Given the choice, would you rather be born as:
1. A 9-10 middle class white western girl, with some average or slightly above average family connections and average intelligence. You would have word by the balls by the time you would be 18 or less. Being flown around the world, spending time on yachts, being the center of the universe and the prize at any party. Being asked out by high SMV men in Hong Kong, etc. Basically the world is your oyster and you could be extracting resources until you hit the wall and beyond until your 40s. You would also enjoy more privileges that come from both being a woman in society and from the legal standpoint. You could get away with a lot of things because pussy pass.
Everything in your life would just fall from the sky. If you played the cards well, you could secure a high status male in your late 20s or even later.
If you screwed something up, you would have a handful of people willing to bail you out and whole crowds of thirsty males willing to help you.
Also, you would only have to not eat any shit, don't eat too much and do some light cardio from time to time to be able to have a body that is considered VERY attractive. And if you did some squats for few months, you would have a horde of thirsty males going after you and you could step up the power you hold by a whole another notch.
You would also have a choice to either be more ambitious and career-oriented or more hedonistic and family-oriented. Regardless of which option you would choose, you would have the whole (western) world cheering for you (especially for the ambitious option).
2. A better than average looking, introverted lower middle class white male, with below average family connections but above average intelligence. Your family would lack the capital and connections to kickstart your 20s. You'd be nobody at 18 and well into your 20s. You'd have to work hard for EVERYTHING. You'd have to build everything from scratch - your social skills, soft skills, technical skills. You'd go through a lot of humiliation and rejection before you could even start to prove yourself to the world in your early 20s. While your good looks and height (and knowing how to dress) would certainly help you, you would still be a "no one" compared to your female counterpart. While you would be having a handful of people following your instagram account, your female counterpart would have tens of thousands people following and receiving job offers and treats daily. Your life would be that of struggle and self improvement before you could reach financial success in your 30s (hopefully, because it wouldn't be guaranteed - whereas being an attractive female guarantees you can extract a lot of resources). You would be the oppressed one from the legal standpoint. There would be no pussy pass. If you screwed up, there would be NO people showing you any forgiveness or sympathy (at least not even 5% the sympathy that your female counterpart would receive). There would be no bail-out.
Also, you would be required to hit the gym hard every single week, be very conscious about what you eat and deny yourself to be able to have a body that is considered attractive. And even if you attained an athletic shape, the attractiveness of your body wouldn't even hold as much 'power' as that of a lazy 7 female in a very average shape.
You would get no choice in whether to be more ambitious and career-oriented or more hedonistic and family-oriented (or you wouldn't be able to just drop everything and indulge in some artistic pursuits, like your female counterpart could). If you chose anything other than A) A hard-working life of a typical 9-5er B) A hard-working life of an entrepreneur, you would be perceived by society as a loser.
Which one would you rather be born as? Is being born an attractive and female one of the best things that can happen to someone? Or is the big party of a life that they enjoy grossly overhyped? Maybe it's not that great to have all those things fall from sky for you? Maybe being enabled to become a self-made man is actually the best thing?
Just some thoughts I had after scrolling through Tinder in HK, where a usual attractive (western) female does a stint and at 20 years of age enjoys a lifestyle that would take at least 10 years of hard work for any male that isn't born into privilege.
1. A 9-10 middle class white western girl, with some average or slightly above average family connections and average intelligence. You would have word by the balls by the time you would be 18 or less. Being flown around the world, spending time on yachts, being the center of the universe and the prize at any party. Being asked out by high SMV men in Hong Kong, etc. Basically the world is your oyster and you could be extracting resources until you hit the wall and beyond until your 40s. You would also enjoy more privileges that come from both being a woman in society and from the legal standpoint. You could get away with a lot of things because pussy pass.
Everything in your life would just fall from the sky. If you played the cards well, you could secure a high status male in your late 20s or even later.
If you screwed something up, you would have a handful of people willing to bail you out and whole crowds of thirsty males willing to help you.
Also, you would only have to not eat any shit, don't eat too much and do some light cardio from time to time to be able to have a body that is considered VERY attractive. And if you did some squats for few months, you would have a horde of thirsty males going after you and you could step up the power you hold by a whole another notch.
You would also have a choice to either be more ambitious and career-oriented or more hedonistic and family-oriented. Regardless of which option you would choose, you would have the whole (western) world cheering for you (especially for the ambitious option).
2. A better than average looking, introverted lower middle class white male, with below average family connections but above average intelligence. Your family would lack the capital and connections to kickstart your 20s. You'd be nobody at 18 and well into your 20s. You'd have to work hard for EVERYTHING. You'd have to build everything from scratch - your social skills, soft skills, technical skills. You'd go through a lot of humiliation and rejection before you could even start to prove yourself to the world in your early 20s. While your good looks and height (and knowing how to dress) would certainly help you, you would still be a "no one" compared to your female counterpart. While you would be having a handful of people following your instagram account, your female counterpart would have tens of thousands people following and receiving job offers and treats daily. Your life would be that of struggle and self improvement before you could reach financial success in your 30s (hopefully, because it wouldn't be guaranteed - whereas being an attractive female guarantees you can extract a lot of resources). You would be the oppressed one from the legal standpoint. There would be no pussy pass. If you screwed up, there would be NO people showing you any forgiveness or sympathy (at least not even 5% the sympathy that your female counterpart would receive). There would be no bail-out.
Also, you would be required to hit the gym hard every single week, be very conscious about what you eat and deny yourself to be able to have a body that is considered attractive. And even if you attained an athletic shape, the attractiveness of your body wouldn't even hold as much 'power' as that of a lazy 7 female in a very average shape.
You would get no choice in whether to be more ambitious and career-oriented or more hedonistic and family-oriented (or you wouldn't be able to just drop everything and indulge in some artistic pursuits, like your female counterpart could). If you chose anything other than A) A hard-working life of a typical 9-5er B) A hard-working life of an entrepreneur, you would be perceived by society as a loser.
Which one would you rather be born as? Is being born an attractive and female one of the best things that can happen to someone? Or is the big party of a life that they enjoy grossly overhyped? Maybe it's not that great to have all those things fall from sky for you? Maybe being enabled to become a self-made man is actually the best thing?
Just some thoughts I had after scrolling through Tinder in HK, where a usual attractive (western) female does a stint and at 20 years of age enjoys a lifestyle that would take at least 10 years of hard work for any male that isn't born into privilege.