[CupCake]

I'm recently 28 and I live right next to a major university. I've tried touring the campus on a sunny day last year and making on sunbathing girls, but it just felt awkward. Never went back.

Maybe it's all in my head but I fell like I'm...too old. I know that's not true but you know how college girls are. I figure I could always claim to be looking into the grad program as a cover, but I still feel like I can't connect to these girls very easily.

Any tips for the college campuses or college parties/events for us older dudes? I have a particularly difficult time opening college girls in groups. They seem to intentionally make things awkward, like no one wants to be the first to approve of my presence.

It's football season and I know the time's right to make something happen!

[Chad Daring]

You're not old, you're mature, women like mature. Open them like normal and use them being younger to your advantage. Hell I'm looking forward to a few years from now when I can use my age as an advantage.

[velkrum]

(09-25-2011 03:33 PM)CupCake Wrote:  

They seem to intentionally make things awkward, like no one wants to be the first to approve of my presence.

It's football season and I know the time's right to make something happen!

28 is young. It's all about how you look, Self Esteem and game. Greater emphasis on looks, especially muscles.

You sound like the type of guy that needs a lot of self improvement so start talking to women who don't intimidate you. develop your game.

A high level of fitness should be a given.

[BetaNoob]

I feel your pain as I'm 33 and live in a major college town. The hotties seem to mostly like frat boys that are like 6'2. I'm 5'11 and pretty average looking so I hired a personal trainer and am working out like a mofo. If I can't catch their height, at least I can have a better body. I'm also looking to move to a larger city that doesn't revolve around a university. I'm not mad at anyone. When I was 20, I thought 25 was old so I can definitely relate. I just seem to have better luck with the "hot" demographic in cities like Memphis or Atlanta where it's not all about what frat you are in.

[thegmanifesto]

Jesus.

Too old to get college girls at 28 years old?

Too short to get college girls at 5'11?

This is turning into a real "excuse-fest".

College girls are the easiest girls.

The only real problem with American colleges is the quality is low end. (Something everyone fails to mention).

Come back and complain when you are 50 years old and 5'2.

[Aliblahba]

Yeah 28 is prime time for college poon. I tore through Athens from 07-09 and it suddenly dropped off. I'm 35 now and the ROI got too low to fuck with. The maturity became an issue. I got a taste of Euro girls that were more mature, and could carry a convo on a subject other than Jersey Shore. The problem with college girls is I get older but they stay the same age. WTF?

[scorpio]

College girls value looks, bod, coolness. If you date/bang them, you got to get social proof from their friends.

Finally, these girls are incredibly immature, game-playing, and flakey-plus.

[Screwston]

I agree with gmanifesto. I've been seeing a bunch of excuses lately. I should be doing horrible with girls according to some guys on here. 5'8, skinny, not white. Just have some confidence and you can make magic happen cupcake.

[BetaNoob]

(09-25-2011 04:41 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Jesus.

Too old to get college girls at 28 years old?

Too short to get college girls at 5'11?

This is turning into a real "excuse-fest".

College girls are the easiest girls.

The only real problem with American colleges is the quality is low end. (Something everyone fails to mention).

Come back and complain when you are 50 years old and 5'2.

lamo, I can get college girls but there are some, like the top 10% hotties that I feel like are a waste of time. Those are the ones I want. I'm not here looking for advice on how to get average chicks. I want to get some where I wake up in the morning I'm like, holy shit! I pulled that? It happens occasionally but not nearly often enough.

[Chad Daring]

You dont read a book and join a forum and leap to the top.

[Saladin]

Dude, you're 28, don't tell me you can't dress and pretend that you're 21 or 22.
You have to make some guy friends with people in that age group and get them to take you to those college parties.
Its crazy how a guy with good game and a party vibe can run through a college party, I was out with a buddy of mine yesterday who has sharp game in a frat party and he made out with 6 girls and got a bj in the washroom all in the space of 30 minutes.

