[Buddha]

Please feel free to send to Friends & Family. Also I would like your Feedback & Comments for the learning experience. Thank you very much!

[Cr33pin]

Great job Budda, thanks for sharing. You just had a normal converstaion and it flowed pretty well.... some people are going to be like, you didn't escalate, you shouldn't have had your hand in your pocket, you should have went for the finger bang, and blah blah blah.. it seems a lot of people in the PUA world like to critque people to death. However not every one is the same, what works for some people might not work for other people. Thats why I love the video being followed up with the text that shows the interest and that what you do works perfect.

Thanks again for posting an I look forward to seeing more videos.

[Enigma]

Can't believe she held that half-eaten banana for 10 minutes.

[Amsterdamned]

Nice work,thanks for sharing .

[Stompin_Tom]

Indirect day game like that is painful for me. It's the same conversation you would have with a man. Although, she was definitely firing off IOIs so she was clearly interested. Maybe there was something going on through the eyes that we can't see.

Different strokes for different folks. Personally I enjoy expressing my sexuality in a playful way.

Good relaxed body language and vocal tonality / speed.

Kudos for having the balls to put it out there to be critiqued.

[Coldfire]

great work

[Sguydon]

Thanks for Sharing Buddah. Love your style - Its indirect, friendly, subtle, and you really made her feel comfortable. Basically the "Elderly Opener" vibe Roosh alludes to. You're also a tall and good looking guy, which is always inviting. Your voice tonality and facial expressions are also on point. Never over the top. Impressive.

I'm moving to Budapest in mid June. I hear the summers there are amazing. Pretty excited, and your Re-Location Journal really helped sway my decision. Thank you.

[Nascimento]

This is great. Like Cr33pin said, some may try to pick out your approach bit by bit to prove it wasn't perfect... Which would be retarded because there is no such thing as a perfect approach.

You did well. You weren't awkward, and she was comfortable with you. As long as you're socially calibrated it's hard to do poorly.

Nice choice too, she's cute and seems cool.

[samsamsam]

Well done and thanks for sharing.

You were very calm and confident and dropped things very casually. Not forced like you had to tell this fact and that fact.

So glad to see you posting again.

Keep up the good work.

One small suggestion, I think I caught her username in the screenshot. Maybe delete that? Just a thought.

[Shimmy]

If it worked, it worked. There's a million different ways you could have done it and if your main objective was met then that's all that matters.

Do you normally do pretty well there being asian and standing out? If not she was just automatically attracted to you for some reason. You were giving her indirect body language and she was inching towards you within the first minute.

[Atlantic]

Solid vocal tone, , body language and style and smooth calibrated game. Well done man.

+1 from me.

[LINUX]

You don't need critique.

Thanks for sharing.

[averagebritguy]

Great video...and huge props for uploading yourself to youtube.

This is pretty much how day game should be. Indirect vs direct is a fairly redundant argument...she obviously knew you were interested as after you asked for help you stayed around to chat, and so did she.

Just one question...you looked a little welded to the spot...and had just the odd awkward hands in pocket moments...was this done consciously? I'm really into body language at the moment. Not that had any impact on he outcome really...just curious.

There needs to be more realistic content on youtube to balance out all the crazy vids...keep it coming!

[Nascimento]

^^ It's quite normal to have some type of *subtle* tic in your body language during an approach. Something like a mild sway, some odd gesture with the fingers, hands playing around the pockets..

Reason why is that you should be at least somewhat nervous during an approach.

If you're not nervous you're probably not talking to a girl you find attractive. Why did you approach in the first place?

But on a serious note, as you get better you'll be able to calibrate and control your body language and expressions more. Though you'll never be perfect.

And if you pay attention, odds are she will be more nervous than you. Especially the hot girls. It's really apparent sometimes when they struggle for speech, stutter, or you notice them oddly rubbing their thighs or forearms, excessive flushing of their cheeks, etc.

A cool tip: Pay special attention to her body language while she is asking you a question, during the conversation after the intro when you notice she is into you. Oftentimes she will show some nervous tell because she is asking you something and is perhaps afraid of being judged, saying something awkward, odd, whatever... because she sees you as an high value, attractive, cool guy and she doesn't want to leave a bad impression.

It's all part of the fun.

I'd like to hear OP's input as well.

[fucksong]

I think you did great man. As long as you reach the finish line, doesn't matter how you got there.

HOWEVER, since you did post it up for critique, I think you could've had her a lot sooner. I would've been upfront at very beginning that I thought she was cute. I'm making an ASSUMPTION that even though you posted up this successful video, there were many others that did not lead anywhere. And if you're spending this amount of time and energy in your indirect approach, you're not being efficient with your time. Plus, I'm going to guess you're being indirect with other people in your life, maybe even friends. So as an example, let's say me and you were at a club, instead of just telling me that you want a beer, maybe you might say some other shit for 5-10 minutes "umm.. you thirsty bro? I think it might be good to get a beer" whereas I would be "hey man, i'll be back, i'm going to go get a beer" Just saying that being direct saves a lot more time in life in general.

