[thebassist]

(04-23-2013 08:38 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

<Peruvian> Hey did u got mad?

Lol, whenever a girl asks this, I always just say yes and see how long I can keep it going before she realizes I'm fucking with her

[AneroidOcean]

(04-25-2013 02:15 PM)thebassist Wrote:  

(04-23-2013 08:38 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

<Peruvian> Hey did u got mad?

Lol, whenever a girl asks this, I always just say yes and see how long I can keep it going before she realizes I'm fucking with her

Usually that's not a bad course of action, but since I know she often gets people misinterpreting her humor and her general shyness as her being a bitch, I didn't press it. She was already blowing my phone the fuck up, obviously concerned. Talked to her more last night on the phone and found out she has a real hot roommate right now. I definitely need to see what's going on with that. Hilarious to hear her description of her roommate trying to explain to her how dating works here in the USA. Here's a quick breakdown:

<hot roommate> well, you go out with your girlfriends to a place, then a guy will come up to you and ask to buy you a drink and if you like him you leave your friends and go talk to him

<bewildered peruvian> What? You leave your friends?

<hot roommate> yeah, and then you talk to him and see if you like him enough to stay there

<peruvian> Well, what if you don't like him anymore?

<hot roommate> Oh, well then you keep looking at your phone and then say something like, "Oh my friends are looking for me, they don't know where I am so I have to go find them"

<peruvian> .... That is not how it goes in my country. AneroidOcean, is that really what it's like?

I was laughing my ass off.

[Jaylow]

This one is memorable but in a bad way.

I was driving cab with these 4 girls and the one in the front was giving me heavy IOI's, flirty conversation and touching. I dropped them off and exchanged numbers. Within minutes of me dropping them off she texted me, I replied a while later "thinking about me already i c" to which she responds "actually I was thinking about your cab" followed quickly by "the back seat in particula". Long story short I was on a long call at the end of the night, she called me to pick her up and I was 15 minutes away. She went home.

The following week I sent "you better be needing a ride this weekend", she responded "i get off work at 2am and I usually need a cab ride then". I never texted her once, she never texted me once.

2 weeks later I started it up again by sending "sorry we didn't get a chance to see other each again, u still in town" since this is the time between exams being over and students going home. She sent 2 texts back to back explaining how she was busy and moving home that day. 8 hours later I send "gay" to which to my surprise she instantly replies to explaining she is going out for one last night and might need a ride.
She called me 3 different times last night, 2 of which I answered "call me back in 10 minutes im driving" and hanging up without listening to a response. She texts me at the end of the night "i need a ride". Its on. I responded in about 0.3 seconds "where?". In poker terms, when your sitting there holding the absolute best hand possible (the nuts) and your opponent moves all-in you do what is called snap calling. He says all in, you instantly say "CALL" knowing your hand cant be beat. Up until this point my texting game was solid with this girl and showed I didn't care. I guarantee my snap call "Where?" is what cost me here since it was nothing but dead silence for the rest of the night. Will have to be another night to get my first in the cab notch. You live you learn.

[augen sehen]

Not really a text exchange, but I'd like to get your opinion on this, especially the part where she says "What? Why did you come up with that all of a sudden? Just asking!"... the context, which she seems to have forgotten, is that we were talking about how a German guy was hitting on her at a party we were at one night, and she said he wasn't. Naturally, I didn't remind her as I figured it'd come across as tryhard.

This is social circle game, she is 23 and Korean FOB but has adopted many US mannerisms. I haven't moved forward sexually and may never move for fear of losing status in the circle unless I can isolate.

I started out by commenting on a picture of her next to a bus stop ad with a dog smiling with human teeth. One of those doggy bones ads.

[Prosal]

A sms that a russian woman (high value target, successful moscovite professional in her 30s, on a one week vacation in Paris) sent me the next morning after our very first date, inviting me for a so-called "pyjama party" in her flat. Hmm. Ok, great. She welcomed me in sexy nightie and high heels. Wine and snacks were already on the table, the light was subdued, ect. It was a nice evening, no need to go into salacious details.

