Quote: (07-07-2017 03:39 PM)april6e Wrote:
Quote: (07-07-2017 08:00 AM)heavy Wrote:
april6e, 8 of 20 posts are your own threads started.
Why don't you participate in more threads, rather than starting a bunch of your own?
I'm confused. As a beginner, what would I have to share? If there is some thread like "Where are you from?", I could answer it but that has nothing to do with improving my game. I could write a novel on the hundreds of times I've been rejected but I doubt that would be of use to anyone.
Call me out if I'm out of line, but all the threads I'm making are asking legitimate questions. It's not like I'm spamming the forum whining. I'm asking specific questions whose answers would not only benefit me but any other newbie who is in the same situation. You seem to be implying that you are bothered by me asking game questions on a game forum.
Thanks to everyone else who posted, I saw your stuff.
Some of the questions are not a problem.
Some of the simpler questions might be a problem because you could do a few searches and find the answer.
The bigger problem is that you are starting new threads when you could put your questions in existing threads. Finding and reading those threads will teach you many of the things you need to know. You don't seem to be trying to learn much from the forum other than having people answer your specific questions and that goes against the culture here.
In some cases you should include your questions in a related thread instead of starting new threads. For example, this thread and the thread you started yesterday about Field Reports are just an extension of the challenges you talked about in your 2014 thread "Giant Intimacy Problem" so you could have just bumped that thread.
Most guys here want to help you. I want to help you. But you have to be able to help yourself. It's apparent that you have a long way to go. You will have to really think about what you are doing wrong and more importantly learn about what women are thinking and feeling. Nobody can give you a script with the exact 34 steps on how to escalate with a women. It doesn't work like that. Women aren't computer programs. Even if we had that script, we probably wouldn't give it to you unless you did something more than just show up and ask for it.
There is a relationship between your lack of understanding of the culture here and your challenges with women. It's more than just starting new threads unnecessarily. You don't understand why this thread goes in the newbie section, or how you could contribute to the forum even though you are a beginner, or how writing about your rejections is one of the best things you could do on this forum to improve your game.
Let me be clear about this. I'm not trying to give you a hard time about not understanding the forum's culture. I'm trying to get you to think. Try to think instead of trying to find a script to follow. How do these things relate? What is the relationship between your lack of understanding of this forum's culture and your challenges with women?