But overall, good job. But, if anybody else here is a avid daygamer, you know that even having a good interaction like this doesn't guarantee success so to OP, did you fuck her?

That's your ultimate answer

[Gopnik]

Casual, relaxed, slightly playful... This is exactly how daygame should be IMO +1 from me too. Out of curiosity, do foreigners have a reputation for "stealing" hungarian women from the locals like in Poland? Is it easy to find girls that are open to random chat during the day?

[civpro]

One of the better daygame videos I've seen. Great stuff.

[Sojourn]

Thanks for the video!

Calm, cool and collected throughout.

Inspiration for my next trip to Budapest.

[Cheetah]

I don't know when the video was shot but how did the meetup go and did you get the bang?

Seems like a quality daygame in the sense that many guys tend to go away as soon as they get her number early on in the conversation and then often end up with no reply or a flake. Really can't blame you for that.

Was your initial question to her a genuine question or you didn't care much what she answered?

[Buster]

You had her flicking her hair @ 0:40 and leaning in while pointing in under a minute. You passed her checklist early and should be in "don't screw it up" mode from here. You have a friendly natural smile that seemed to really keep her at ease.

Great Job!

[Alfa]

Hey for guys familiar with the day bang model:

If a girl drops big bait like she did with where she's from, do you bite and ask a personal question first, or continue with your own big bait/small bait until she asks you one?

[Buddha]

@ Shimmy - "Do you normally do pretty well there being asian and standing out?":

Budapest is a unique city because men with very different looks do well here. I don't think I have an advantage being an Asian. In fact, there is a definite minus to being a foreigner because of the insular nature of the Hungarian people.

Hungarian women mostly prefer local men and foreigners have to work against a huge wall of suspiciousness and shit-tests.


@ averagebritguy - "Just one question...you looked a little welded to the spot...and had just the odd awkward hands in pocket moments...was this done consciously?":

I stayed in 1 spot because me & my friends did some test videos and noticed that it was awkward when we moved too much. Also, the hands in pockets are natural for me. I personally feel that it's better to have them partially in my pockets with my fingers pointing subtly to my "groin area". (I read that is is a masculine gesture)


@ Nascimento - "Reason why is that you should be at least somewhat nervous during an approach.":

I totally agree. I wasn't nervous but I go into an approach with a blank mind. Sometimes I don't even know what to say as an opener and say whatever comes to mind. What you notice on the video is me thinking throughout the conversation. I want the girl to know that it was a truly "random" encounter and that I did not plan this as a "pick-up".

Of course, being somewhat nervous helps because it will make her feel more comfortable as well if she is attracted to you (she will feel a bit nervous herself and will find it soothing that it's mutual).


@ fucksong - "Plus, I'm going to guess you're being indirect with other people in your life, maybe even friends....OP, did you fuck her?":

I am direct with my friends & people that I decide to be direct with. Regardless of day, night, or culture when you compliment a woman's physical appearance, you raise her value at the expense of yours.

Also during the day, women are mentally operating on a different mode where they can be put off by such direct openers from strangers. Direct openers are more suited to Night Game.

My rule of thumb: The more attractive you are as a male relative to the female, the more direct you can be...when it really matters, I go indirect.

Beyond posting videos + follow-up text screenshots, I will not comment on sex for personal reasons & respect.


@ Luisaceo - "Out of curiosity, do foreigners have a reputation for "stealing" hungarian women from the locals like in Poland? Is it easy to find girls that are open to random chat during the day?":

Hungarian men cockblock the most out of any other men in the world from my experience. The automatic assumption that locals have is that foreigners come to Budapest mainly for the women and this results in some serious questionings of your motive & backstory. Girls in Budapest are much more open to Day Game than Night Game. It is a great city for Day Game.


@ Cheetah - "I don't know when the video was shot but how did the meetup go and did you get the bang?":

Apart from posting a follow-up text screenshot to my videos, I will not comment on sex for personal reasons & respect. Thank you.


@ Alfa - "If a girl drops big bait like she did with where she's from, do you bite and ask a personal question first, or continue with your own big bait/small bait until she asks you one?":

I personally bite and get her talking and opening up. I feel that this makes her more invested in the interaction and strengthens connection, thereby decreasing flakes.


I would like to thank Roosh V for "Day Bang". I found "Day Bang" to be very helpful and I feel that it is perhaps one of the best Game material ever written.

[Geekzor]

Man I loved it, that was a great example of daygame and as a beginner I almost brought my notebook to take notes again amazing work keep it up. I'm focusing now on night game and following the Roosh progam, but definitely trying some day game soon, YOU GOT ME HYPED!

[Onto]

"Beyond posting videos + follow-up text screenshots, I will not comment on sex for personal reasons & respect."

That's up to you of course, but I think it would be even more helpful to others if you kept us all up to date on what happened afterwards.

Right now, it's kind of like watching one of those movies which ends abruptly leaving everyone wondering.

You are posting your face though, so I can understand.

Those of us who keep our identity anonymous are more free to be open about our experiences.

[Repo]

Great video, thanks for sharing. I dig that jacket too, very sharp.