I first contacted her through a dating site (LuckyLovers) where we exchanged maybe just 2/3 insignificant messages. What is funny is what she said on her profile about her "desired partner":

"I am looking for marriage with a man from 35 up to 45 years old, reliable, serious, kind person who would like to create the family in the future. I have no children but I would like to have them very much in the future marriage. I speak fluent English. I am optimistic, kind, romantic, good-tempered, honest, cheerful and reliable."

Hmm. She looks for marriage with a reliable and serious man but she invites a semi-stranger for a "pyjama party" the very next day after the first meeting (first meeting where she drank 7 or 8 cocktails without flinching).

Just to say that what russian women write on their profiles must be taken with a grain of salt. (smilie)

   

[Hotwheels]

   

[el mechanico]

^^^^

[AlbertoDelMuerto]

It's memorable because usually if a girl's not interested she never replies to my text, but this one played mind games with me. During the approach, she bombarded me with questions like, What I do for a living, How old I am, and where I am from.

She's a 9, very rare breed. I approached her at the train station, and we kept walking and talking, and finally we had to part ways, since she takes Northern and I take Bakerloo.

I called her yesterday, but she wouldn't pick up. This is what happened today

[Blaze Frazier]

@Alberto — Why did you keep replying to her after you bid her farewell? Just leave it and move on, ya know?

[AlbertoDelMuerto]

(05-22-2013 08:36 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

@Alberto — Why did you keep replying to her after you bid her farewell? Just leave it and move on, ya know?

I finally cut her off, notice that the last text was sent by her, and not me.

[Blaze Frazier]

(05-22-2013 08:42 PM)AlbertoDelMuerto Wrote:  

(05-22-2013 08:36 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

@Alberto — Why did you keep replying to her after you bid her farewell? Just leave it and move on, ya know?

I finally cut her off, notice that the last text was sent by her, and not me.

Your last text should have been, 'I don't need this. Bye.'

No need to respond. Let her mind race after that. No need to punch the hamster.

[Screwston]

Hotwheels

Disappointed in you Alberto. You should of sent a Dick Pic when she said she had a boyfriend.

[Menace]

Alberto, no offense, but that was just awful. Just don't even get into this kind of stuff with girls, you are not ready for it, and you will just screw it up. Stick to setting up logistics if you must text. I have been chatting on the phone recently and it's great. You get a much better sense of their personality that way; texting conveys maybe 5% of it.

[AlbertoDelMuerto]

(05-22-2013 09:02 PM)houston Wrote:  

(05-17-2013 10:58 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

Hotwheels

Disappointed in you Alberto. You should of sent a Dick Pic when she said she had a boyfriend.

Damn, I should have done it. It's too late now

@Menace, I called the day before, she did not pick up.

[soup]

Last year I want on a date with a girl from OkCupid. She had a bangin body, but no bang happened (we did go back to my house and kiss a little).

She stayed in my phone, but never replied to my mass texts. Several days ago, she recognized me in a cafe and came up to me. I didn't remember who she was, but she remembered my first name and even starting talking about the conversation we had on our date.

That night I saw her go home with another guy.

But, I'd been texting her all week.

Last night I'm having a drink with my friends, and I get a text from her. She's requesting that I go to where she is. I tell her to come to where I am. She complies.

We meet up at the patio of some other bar and she's brought some of her friends. I think asked her to come inside and took her hand or something. I don't recall it being overkill or anything, but I was little drunk so my game was probably wild or off a bit.

She ends up leaving with her friend, and I texted her last night:

Me: Ynm

Me: Prove that you not just wanting my attention

Her: Have no idea what you are trying to express. You were overly physical and aggressive when we saw you tonight, my friend and I both felt negative vibes.

Me: Yes

Her: Wow yes, you are a creep. Please don't text me again nor contact me.

Me: Don't be retard.

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Today:

Me: You are super hurtful and have no consideration for other people's feelings.

Her: Your personalizing the truth that you are off. Unless you were obligerent wasted your behavior was unjustifiable.

