you live.
Just asking, not criticizing.
Quote: (08-29-2017 11:54 AM)Lermontov Wrote:
Thank you for sharing your experience Corsega.
About how many hours did you spend on Tinder, bumble and instagram overall for Montreal?
Did you use boosts on Tinder?
Quote: (09-04-2017 10:50 AM)kosko Wrote:
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Why were you not approaching girls directly Corsega?
How bad where your logistics, what part of the island?
You mention lots of girls that lived with parents, your age? Are you a younger cat?
You speak French which gives you an advantage if many other tourists, why didn't you use this to your advantage?
Also a 6/100 conversation ratio is terrible, you could have approached 6 girls every single day while you were there. I understand you had your already established schedule, and your own data that shows Tinder as preferable, but Montreal is a different animal. It isn't like other North America cities as the women all have a different vibe there.
Also, 7 days is lots. You could of easily pretended you just moved there and set up multiple dates with girls.
Why can't people just tell a little lie? Girls lie to dudes all the time, who cares. Just tell girls you recently moved to MTL and are still searching for an apartment for Sept if they ask.
In the end Corsega-- you would of been wise to filter girls with logistics and set up dates for the evening post work. You would of converted those girls that nice into bangs or set it up for a weekend slam dunk or fallbscknplan after swooping in public.
Quote: (05-16-2018 05:53 PM)Bikal Wrote:
Anyone been to Montréal during the winter as there's a 90% chance I'll be there in January (from UK) for a wedding, is it worth staying a week or two after wedding considering the cold, I can think of many sights/activities I can see/do plus some skiing in Bremont but game wise, is it worth staying longer?
Quote: (11-21-2018 03:26 PM)PakMan Wrote:
Montreal is my favorite city in NA and I was born and raised in NYC. Compared to NYC, the women in Montreal are so much more feminine and friendly. ONS are not as easy NYC but I would say ONS are more difficult anywhere outside of USA. Frankly, women respect their femininity more everywhere outside of this country.
In terms of how well Americans are received in Montreal, what I've heard often from women and people in general is that they like NY'ers but don't like Americans. I realize how stupid that sounds and I think that mentality comes partly from stereotypes of 'typical' Americans (e.g. overweight, obnoxious, ignorant, frat boy, etc.) and partly from experience. I'm a well put together Pakistani dude and have traveled there in groups including friends that are white/black/Asian/Spanish and we've all done well. As in most places, cocky funny works well but being a gentleman goes a long way here. And of course, there's a ton of strip clubs there with many of the dancers there being 'regular' women who don't mind partying with or even dating 'clients' without a transaction involved (except of course the usual gentleman's club transactions).
In terms of where to go, there's many options but my favorite was Santos in Old Montreal. A more mature crowd and a bit upscale but a great place to chat up girls if your game involves a lot of conversation. Generally speaking, bar hopping in Old Montreal is always a good bet.
Another place is this spot called Buonanotte on St. Laurent. Restaurant that turns into a club at night. Most unbelievably gorgeous bartenders/waitresses/hostesses that I've ever seen. Crowd is mixed as it gets everything from college kids to young professionals to older folks and everything in between.
All in all, I think Montreal has some of the hottest chicks per square mile than anywhere else in North America (I know some people are gonna yell Miami and NYC), but for me, Montreal takes the prize. It has the same level of diversity as NYC with half the attitude, can't beat that in my humble opinion.
Quote: (08-31-2017 12:32 PM)casa-nostra Wrote:
Quote: (08-28-2017 10:31 AM)corsega Wrote:
Quote: (08-23-2017 01:14 PM)corsega Wrote:
Quote: (08-20-2017 10:07 AM)Lermontov Wrote:
Quote: (08-20-2017 08:30 AM)corsega Wrote:
Any Tinder-specific advice for an American guy visiting Montreal for 7 days? Every city's Tinder culture is different, trying to get a feel for Montreal.
Do girls respond to directness/sexual messages?
Is it OK to say you're just visiting or are they tired of tourists?
I speak French.
I hope that you are very good looking and have great pictures, or else you'd better walk around Mont-Royal / Saint-Denis streets, around laurier street/laurier park and cold approach every cute girl you see, the ROI will probably be much higher than spending time on Tinder in Montreal. I live in that area and always see many cute girls passing infront of my place when it's sunny, it's shocking.
On Tinder, I'd go direct and say I'm visiting, personnally. Good luck.
Not good looking, but do have good photos.
I've not ever been to a city where daygame approaches were higher ROI than Tinder. Especially since I work most of the day whenever I travel.
Findings from a week in Montreal: it's almost impossible to bang a decent-looking girl while you're on vacation in a touristy city unless you're Chad. Especially with bad logistics (I was sharing a room so I had to find a girl that could host).
50 Tinder matches, 2 Bumble messages, and opened 50+ girls on Instagram the week I was there.
Had two 6s that were into it but wouldn't see me because they weren't looking for a hookup and I was just visiting. 6 girls (all average-looking) responded positively to DTF opener. Made plans with one but she lived with her family so I bailed.
Had a 5 I messaged on Instagram drive 20 minutes to pick me up from my apartment, take me to her gym and work out with her, nothing happened because she lived with her family and my bad logistics, she wasn't down to have sex in public even though I tried to escalate.
As Murphy's Law dictates, had three girls down to meet the night I ended up leaving early. One even opened me on Instagram. Never happens.
Your experience is close to mine , Montreal is the hardest city for bangs in North America, you should know that girls here take the lead , they will refuse hook up for sure and they will date many times and if you do even a simple mistake they will leave you. They have plenty of choices.
Also you get lucky , you didnt try Montreal nightlife , you will hate this city more and more.
Hook up still possibl in MTL though , sometimes you can find girls coming from anglosphere part of Canada or US . Those are more open and liberal about casual sex .
For some reasons i have to stay in Quebec , i am planing to move to QUEBEC CITY , do anyone here lived or visited there ? are girls easier and different than those Montreal bitches ?
Quote: (09-04-2017 01:23 PM)NKD Wrote:
Tinder in Montreal is just horrible during summer months, in winter the results tend to be better (Still not that great)
Also being American doesn't help at all! Either Quebecer or Arab or Black... Other than that, forget it. Arabs have the least success tho!
Forum members here are just abit deluded, since day game or even night game leads to nowhere in that city.
You also said you speak french, makes no difference because once they see you don't have the Quebec accent .. it's game over. If you've actually interacted with the people from the French community (From France) they would tell you that they never get along with Quebecers. The french accent is actually going to be a problem more than an advantage.
It's a tough city, I consider it a waste of time and money. Better chance To get laid in Saudi Arabia than Montreal.. sarcasm ofc but trying to send a message