[la_mode]

There's more attractive women than attractive men simply by nature, even in the US. There's probably more fat ass dudes than fat ass women, or just as many.

Most men regardless of level of diet/exercise aren't going to be George Clooney or anywhere near that. People may want to argue otherwise, but it's not true.

A man can be wealthy (or least well-off) and significantly boost his SMV - but then it's basically relying on inverse prostitution to attract women.

[HeyPete]

(09-25-2014 03:51 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 10:32 PM)la_mode Wrote:  

The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat. She can pick from younger horny guys, or older provider types, or guys somewhere in between who just want a woman who is "pretty" and don't care about her age. In the US, the ratios are so bad that the average woman in her 40s has orbiters. The attractive woman at 40 has more orbiters spanning multiple generations than the average 21 year old.

Hollywood guys like George Clooney are often referred to as the prototypical high SMV older man, as if they were the majority.

There was a similar thread months ago.

"The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat."

I don't know how old you are, but you might want to get on OKCupid and see what the average fortysomething woman looks like. It's not pretty.

I live in an upscale DC-Baltimore suburb where the women should be good-looking. I'd say, tops, 10 percent of the women on OKC in that age bracket are passable. But if I look at women in their 30s, it's over 50 percent and in their 20s, it's almost all the women.

The falloff in looks after about age 37 is dramatic, except for the very hot women -- and often that look is achieved with expensive medical technology. For men, it's not only easier because the aging process isn't as obvious, but because women were sort of built to look at older men anyway, so it's not a huge deal when a guy looks older.

Trust me, the nice-looking older women you see on TV are not what you will be getting in your 40s. The media lies to you. At my age looking back, I now can't believe I ever turned down girls in their teens and 20s because they didn't measure up (i.e. "too perky," "too artsy and weird," "too gangly"). Compared to what I see, now those girls were pageant winners by comparison.

D.O.B.A., why did you bring this up? Haha. There was a girl in HS when I had just graduated. Looking back, she was absolutely smoking hot, but quirky. Which made me rule her out. Now, I'd give anything to get with her (then not how she is now).

What was quirky? And what was I afraid my friends would rag me about?

She wore long skirts everyday. Like to her ankle. And a prim and proper blouse. But she was so feminine and had such a softness to her manner and being that it was alarming the effect she had when you were near her. It kind of scared me.
She was really religious and had hair past her ass. Even under all those bulky clothes you knew she had a sweet body. She would go crazy and wear a kind of tight skirt every once in a while and immediately ... boing! sproing!

[PapayaTapper]

"Pussy ages like bread, not like wine". Another classic from the legend himself Patrice Oneal.

[iknowexactly]

(09-24-2014 07:27 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 04:22 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

She was probably too prickly and more suspicious than seductive, the sort of unstated accusations in her eyes that make her unfuckable despite her elegant figure.


But, she's complicated and damaged.

The important thing about being complicated and damaged is to still keep in mind there are other people in the world that aren't your shrink and have to be treated well if you want them to stick around.

Women like this view men in adversarial terms. Through years of carousel riding they have managed to self select the usual category of men with some of the worst traits to have long term relationships with.

That's why their views of men are so tainted now. They don't know how to react when they are in front of a man who is stable with decent values. They project all their poor choices onto every man they meet so they are always in fight or flight mode.

She'll be nothing but constant drama and shit tests as she wants a man to validate her every emotional whim and for them to take a backseat role so her narcissistic "life story" can unfold. I'm sure whatever relationship she ends up with she'll spin some jaundiced yarn about it in xojane.

Yup. They treated the players like husband material.

Got hurt.

Now they MIStreat husband material as if they were players.

I see this in the Philippines with the single mothers. They are adamant they want marriage before a baby. They don't get they'd be lucky to have me in their life on ANY terms.

[DarkTriad]

(09-25-2014 03:51 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 10:32 PM)la_mode Wrote:  

The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat. She can pick from younger horny guys, or older provider types, or guys somewhere in between who just want a woman who is "pretty" and don't care about her age. In the US, the ratios are so bad that the average woman in her 40s has orbiters. The attractive woman at 40 has more orbiters spanning multiple generations than the average 21 year old.

Hollywood guys like George Clooney are often referred to as the prototypical high SMV older man, as if they were the majority.

There was a similar thread months ago.

"The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat."

I don't know how old you are, but you might want to get on OKCupid and see what the average fortysomething woman looks like. It's not pretty.

I live in an upscale DC-Baltimore suburb where the women should be good-looking. I'd say, tops, 10 percent of the women on OKC in that age bracket are passable. But if I look at women in their 30s, it's over 50 percent and in their 20s, it's almost all the women.

