Quote: (02-08-2017 01:44 PM)orythedog Wrote:
Quote: (02-05-2017 03:10 AM)Iso Wrote:
I need advice on what I should be doing when I have no hobbies or interests? I have a difficult time being truly interested in any 1 thing. At best, I take interest in something for about a month before I end up quitting and never thinking about it again. I am simply not passionate about anything in life. Girls are the only thing I am somewhat interested in. But, even with that, I am not motivated enough to do the things necessary to become great with women. I am going through the motions of life. Just doing what I need to move on. Content with being mediocre. I don't feel happy. I don't feel anger either. I don't feel sadness. I don't feel joy. I just feel nothing.
Growing up, I cared a lot about watching sports. I really got into it. I felt joy when my teams won. Sadness when they lost. Nowadays, I barely care. My teams don't move the needle for me emotionally anymore. I used to love playing video games. Played them for hours per day. I haven't picked up a video game in a year.
I wish I could find something that interested me. Occasionally I will join a class or try a new hobby. I don't feel connected to those hobbies when I try it. I am not passionate enough to enjoy them or continue doing it.
What should I be doing about my lack of interest in life?
There are many great ideas above. Maybe you should make a list of all of them, and start checking them off one by one. I am curious though...what do YOU think that you should do? Sometimes the best answers come from within, and it is just support you need.
I've written a checklist before. It included things like working out, cooking more, yoga, meditation, learning to dance, approaching 100 girls, taking new classes, etc. yet I still never had the willpower to force myself to do those things. I kept telling myself I would do it, but my body is fighting me from doing it. I know what I need to do. I just need to know how I can force myself to do it.