[Saladin]

Also for college social circle infiltration- http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-6501.html

Its a bit late but if you are a good enough actor you could still find out about these parties.

[Basil Ransom]

I just went to a college near me to study in the library, spit a couple lines at chicks near me. I met one in a cafe and have tentative plans to get drinks with her, solid 7.5 20 year old from a small town, in a sorority, and surprisingly nice and mature. I LOVE college campuses, and I'm surprisingly excited to get back in the college game. She may very well flake, but I'm hoping to get some bangs going. I started writing a brief guide to game on college campuses, as recent college graduate, to organize my thoughts, but I'm still figuring out my angle of approach.

Girls in top sororities are not usually worth the effort. They are brainwashed into thinking that it's taboo to hook up with anyone outside their circle. And a lot more of them sound dumb as rocks. Girls in mid tier sororities and below are less cliquish, and more open-minded. Girls with fewer friends are easier prospects.

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College girls value looks, bod, coolness. If you date/bang them, you got to get social proof from their friends.

Finally, these girls are incredibly immature, game-playing, and flakey-plus.

College girls vary so much that these generalizations aren't helpful, they're just an excuse not to game. Some girls won't seriously consider you if they don't know you, and some are very open minded.

Don't try to 'maximize your close rate.' You'll just get frustrated. I prefer the shotgun approach (not to be confused with the Gunwitch method :: ) When girls are in my space, I'll casually spit a line or two at them. If they decide to continue the convo, great. If not, peace. You're like the crusty dude at the bar who says something clever to everyone who comes up and orders a drink. A few people decide to stay and meet this enigmatic fellow, but most don't. You're cool either way.

This was my approach at college house parties. Maybe I talked to 5 girls, maybe 20 in a night, but I'd post up and talk to whoever walked in until I got in deep with a cute girl who liked me.

I have a little experience with college day game, and even met my only ex girlfriend doing it, but haven't done it for a year now. If you have any constructive questions, ask.

I'm wondering how I can get into the house party scene. Best bet is befriending a cool dude probably, but I don't see an easy way of going about that, i.e. how to provide value to a guy so that he'd provide his bitches on a platter to you. The alternative is get in good with a cute chick, sexually or platonically, and work off that.

[Dash Global]

28 old?!?!? wtf this is arguably the best age of your life.

you can still mack 18 years olds along with 38 year olds.

possibilities are endless.

[thegmanifesto]

(09-25-2011 10:56 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

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College girls value looks, bod, coolness. If you date/bang them, you got to get social proof from their friends.

Finally, these girls are incredibly immature, game-playing, and flakey-plus.

College girls vary so much that these generalizations aren't helpful, they're just an excuse not to game. Some girls won't seriously consider you if they don't know you, and some are very open minded.

Agreed.

"College Girls" aren't some monolithic voting block.

This may apply to 5% of all college girls.

[scorpio]

(09-25-2011 11:20 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(09-25-2011 10:56 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

Quote:

College girls value looks, bod, coolness. If you date/bang them, you got to get social proof from their friends.

Finally, these girls are incredibly immature, game-playing, and flakey-plus.

College girls vary so much that these generalizations aren't helpful, they're just an excuse not to game. Some girls won't seriously consider you if they don't know you, and some are very open minded.

Agreed.

"College Girls" aren't some monolithic voting block.

This may apply to 5% of all college girls.

You guys are right. I'm referring to the bitches I used to date in college.

[Sushifan]

I'm 42 and my gf is in college. She's half my age.

What's the issue?

Just go for it. Get rejected 99 times in a row if you have to...

[Giovonny]

Sushifan,

How did you meet her?

[iknowexactly]

at 50+, I am chief age whiner here, but at 28 you are fine. 18 year olds were checking me out well into my 40's.

Remember, if you are not a twisted perv yet who delights in making her bark like a dog or some other twisted stuff, you better get going because that's what they're itching for. ( I always wondered-- is the phrase "bark like a dog" redundant? I guess not, 'cause you could make her bark like a seal...)

