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08-29-2011, 04:05 PM
Just a whole slew of "I forgot it's my cousin's/sister's/brother's/uncle's/whoever's birthday/graduation/funeral/etc"
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08-29-2011, 04:13 PM
My favorite one was "some shit went down".
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08-29-2011, 04:20 PM
This one twice for me in the last 6 months. I meet a girl at the park or party with my kid with me..she has a kid also and we exchange numbers.
When it come to the wire both have flaked using this same excuse: My Son/Daughter is used to getting all the attention and he/she would feel threatened by your daughter.
"What? What the fuck is that? What kind of piece of fucking trash am I dealing with here? Who the? Where the fuck did you come from? Who the fuck raised you? Listen dude! I have no fucking idea whatever the fuck happened to you in your life but I'm glad that this happened this way so we didn't waste our time with a skank of your caliber!!"
^ My response both times more or less.
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08-29-2011, 04:21 PM
"My mom died"
I'm pretty sure she was lying, but I sent off a "i'm sorry to hear that" text and never contacted her again.
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08-29-2011, 04:38 PM
"my cat got scratched in the eye by my roommate's cat and I had to take him to the hospital"
This was my first experience with North American bullshyt so it took me a few moments to process such drivel.
It's the worse most bait line I ever heard in my life though.
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08-29-2011, 04:48 PM
"se me complica" literally it means "it got complicated for me" but it means "something came up, I can't make it"
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08-29-2011, 05:01 PM
I had a date with this bitch I went to college with and worked with on a bunch of projects/field studies with. Back in my beta days I would have given both my nuts to bang her. Hell, she's so hot I still might.
Here is what she put me through over the course of a few weeks:
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nooooooo of course I am not going to be here when you are free...i have to go to a wedding in pa this weekend...next weekend??????? or next week sometime?
No response for 12 days.
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oh sorry i had to go out of town, reschedule?
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i don't ignore your texts!! my phone has been on the fritz, lets do lunch on july 11th...be there
She was a no show, but I wasn't dumb enough to go either without hearing from her.
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sorry sorry i have been sick, i think i have the flu...i basically wanna die
I called her on the BS.
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the fever has me knocked out most of the day, again sorry for being sick
Called her out again, then we both stopped talking to each other. She randomly added me on linkedin much later. Tried to hit her up a few months ago but no response, so I tossed any idea of us ever getting together in the trash.
Of course I would have handled it differently today, but this was the kind of shit I was putting up with back then.
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08-29-2011, 05:24 PM
(last year, July 11th, right before we're scheduled to meet, this girl texted me asking to call her back)
girl: Are you already there?
me: Yeah I'm almost there.
girl: Uh, I can't make it because the match is on
me: What match?
girl: You know, the world cup. South Africa is playing Mexico and all my friends are here and...(this was an Indian chick)
me: Why'd you make plans with me then
girl: I didn't know...<more bullshit>
me: Alright whatever.
girl: Are you still going? I feel bad.
me: Of course I'm going. Don't worry about me.
(I just re-read my texts to her and cringed!)
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08-29-2011, 05:51 PM
That's crazy that we had a girl flake on the exact same date last year.
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08-29-2011, 06:19 PM
me: what are your plans for tomorrow?
her (after 4 days): sorry i haven't been too responsive. i'm busy all week.
turns out this girl is a player too.
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08-29-2011, 06:46 PM
A girl called me after she got out of class. Was going to drive home to change before coming over. I get a call 10 minutes later, she's at home, but her car's no longer working, but is in a rush telling this to me then all of a sudden "has to run." I delete the number and never hear from her again.
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08-29-2011, 07:29 PM
Women are supposedly the more empathetic sex, but what this proves is that if a woman doesn't value you, she couldn't care less about how you feel.
There is no sense of decency, dignity, guilt, remorse, honor in keeping one's word or consideration for the guy's feelings.
Women are all about THEIR mood and how THEY feel at a particular moment. Screw how you feel about being flaked on.
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08-29-2011, 07:39 PM
Also, I attribute the popularity of texting to the increase in flaking. Before texting, the prospect of picking up the phone and being lambasted by the guy on the other line likely deterred a lot of girls from flaking at the last minute. The anonymity of texting gives girls an easy out and guys are pretty helpless to respond.
Sadly, I don't see any way to counter flaking short of societal-wide shaming (like how guys hold each other to keeping their word, and any guy who backs out is seen as a lesser man). But this won't happen until men here "man up" and start holding women accountable for their behaviour
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08-29-2011, 07:46 PM
"My hectic schedule"
any mention of 'busy" or number of things she has to do means you're dead I think.
The hard part for me is facing it's straight up lies, she just doesn't find you as interesting as bad boy Roosh or whoever, and ceasing contact.
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08-29-2011, 08:05 PM
Ya the best strategy is to call right away as soon as she sends thar flake text.
The lizard is forced answer as it would be socially awkward for her to not pick up - she knows you know she's holding her phone.
Call, find out what's up, chastise her a bit, hold her accountable and it will make her think twice about flaking next time. Most guys never do this.
BTW the most common flake excuse I'm used to is "I'm sick/headache/exhausted/long day/came down with something." Lizards always be sick...
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08-29-2011, 10:57 PM
I tried to meetup with a 16-yr old Brazilian girl this summer. She was so hot, I got a boner just from talking to her.
15-min before we meet, I get :
"i cant"
That was it. Nothing else. I responded "What's going on?"
"dun no"
16 is a tough age.
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08-30-2011, 12:00 AM
The lamest one's I can remember? Let's see...
"I have some spanish homework."
"I'm with my friends."
"I'm gonna go to sleep."
"I have a lot of homework-sorry, see you soon."
Those are from a couple years back(pre-Red Pill).
I made these flakes a reality by rewarding bad behavior and continuously pursuing women who were not worth that effort, all while also supplicating and presenting a needy frame.
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08-30-2011, 12:09 AM
Usually it involves her being ambiguously "busy". It's true that if you see that word, you're dead to her. Delete her number if she doesn't offer an immediate reschedule.
The worst flake I ever got was a girl I scheduled a trip to see. I was scheduling a long train ride to NYC to see an old friend and decided to try to squeeze in a meetup with a girl on the way. We agreed to meet at a specified time in order to maintain my schedule. I had my bags packed the next morning and on the way out the door I figured I might as well give her a call to make sure we were still good to meet.
She told me that a friend had come over the night before and they were drinking hard. She was too hungover to meet. Went something like this:
"Let's meet a little later?"
No, I have a schedule to keep.
"Please? I really wanna meet."
No.
She explodes and acts like I'm being unreasonable.
I hung up the phone and never talked to her again. She was kinda chubby anyway.
My tolerance to flakiness is at all all-time low. I think I'll be writing about it soon.