Quote: (05-11-2015 04:44 AM)Edelweiss Wrote:
And when I mentioned the world "danger" it's because I find it harder and harder to connect with people nowadays. Almost EVERYONE is mediocre at best. Being in the red pill is a lonely place.
I suggest you mentally-reframe 'Loneliness' into 'Liberation', and realise how lucky you are. Most people are slaves to their vices: too lazy to improve and too spiteful to want anyone they associate with to improve either.
You can take this two ways: my Game Mentor is a True +4 SD Genius. He cannot recognise loneliness, because he is capable of entertaining himself by working towards his goals or focusing on things that interest him. He doesn't need to socialise, but when he wants sex, he simply goes out and gets it easily-enough, because Game was simply something he studied out of interest and mastered.
Myself: I'm somewhere in the middle. As I'm aging, I've realised there is little entertainment value for me from Television or Movies: because I know whatever I'd focus on instead is simply more interesting or more rewarding. I'd rather entertain myself that have someone attempt to entertain me.
That being said, I do enjoy company and can have genuine relationships with 'safe' thinkers: I simply choose to interact with them on a shallower level than I would with someone I consider 'awake'. As you wouldn't try to discuss Philosophy with a dog, nor should you try to discuss self-improvement with those who are content to be lazy, (and, trust me on this, the lazy love to complain about their station and talk about how they want to improve themselves. Do not confuse these people for those who are
seeking genuine advice from you. Lazy people talk to rationally-justify their lack of effort to themselves and their audience: it's shame-negation. With experience, you recognise whose minds are open to change, and whose minds are already closed off to change).
I can find genuine-enjoyment in the company of the physically or intellectually lazy, because I accept them for what they are,
don't try to change them, and refuse to conform to their negative patterns of thinking. Just let them talk, and keep doing what you know is right. The majority of women you meet in life will be the laziest creatures you can imagine.
That being said, like attracts like, and, trust me, other non-conformist thinkers will notice you in the crowd as you continue to improve yourself, and these connections are where you can be your unfettered self.
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I enjoy and strive to become better in every aspect of life. But I'd like to promote this way of life. However I find it very hard to unplug other people. And it's frustrating.
This is the main danger with the transition into the Neo-Masculine lifestyle:
a lot of guys starts evangelising with the fervour of born-again Christians, thus irritating the hell out of everyone around them. Nobody likes being preached at. Part of cultivating Neo-Masculinity is learning how to be Charismatic and Charming in Social Situations. Stop at think before you speak: "If I was speaking about Scientology, how would my audience react?" Your mailman doesn't need to know about negging.