When it comes down to it, sexual relationships fall into two categories.
Fenced - based on the concept of sexual ownership like a conventional bf / gf or husband / wife relationship
Un-fenced - a relationship where both parties know that they are free to do what they want with other people (I dont really like the term open relationship) and permission to hook up with other people is not required
Curious as to what you prefer for LTRs and why?
Does it depend on how much you like the girl?
Do you mix the two for example by having a fenced relationship but cheating?
BTW I realise that society does not promote un-fenced for LTRs and heavily promotes (you might say insists) only fenced for LTRs but, personally, I have many, many sucessful un-fenced LTRs running right now and would never dream of going back to fenced hence the question.
Please post the reasons for your preference in the thread if you are going to vote.
Fenced - based on the concept of sexual ownership like a conventional bf / gf or husband / wife relationship
Un-fenced - a relationship where both parties know that they are free to do what they want with other people (I dont really like the term open relationship) and permission to hook up with other people is not required
Curious as to what you prefer for LTRs and why?
Does it depend on how much you like the girl?
Do you mix the two for example by having a fenced relationship but cheating?
BTW I realise that society does not promote un-fenced for LTRs and heavily promotes (you might say insists) only fenced for LTRs but, personally, I have many, many sucessful un-fenced LTRs running right now and would never dream of going back to fenced hence the question.
Please post the reasons for your preference in the thread if you are going to vote.