Over the last eight months in the U.S., since September 2014, seventy-seven women have given me their phone number. So roughly ten numbers a month. Not bad, right?
Mostly day game, remainder is night game. All of these women I met in person. For someone who began approaching women only about a year ago, this would seem like a tremendous accomplishment.
How many bangs from these seventy-seven women? Just one. A one-night stand. (I couldn't get her out on a date afterwards.)
How many second dates out of these seventy-seven women? None. Not a single second date.
How many first dates out of these seventy-seven women? I don’t remember. Not that many, especially recently. By and large, I’m losing the woman in the approach despite often getting a number. And I don’t know why.
Look, I’m not in the game to get phone numbers. I’m in the game for the same reason most of you are in the game: to get laid, to be in a relationship and to become a better man.
I don’t know what else to do at this point, so I’ve begun to record some of my approaches to try to figure out if I’m doing something terribly wrong.
If you listen to this entire conversation, you’ll notice I follow Day Bang model pretty darn closely. Ramble, drop bait, be patient and wait for that personal question, run GALNUC, but above all, keep it conversational and fun.
In the recording, there are obvious things I already notice: stop being so giggly, stop saying “yeah” when she’s speaking. Small things I will try to alter.
However, something larger is wrong. I don’t know what it is.
Listen, enjoy and I’d be grateful for feedback. From approach to number close is thirteen minutes.
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Audio summary:
We ramble about laptops for four and a half minutes.
@3:20 “I thought I would get a Mac…but the hipster in me…”
No bite on my big bait, the cool project, I’m working on, and I’m running out of steam, so I drop a line about coffee shops.
@4:17 “When you get to my advanced age, you become quite choosy about the coffee shops you work at. This is a good one.”
She bites a little by beginning to talk about another coffee shop she likes.
@6:13 She finally asks a personal question “Where are you from?”
We chat about New York City for a bit. She says she just visited there. We talk about a few things, mostly art museums.
@9:45 She likes a park that I like in Seattle, so I say “High five”. She laughs.
@12:33 I go for the number after we both talk about where we like to hang out. “You seem cool maybe you’d like to hang out some time.” She gives an upbeat, “Yeah, sure!”
@12:55 “Will you be jumping with excitement when I text you?”
Mostly day game, remainder is night game. All of these women I met in person. For someone who began approaching women only about a year ago, this would seem like a tremendous accomplishment.
How many bangs from these seventy-seven women? Just one. A one-night stand. (I couldn't get her out on a date afterwards.)
How many second dates out of these seventy-seven women? None. Not a single second date.
How many first dates out of these seventy-seven women? I don’t remember. Not that many, especially recently. By and large, I’m losing the woman in the approach despite often getting a number. And I don’t know why.
Look, I’m not in the game to get phone numbers. I’m in the game for the same reason most of you are in the game: to get laid, to be in a relationship and to become a better man.
I don’t know what else to do at this point, so I’ve begun to record some of my approaches to try to figure out if I’m doing something terribly wrong.
If you listen to this entire conversation, you’ll notice I follow Day Bang model pretty darn closely. Ramble, drop bait, be patient and wait for that personal question, run GALNUC, but above all, keep it conversational and fun.
In the recording, there are obvious things I already notice: stop being so giggly, stop saying “yeah” when she’s speaking. Small things I will try to alter.
However, something larger is wrong. I don’t know what it is.
Listen, enjoy and I’d be grateful for feedback. From approach to number close is thirteen minutes.
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Audio summary:
We ramble about laptops for four and a half minutes.
@3:20 “I thought I would get a Mac…but the hipster in me…”
No bite on my big bait, the cool project, I’m working on, and I’m running out of steam, so I drop a line about coffee shops.
@4:17 “When you get to my advanced age, you become quite choosy about the coffee shops you work at. This is a good one.”
She bites a little by beginning to talk about another coffee shop she likes.
@6:13 She finally asks a personal question “Where are you from?”
We chat about New York City for a bit. She says she just visited there. We talk about a few things, mostly art museums.
@9:45 She likes a park that I like in Seattle, so I say “High five”. She laughs.
@12:33 I go for the number after we both talk about where we like to hang out. “You seem cool maybe you’d like to hang out some time.” She gives an upbeat, “Yeah, sure!”
@12:55 “Will you be jumping with excitement when I text you?”