If you have to wonder where you stand with someone then it's time to stop standing and start walking.
Listen to everybody else here on the forum that is telling you to eject yourself from that horrible relationship.
She does respect you therefore you owe her nothing. She is ready to trap you in her web of misery so get ready to burn that web down so that you can remain a free and happy man before it's too late.
I don't even recommend keeping her on plate status because she can easily trap you back into this bad situation.
Listen to everybody else here on the forum that is telling you to eject yourself from that horrible relationship.
She does respect you therefore you owe her nothing. She is ready to trap you in her web of misery so get ready to burn that web down so that you can remain a free and happy man before it's too late.
I don't even recommend keeping her on plate status because she can easily trap you back into this bad situation.