The falloff in looks after about age 37 is dramatic, except for the very hot women -- and often that look is achieved with expensive medical technology. For men, it's not only easier because the aging process isn't as obvious, but because women were sort of built to look at older men anyway, so it's not a huge deal when a guy looks older.

Trust me, the nice-looking older women you see on TV are not what you will be getting in your 40s. The media lies to you. At my age looking back, I now can't believe I ever turned down girls in their teens and 20s because they didn't measure up (i.e. "too perky," "too artsy and weird," "too gangly"). Compared to what I see, now those girls were pageant winners by comparison.

That's what I tell the young cats. "Remember all those sevens you turned down in college? DON'T! Because they're NINES when you're in your 30 and 40s.". Anyone remember turning down that freshman with a flawless body because she had a little acne that would be gone next semester anyway?

[Travesty]

^
*** Furiously doubles down on Spanish, Russian, and making $$$ ***

[Atlanta Man]

(08-01-2015 04:27 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

(09-25-2014 03:51 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 10:32 PM)la_mode Wrote:  

The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat. She can pick from younger horny guys, or older provider types, or guys somewhere in between who just want a woman who is "pretty" and don't care about her age. In the US, the ratios are so bad that the average woman in her 40s has orbiters. The attractive woman at 40 has more orbiters spanning multiple generations than the average 21 year old.

Hollywood guys like George Clooney are often referred to as the prototypical high SMV older man, as if they were the majority.

There was a similar thread months ago.

"The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat."

I don't know how old you are, but you might want to get on OKCupid and see what the average fortysomething woman looks like. It's not pretty.

I live in an upscale DC-Baltimore suburb where the women should be good-looking. I'd say, tops, 10 percent of the women on OKC in that age bracket are passable. But if I look at women in their 30s, it's over 50 percent and in their 20s, it's almost all the women.

The falloff in looks after about age 37 is dramatic, except for the very hot women -- and often that look is achieved with expensive medical technology. For men, it's not only easier because the aging process isn't as obvious, but because women were sort of built to look at older men anyway, so it's not a huge deal when a guy looks older.

Trust me, the nice-looking older women you see on TV are not what you will be getting in your 40s. The media lies to you. At my age looking back, I now can't believe I ever turned down girls in their teens and 20s because they didn't measure up (i.e. "too perky," "too artsy and weird," "too gangly"). Compared to what I see, now those girls were pageant winners by comparison.

That's what I tell the young cats. "Remember all those sevens you turned down in college? DON'T! Because they're NINES when you're in your 30 and 40s.". Anyone remember turning down that freshman with a flawless body because she had a little acne that would be gone next semester anyway?

What you say is impossible for those guys in college to conceive of. When I was 7 my father told me one day I would like women, I told him he was a fool- "girls were stupid and they did not like guns, robots, or explosions why would I ever like them? Plus girls always smell like soap, and other clean shit-silly dad, you know nothing father!"-Me at 7.

If you told me in college that the cute little 7.5 with the bubble butt, plump titties, but terrible skin was banging and I should run up on that-I would look at you as if you were a fool and I was above 7.5's in college. I am College Atlanta Man I can't think more than five minutes into the future much less 5 years. It is the same way a hot 20 year old is incapable of seeing a 15 year old girl as competition in 3 years-it just cannot be.

I took my nephew some money and beer to his dorm last week at Emory, and my head was on a fucking swivel- those hot luscious, bitches were so fine dude , and my nephew was just like you said totally unimpressed with anything not 8 or better. This little freshman girl was all on his dick , just staring up at him, doe eyed and longing- he was like whatever, she has a cute face and nice titties but she has no ass. I tried to tell him they all have ass when they put a hump in their back while hitting it doggystyle!

I need a fucking time machine, where is the time machine thread!

[BlueOcean]

(08-02-2015 10:58 AM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

(08-01-2015 04:27 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

(09-25-2014 03:51 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 10:32 PM)la_mode Wrote:  

The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat. She can pick from younger horny guys, or older provider types, or guys somewhere in between who just want a woman who is "pretty" and don't care about her age. In the US, the ratios are so bad that the average woman in her 40s has orbiters. The attractive woman at 40 has more orbiters spanning multiple generations than the average 21 year old.

Hollywood guys like George Clooney are often referred to as the prototypical high SMV older man, as if they were the majority.

There was a similar thread months ago.

"The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat."

I don't know how old you are, but you might want to get on OKCupid and see what the average fortysomething woman looks like. It's not pretty.

