thinking about doing something stupid. marrying a colombian pro.
09-07-2015, 02:07 AM
IF the situation was such, that she was marrying YOU, in Columbia, and the marriage, was IN Columbia; and you intended to stay there, and fuck her, then, of course, it may be worth consideration. Keep this in mind (and I'm paraphrasing the Odyssey): everyday, someone, or something, WILL be after YOUR kingdom (i.e YOUR money, YOUR time, things that are require great labor to achieve, someone will always be after them! do NOT loose them, or cede them, unless YOU are sure YOU are exploiting/benefitting from them). Sorry for the long winded response, but I'm very passionate about helping my fellow man NOT make a hasty decision.
You're going to hate what I say, but it's the truth: You are being played. You're already paying her for sex, and like ANY good business person knows, the REALLY good customers, get special treatment, hell, give them the phone number; that she has done. Strike number one, was her giving you a phone number, and you calling it (and her getting your number!) You have opened the gates to being manipulated, by her (if you have not already pounded through them already). A few points, and then I'm off.
If she comes to the states, big sugar daddy government, can and WILL, give her benefits: food, shelter, clothing - your marriage will mean nothing, when she divorces you via no-fault. Her plan is simple: marry the dumb american, get citizenship through marriage, her child will ALSO be included on that. Once she watches the ceiling for a few years, she can divorce, and claim whatever - and then, you will have to forfeit MORE of your property, and money, to settle that. DON'T DO IT! She is desperate to get a better life, and is using you (CAPTAIN SAVE A HO! DOES THAT RING A BELL?)
Also, I don't know about you, but if I did happen to use a prostitute, I would NEVER give out my name, or phone number. If Gandalf can have four different names in LOTR, there is NO reason, you can't also use different names, for different regions in the world. In any event, I would NOT do something rash, that would fuck me up for a long time. Get back stateside, I would forget her, and just chalk her up as another rental vagina, nothing more.
As a mid-20 something, believe me when I say: people/things are ALWAYS looking to steal your 'kingdom' do NOT let them!