Me: I'm not going to apologize for being who i am, regardless of how much alcohol. you jump to conclusions and you don't know me. Maybe had a lot of drinks and horsing around a little but seem like you just looking to use me as punching bag.

Her: Goodbye goodluck to you

Me: We never said hello

Me: You just looking for someone to reject bc you feel rejected. I apologize that you felt freaked out but you cant be so rigid w me

Her: I feel loved by the world and myself and the rain and the bees. I'm following my intuition not my rigidity

Me: Yes but you are so quick to start throwing insults. You pretend to be sweet free spirit, but your anger the best of you. Instead of asking if I was ok, you lash out

Her: Goodbye

Me: Sound like you in a bad mood or hypersensative

Her: I'm in a wonderful mood.

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And I'm going to leave at that. She could have just not responded to any of that stuff that I'm saying.

[Therapsid]

(05-30-2013 07:00 PM)soup Wrote:  

And I'm going to leave at that. She could have just not responded to any of that stuff that I'm saying.

I hate chicks like this. She was assuming the worst about you from the beginning, probably going back to your first date. After all, why did she stop responding to your texts to begin with despite coming to your apartment?

Did she strike you as a feminist by any chance? OkC is full of women's studies grads and hipster feminists. I've had some of the strangest encounters with these chicks. One second they're getting naked in your bed and the next they're not talking to you anymore because they're offended by some throwaway comment. I wonder if she just found you to be too aggressive because of some PC indoctrination.

[Matt3B]

Bit of a hamster coming out from you there, Soup.

I don't know why some of you bother attacking girls sometimes, I've seen it a couple of times in this thread. It doesn't really achieve anything, it's far better just to act cool about whatever they're saying and stick to normal agreeing and amplifying.

I suppose it depends what your aim is with it.

[Kickb]

   


I thought pussy was falling into my lap when I got texts from this number.

It turns out it's a girl from the past who got her number deleted.

[soup]

With Polish girl I banged

ME (early Sat Morn): Booty Call

Her (that afternoon): Oh baby you miss me? ...Its so sweet

Her: Hey Soup What time are you free tonight?

Her: I want to see you

Her: Your phone only working at night ??? :/

Me: Hey

Her: Hey

Me Do you want to come over

Her: Yes

Her: I'm in (close neighborhood)

Me: Can you get a cab

Her: Where are you?

Me: My place

Her: Can you pay?

Me: Nah

Her: I'm sorr

Her: I wish I can see you

Her: But Im just poor girl

Me: Ok

Her: Good luck
Her: Really

Then, throughout the night:

Her: ??
Her: You dont have $10
Her: Im in (close hood)
Her:
Her: I really want to see you
Her: Come to (where she is)
Her: I want to see you
Her: I want you to fuck me
Her: Really hard
Her: Where are you
Her: Im coming
Her: Where are you?
Her: I want to come to you
Her: Please
Her: I'm calling
Her: Oh don't be that
Her: Why you ignore me ? This is not nice :/

[MrXY]

^^^ I don't get it

[Jaylow]

She wanted to set the precedent that if Soup wanted to see her he was going to have to spend money on her. Soup laid down the law, ignored her for her behavior he didnt like, and fucked someone else that night instead.

He called her bluff and she caved before the night was over. Next time Soup invites her over she will be hopping in a cab ASAP and paying herself.

[Samseau]

Was it really just a $10 cab ride? And you already banged?

[soup]

Today:

her: Omg Im still drunk
her: My pussy miss you
Me: Send me pic of your pussy
her: I can't ... Your phone have to be a little more modern :/


Her: I want to feel you dick inside my pussy. my mouth and my ass...
Me:Maybe I can come to your place

[AneroidOcean]

(06-03-2013 01:24 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

Was it really just a $10 cab ride? And you already banged?

soup was either already fucking another girl, or he was asleep since at the end she gave up on making him pay for the cab.

Cemented with soup's latest post. Obviously she missed out on what she wanted (soup) and won't make that mistake again.

[Hotwheels]