18 year old girls are way more perverted than dumb, sexually mechanical 18 year old guys, They want some drama, to be made to call you "master" and stuff like that. When I was 30 I had a tiny blond who liked to ask to be spanked. She would roll over, dip her fingers in it, and hold them up to show me how wet it got her. When I was done with her ( actually she ditched me) she was habituated to anal and and explained how it gave her "incredible orgasms."

Just GETTING sex is too easy for them. The fun ones want it NASTY, and 18 year old guys are too shy/dumb/inexperienced or all three.

[Stun]

This sounds like a confidence issue to me for sure, unless for some reason you look MUCH older than your age. 28 is a perfect age for college girls. I was able to date girls in their early 20s well into my mid 30s, and even now in my late 30s it is not weird for me to date 25-28 yos.

I'm not wealthy, spectacularly good-looking, or built like a tank. If I can do it, you can do it.

And the thing about groups of college girls not making it easy for you to open - do you think they make it easy on any outsider? Unless you had massive social proof (e.g. on the college football team), it's not going to happen.

[ManAbout]

(09-25-2011 03:33 PM)CupCake Wrote:  

I'm recently 28 and I live right next to a major university. I've tried touring the campus on a sunny day last year and making on sunbathing girls, but it just felt awkward. Never went back.

A lot of universities have continuing education classes. Take a couple of courses, having a reason to be on campus besides just picking up girls will give you more confidence.

Or just meet them off campus. They don't spend ALL their time at the university. Hang out at a coffee shop near the campus. Many of them get part time jobs, start talking to the girls at the nearby shops.

Just this saturday I met a girl who goes to one of the universities in town. She has just moved to the city, and was working at the mall, her third day on the job. Talked to her for a bit, got her facebook and phone number.

[KingofScotland]

To me the 28 year old age bracket seems perfect (I'm not far off it), you're neither young nor old and can get with girls of all ages. Mature but not old fashioned, the younger girls won't think you're a creepy old man yet and the MILFs will still see you as a young toyboy.

[Pilgrim37]

(09-26-2011 02:30 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

at 50+, I am chief age whiner here, but at 28 you are fine. 18 year olds were checking me out well into my 40's.

Remember, if you are not a twisted perv yet who delights in making her bark like a dog or some other twisted stuff, you better get going because that's what they're itching for. ( I always wondered-- is the phrase "bark like a dog" redundant? I guess not, 'cause you could make her bark like a seal...)

18 year old girls are way more perverted than dumb, sexually mechanical 18 year old guys, They want some drama, to be made to call you "master" and stuff like that. When I was 30 I had a tiny blond who liked to ask to be spanked. She would roll over, dip her fingers in it, and hold them up to show me how wet it got her. When I was done with her ( actually she ditched me) she was habituated to anal and and explained how it gave her "incredible orgasms."

Just GETTING sex is too easy for them. The fun ones want it NASTY, and 18 year old guys are too shy/dumb/inexperienced or all three.

Agree completely...you need to take them to new sexual boundaries...love the look on their faces when they reach a new plateau of pleasure!

[bradz]

Ok here's a dumb question - you meet a co-ed at a bar - hit if off - but you can't take her back to you place (too far, roommates, girlfriend, whatever) - where do you take her? Try to go back to her dorm room? Best case scenario she lives off campus in her own apartment but you can't count on that...

Go for the BJ in the bushes? LOL.

[bradz]

This is funny - read this thread earlier today - have been trying to figure ways to nail a (any) college girl from a school I work by - so today I'm driving by the campus turning left behind a car - I cut the corenr a littel tight and holy $hit there is a [cute] girl right there! She was like "whoa!!" (not being a raging bitch - I think she was even smiling a little)and I'm yelling "so sorry!" as I drive on - man I should have flipped a bitch, jumped out and introduced myself as the guy who almost ran her over - offered to buy her a drink or something....

I'm always a minute late on thinking of the right thing to do/say. Need to be quicker.

What would you guys have done?