Quote: (09-20-2011 10:37 AM)Moma Wrote:
It is. And all this moaning about US, I don't think is true. For instance, my compadres in Florida NEVER complain about the low quality of lizards nor my peeps in Boston.
To all the members on the forum, all over the United States, do you see overweight women AS A MAJORITY in every single club or lounge you go to?
When I was in Miami, I saw nothing but dimes in the clubs. When I did encounter a fatty, I merely ignored her.
But if you stay in the same area all the time and you happen to be in a fat infested area, of course, you are going to colour your whole experience of the entire country based on the small snapshot you have.
Quote: (09-20-2011 04:56 PM)1bliss Wrote:
I agree with this. Moving and living in a country/city based on the women is beyond me. And saying one can't settle down in the USA is very vague. That's like saying an individual shouldn't visit Europe in general. The US is massive, and almost every state has its own culture and its own characteristics.
As much as I love foreign women who are the ideal wives, I personally would still live in NYC, Miami or Los Angeles over 99% of the other cities in the world. You can't forget, NYC for example is so multicultural. Every girl you meet, you gotta ask her where she's from and what her background is. There is wifey material everywhere in the world including the USA, and american cities in my opinion just seem to offer much much more on top of that than any other cities in the world. They are just more advanced, more developed.
To each their own.
Quote: (09-20-2011 04:35 PM)Ohiogang Wrote:
Quote: (09-20-2011 12:38 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:
Whale-ism is probably more [negatively] correlated with socio-economic status than country or state.
I know when I visited a friend whose job was video-taping Harvard classes the chicks were way, way hotter than American average.
I thought to myself, "There must be a photo required with applications here" and I think there is. There was like one token homely girl who was probably so freaking smart they couldn't rationalize not letting her in.
I thought Harvard wasn't known for having hot girls?
It isn't. The Ivy League is generally a very poor place for game, and the quality of women is usually well below what you find at typical state schools. Of course, there is some variation (ex: Some will argue that Yale girls are hotter than Dartmouth chicks, Columbia chicks hotter than Cornellians, etc.), but this rule generally holds. The girls here are also not not very easy to game, especially if you look a certain way.
Don't get me wrong, there are hot girls at these schools. The problem is that a) the hottest girl at Penn/Cornell/Harvard/etc is usually not as hot as the top tier at other schools, b) these hot girls are a lower percentage of the population than at other schools and c) these few hot girls are very hard to get to due to a combination of their relative scarcity within their college environments, their smarts, and their socio-economic status (read: they are almost uniformly solid upper-middle class or above-socio-economic diversity is not that common at many Ivies, though some, like Harvard, do it slightly better than others).
I should especially focus on the class argument, because that is huge. These girls aren't going to fuck with just anybody. They have plans, and they live in a very different world than what you and I are likely used to. In this world, "facetime" is god, and perception is everything. They will not link up with men below their station, even casually.
If you are a black male (as I understand Moma is) and you a) did not attend a prep school/elite private school, b) don't come from a household income in the top 2% or higher and c) haven't been exposed to this society for much of your early life (enough to seamlessly blend into it), expect an uphill battle. Girls here will avoid you even if they like you.
Exceptions to this rule usually meet at least one (usually more) of the criteria above or have absolutely air-tight game (not just good, I'm talking
elite-only 1-2 guys I've seen here have this, and even they complain of difficulty) and/or status (example: all-conference linebacker or something).
I am currently an Ivy Leaguer...I should know all of this. Don't want to de-rail this thread any further, so if you want more in-depth detail about dating in the Ivies
you can check this thread. I wrote all you need to know in there.
I challenge anyone who disagrees with me to come to one of these schools and live the life of a normal student. Give him a few months here and he'll see things my way.
If you want meet/date/bang hot young college chicks, go to The College of Charleston, James Madison, Villanova, UC-Santa Barbara, Chico State, ASU or NYU (with its 70-30 male/female ratio). If you're a black or hispanic guy, pull a MiXX and head up to schools out in the northern American plains(North Dakota State, South Dakota State, UND, USD, Bemidji State, etc) where you
might just get raped.
Ivies should be your second to last choices, coming just before engineering schools like MIT or Caltech, and maybe West Point (sausagefest).