Hey guys, I had a fairly simple question regarding PoF/online dating. Well two questions really. Question 1: I've had very little luck on the site, and from what I've read from other people here makes it sound like they can get a girl to go out with from it every so often. Well I've sent out messages to over 50 different girls, I've gotten somewhere around 10 replies back, around 5 that went on for more than one message, and around 3 that seemed pretty interested. My issue is that before I can ask for the number, a few messages in, I just get cut off and stop hearing from them anymore. They just don't reply to whatever message I sent them last. So my question is: How is everyone's experience with this? Is this just normal for people to just stop replying after seeming interested? Out of 50+ messages I've gotten 1 number so far.
I should note that I'm a decent-good looking guy and send messages with eye catching subjects, and decently witty/funny messages that follow up with a question to get them more inclined to respond. Also I feel I have a pretty good/funny profile. I only say this because I'm pretty certain my profile and messages aren't the issue compared to all the boring guys on that site.
Question 2: There's 2-3 girls that seemed pretty interested, and even clicked the "meet me" button, but just stopped replying a few messages in. What would a good "restart" message to send to someone who never responded to your last message/didn't answer your last question? I understand this better for texting, but not so much for someone you haven't yet met and gotten a number from online.
Was just curious if anyone had any advice or experience with this. Slightly considering just giving the whole online thing up as it doesn't seem to yeild much, unless I'm doing something wrong.
I should note that I'm a decent-good looking guy and send messages with eye catching subjects, and decently witty/funny messages that follow up with a question to get them more inclined to respond. Also I feel I have a pretty good/funny profile. I only say this because I'm pretty certain my profile and messages aren't the issue compared to all the boring guys on that site.
Question 2: There's 2-3 girls that seemed pretty interested, and even clicked the "meet me" button, but just stopped replying a few messages in. What would a good "restart" message to send to someone who never responded to your last message/didn't answer your last question? I understand this better for texting, but not so much for someone you haven't yet met and gotten a number from online.
Was just curious if anyone had any advice or experience with this. Slightly considering just giving the whole online thing up as it doesn't seem to yeild much, unless I'm doing something wrong.