Quote: (09-08-2011 06:19 PM)Blackhawk Wrote:
There's also a whole social class thing here.
Lower class people own each other. Their relationships are about what people owe you and what you owe them: A place to sleep, a meal, babysitting, hand me downs.
Middle class people have money. They keep it in a bank. They can move anywhere they like, and still draw money out of the ATM, use credit cards, etc. where ever they move.
Lower class people are very immobile. For a lower class person the idea of moving and leaving behind all the people who owe them is like losing a bank account would be to a middle class person. The lower class, particular the inter-generational poverty class, will remain clinging to a bad situation rather than walk away, because that's the currency of their lives.
That's why whores stay with pimps. It has nothing to do with being alpha, and everything to do with being lower class.
Most of Ruby K Payne's work is about these differences: http://www.amazon.com/Ruby-K.-Payne/e/B001JOWHRK
"A Framework for Understanding Poverty" is the most widely read.
When you start talking about owning women, recognize you're descending down the social ladder.
And ownership is a package deal: Just like owning any other pet, there's a whole web of responsibility, social contract and commitments that you're getting yourself into, much of which you may be unaware of yet. Many men here have looked at this before, and decided its a sucky deal.
This is a very interesting post! I can't say I agree with all of it but I was thinking alot of the same things.
Not all pimps have Game. Many of them rule through violence.
Its just like saying a slave master has Game because he can control a female slave, of course she obeys him, if she doesn't, she will get beaten, tortured, and raped. Thats not Game, thats gorilla pimping.
If I knocked my girls teeth out and burned her with cigarettes, I would have more control over her too. Especially, if she was a drugged addicted runaway who was raped by her uncle at age 9.
Obviously, we can learn a few things from pimps, namely, target selection, dressing with flair, swag, confidence, use of languane and delivery, and belief in self.
But, the image of the good looking, well dressed, smooth talking pimp is mostly a Hollywood creation.
Most these guys are hardened street cats trying to make a living the only way they know how.
My dad used to have a few hoes. It didnt look very appealing. Staying up all night, trying not to go to jail, low lives everywhere.
Its like being a stay at home husband were your wife works nights as a prostitute. Thats really what it is. You are their man. You have to house them, feed them, clothe them, support them.
Its like a marriage, to a hooker.
Some of these guys are respectable, but most of them are low lives. They prey on the weakest people in society. Vulnerable little girls who have been abused and have no one to protect them.
Alot of them fall in love with their hoes. Alot of them split the money 50/50 or whatever. Its a real relationship between a man and woman.
Both my dads hoes were raped by their father as kids. One died of Aids, the other is nasty, drugged out hoe now. They were both beautiful in there 20's.
Quote: (09-09-2011 12:37 AM)ersatz Wrote:
emotional dependency game is fucking draining and time consuming,
I agree. Pimping can be worse then marriage.
Quote: (09-09-2011 12:37 AM)ersatz Wrote:
It's also fucking evil.
I don't know if its evil but its definitely not a very nice thing to do.
Pimping get glorified by the media but its really some low down grimey shit.
Also, I realize that some girls do want to be hookers. Its a choice they make. Some are just born hoes.
If you want to go further down the "rabbit hole" of Game. Women can be beaten into submission.
All this alpha
domination shit can lead to the Dark Side of the Game.
Pimps use violence because it works. Girls like to be dominated. There is a fine line between Gaming and exploiting.
Its like Luke Skywalker and Darth Vader shit.