Quote: (05-08-2017 08:03 AM)Drix Wrote:
Also, Guys blaming the attention that girls get online while these guys are the ones who are commenting, liking girls's photos and relying exclusively in Online dating, so What do you expect?
This.
However, the prime reason for girls getting the attention and options in the current climate was
creation of these platforms (online + social, which, in turn are a logical consequence of internet and www services). Ironically, these platforms were created by
males, not females.
These few enablers (aka businessmen) who created online platforms and social media sites cashed out big time with a benefit for, what, say, 1% of men with top looks? But banging a 6 off online doesn't really count, we're
not in a game for that.
What happened is a massive asymmetry of who calls the shots. Prior liberalisation era, when women have had restricted access to well-paid jobs, education, pill, voting, etc., it was a man's world. Now we ushered into women's world. Ironically, again, various polls done by scientists show that women are
less happy than they used to be. Again, ironically, men were enablers of all of that. I'll repeat -
all of these inventions, as far as I can tell, were made by
men.
Henceforth, I'm afraid that the females can't really be put that much to blame, they just use tools to their advantage that are out there and, as a result, they cash out on them big time. Let me ask rhetorically, who wouldn't?
Women in XXI just leverage to stratospheric levels, what they've been offered since time immemorial, namely if they want some dick.
I can cold approach a girl, implement good text game, get her on a date with good date game, make out with her, then never hear back again. Why? Because she's got so much dick offered without getting off a fucking (pun intended) couch!
As some posters mentioned, in the past, a girl would register being cold approached on a street as something unusual. Also, her options would've been much, much more limited. If she weren't social, go out at night, try to get embedded in social circle, her options to date men she'd deem viable options, would've been limited on a given day of the week. She'd have a few to choose from, not few hundreds.
The only three possibilities that can cure the situation, to a certain extent, are:
a) formal ban of online dating sites introduced by government
and/or
b) all men taking collective action to stop using online platforms.
and/or
c) introduce counter-technology
Neither a) nor b) is going to happen, the only one I can think of is c). Now, game is a some sort of equaliser but in this arms race it only allows not to stay behind but not, in most cases, getting ahead of female prerogative (attention, no sex, instead the other way round). Few men, excluding top 1% have enough will, time, dedication and resources to max out their value through game and associated activities.
We can whine and moan, complain and curse but let's not forget - men enabled all of this. Luckily, we have RVF, other forums, blogs and all the game to evolve our capabilities to not stay behind but it seems it will not be possible to get ahead any time soon.
So what a man's got to do? Perhaps, the only viable option is, to use Round Table's key motto:
Adopt, adapt, and improve.
It will not, in most cases, allow to have it easy lunch off the table, but with at least intermediate day game, night game, and social game some respectable results should be obtained. And by respectable I mean banging girls 7+ on your terms.