So, just recieved Daybang. Its great material that actually adresses issues I was having with my day approaches before hand, namely jumping too quickly to personal topics...
I'm in graduate school, which means that I already spend a lot of time in coffee shops studying and writing papers. One problem that I'm wondering about is what to do about girls who are wearing headphones, which seems to be the case with about 60% of girls I see alone.
Certain girls have headphones in and appear completely fixated in their work, so these girls I probably would not open. But I've noticed plenty of girls wearing headphones that look around, stare into space, in other words show signs they are bored and might be open to a chat.
What's the best way to not 'scare the cat' in this circumstance. It seems like it might be too intrusive to tap her on the shoulder and ask her what she's working on or how she likes her laptop.
I could ask her what she's listening to, but that might be too personal.
Any suggestions on how to handle this very common situation?
Thanks,
J
I'm in graduate school, which means that I already spend a lot of time in coffee shops studying and writing papers. One problem that I'm wondering about is what to do about girls who are wearing headphones, which seems to be the case with about 60% of girls I see alone.
Certain girls have headphones in and appear completely fixated in their work, so these girls I probably would not open. But I've noticed plenty of girls wearing headphones that look around, stare into space, in other words show signs they are bored and might be open to a chat.
What's the best way to not 'scare the cat' in this circumstance. It seems like it might be too intrusive to tap her on the shoulder and ask her what she's working on or how she likes her laptop.
I could ask her what she's listening to, but that might be too personal.
Any suggestions on how to handle this very common situation?
Thanks,
J