[Dalaran1991]

There's an interesting exception to this rule. It's when a girl you bang complaining to you about other guys piss-poor attempt to impress her. All this after you just fuck her brain out.

Since a lot of the time I know the guys she is talking about, this becomes extremely amusing listening about their hilarious fail. I do however wonder if I should cut it out before it becomes a habit?

[StrikeBack]

Cut it out, because the frame is wrong. She is putting herself up there as the one to be impressed, and rewarding you for being the best at pleasing her. It is a classic trap because in our hubris, we can easily get carried away with feeling so much better than other men, and forget that we are dancing to her tunes.

The right frame should be that she is worried if she is better than all the girls you have been with.

[Dalaran1991]

(12-24-2017 07:09 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

Cut it out, because the frame is wrong. She is putting herself up there as the one to be impressed, and rewarding you for being the best at pleasing her. It is a classic trap because in our hubris, we can easily get carried away with feeling so much better than other men, and forget that we are dancing to her tunes.

The right frame should be that she is worried if she is better than all the girls you have been with.

Thanks for the reminder Strikeback, this is what I was worried of getting caught up in. It aint about the girls, but our own hubris bite us in the ass everytime.

I was thinking that she is doing it as an indirect way of qualifying herself to me "look at all the guys who want to sleep with me, yet I chose you", but ultimately the frame is wrong. When she is around you no guys should even exist in her reality is the correct frame.

[MajorStyles]

(12-24-2017 04:22 AM)Akwesi Wrote:  

(12-23-2017 11:56 AM)MajorStyles Wrote:  

I love it when women complain, because that gives me the opportunity to be the biggest prick that I can be: i.e. ignore, agree and amplify, talk shit, etc. In short, it's like a personal challenge. A chance for me to shine as an asshole...

And invariably, I'm always rewarded. It's like women have put out a personal request with their bitching. And the question lingers: Do you have the courage to call me on my shit? Are you man enough to put me in my place? My answer is always the same: Yes! Yes! Yes! I can do it...and do it well. Ultimately, after the complaining has ended, I'm smashing it like a champ. As somebody once said (perhaps on this forum), "Always make her apologize with your c*ck in her mouth!" So true! Not even Aristotle could have said it better. The Manosphere is often more salient than the greatest wisdom of the ancients.

You have to learn this shit as a man. Don't run to the store and buy her roses and flowers, trying to quell the storm. Be a prick, stand tall, and remain cold and heartless. Then watch as the coins drop forth like a slot machine hitting the jackpot.

Great post, I know what you mean. Would love to hear some concrete examples of your tactics.

It's more about a Weltanschauung (comprehensive world view). Something that emanates from the pit of my stomach; in short, a mixture of love and disdain for women, accompanied by a relative ease at slipping between these two feelings. There is no conflict about the opposition.

When a woman starts bitching, I usually do the following: stay silent, stern in countenance, and emotionally detach myself from the situation. I'm like a father, objectively observing a misbehaving daughter. I might nod, offer a terse word or two...but nothing more.

Eventually, after they see my "controlled apathy" is continuing, they do away with their nonsense. Note that, by contrast, the average woman or beta man would be stumbling over themselves to assuage the situation with pretty lies and half-truths.

[Mufasa]

(12-17-2017 03:06 PM)blck Wrote:  

(12-17-2017 11:22 AM)puckerman Wrote:  

This was the first time I ever called out a woman on this. Women love to do this with men whom they don't respect.

How did this worked for you ? Would you do it again ?

Well. I always call a woman on her bullshit everytime. Insults go over well. With my current main chick I am constantly teasing her and making fun of her. I routinely "jokingly" tell her that everyone else in her life lies and fawns over her and that I have to be the one to bring her down to earth. When she tries to get mad at me I tell her she is full of shit and not really mad at me.

The idea is that women are full psychological skills making them biologically extremely capable of navigating life than they say and let on. Essentially a faux wolf in sheep's clothes. So anytime a woman tries to sell me something contrary I call them out on it. Respect, standing out from the crowd, and not fearing a woman's opinion will do great things for you--any single girl is not getting this in her life, let it be you.

Some of these girls will turn you down but if I run into them later I make sure to bring it up, call them out on their bullshit if they have friends present its bonus points--they will almost be in a rush to right themselves in their friends and your eyes.
On several occasions I have befriended a girls guy & girl friends only to have the girl show up later. Girls fearing awkwardness and social opinion will always try to play nice. I call her out on how she didn't respond to texts, flakes, etc whatever, shits going to make her look very bad especially if you have won the friends over. The girls will always change their tune and try to make right by me

Of course I don't do any of this with anger. Its all said nonchalantly in a joking manner with a smile on my face. If there is an inkling of bitch assness or buthurt it doesnt work.