I live in an upscale DC-Baltimore suburb where the women should be good-looking. I'd say, tops, 10 percent of the women on OKC in that age bracket are passable. But if I look at women in their 30s, it's over 50 percent and in their 20s, it's almost all the women.

The falloff in looks after about age 37 is dramatic, except for the very hot women -- and often that look is achieved with expensive medical technology. For men, it's not only easier because the aging process isn't as obvious, but because women were sort of built to look at older men anyway, so it's not a huge deal when a guy looks older.

Trust me, the nice-looking older women you see on TV are not what you will be getting in your 40s. The media lies to you. At my age looking back, I now can't believe I ever turned down girls in their teens and 20s because they didn't measure up (i.e. "too perky," "too artsy and weird," "too gangly"). Compared to what I see, now those girls were pageant winners by comparison.

That's what I tell the young cats. "Remember all those sevens you turned down in college? DON'T! Because they're NINES when you're in your 30 and 40s.". Anyone remember turning down that freshman with a flawless body because she had a little acne that would be gone next semester anyway?

What you say is impossible for those guys in college to conceive of. When I was 7 my father told me one day I would like women, I told him he was a fool- "girls were stupid and they did not like guns, robots, or explosions why would I ever like them? Plus girls always smell like soap, and other clean shit-silly dad, you know nothing father!"-Me at 7.

If you told me in college that the cute little 7.5 with the bubble butt, plump titties, but terrible skin was banging and I should run up on that-I would look at you as if you were a fool and I was above 7.5's in college. I am College Atlanta Man I can't think more than five minutes into the future much less 5 years. It is the same way a hot 20 year old is incapable of seeing a 15 year old girl as competition in 3 years-it just cannot be.

I took my nephew some money and beer to his dorm last week at Emory, and my head was on a fucking swivel- those hot luscious, bitches were so fine dude , and my nephew was just like you said totally unimpressed with anything not 8 or better. This little freshman girl was all on his dick , just staring up at him, doe eyed and longing- he was like whatever, she has a cute face and nice titties but she has no ass. I tried to tell him they all have ass when they put a hump in their back while hitting it doggystyle!

I need a fucking time machine, where is the time machine thread!

LOL.

I think that if you want young cuties, it's important to look young. Use moisturizer on your face, stay clean shaven, and get hair transplants if you're balding. Also, stay thin.

Young girls won't turn you down for your age, but they are very looks conscious and a lot of them want a guy with boyish handsome looks. Game is obviously important too, but it's hard to overemphasize just how looks conscious women can be at that age.

[DarkTriad]

(08-02-2015 10:58 AM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

(08-01-2015 04:27 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

(09-25-2014 03:51 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 10:32 PM)la_mode Wrote:  

The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat. She can pick from younger horny guys, or older provider types, or guys somewhere in between who just want a woman who is "pretty" and don't care about her age. In the US, the ratios are so bad that the average woman in her 40s has orbiters. The attractive woman at 40 has more orbiters spanning multiple generations than the average 21 year old.

Hollywood guys like George Clooney are often referred to as the prototypical high SMV older man, as if they were the majority.

There was a similar thread months ago.

"The "men have it better aging" thing is false, the top 5-10% men have it better, but an older woman (up to mid to late 40s) simply comes out ahead by being average and not being fat."

I don't know how old you are, but you might want to get on OKCupid and see what the average fortysomething woman looks like. It's not pretty.

I live in an upscale DC-Baltimore suburb where the women should be good-looking. I'd say, tops, 10 percent of the women on OKC in that age bracket are passable. But if I look at women in their 30s, it's over 50 percent and in their 20s, it's almost all the women.

The falloff in looks after about age 37 is dramatic, except for the very hot women -- and often that look is achieved with expensive medical technology. For men, it's not only easier because the aging process isn't as obvious, but because women were sort of built to look at older men anyway, so it's not a huge deal when a guy looks older.

Trust me, the nice-looking older women you see on TV are not what you will be getting in your 40s. The media lies to you. At my age looking back, I now can't believe I ever turned down girls in their teens and 20s because they didn't measure up (i.e. "too perky," "too artsy and weird," "too gangly"). Compared to what I see, now those girls were pageant winners by comparison.

That's what I tell the young cats. "Remember all those sevens you turned down in college? DON'T! Because they're NINES when you're in your 30 and 40s.". Anyone remember turning down that freshman with a flawless body because she had a little acne that would be gone next semester anyway?

What you say is impossible for those guys in college to conceive of. When I was 7 my father told me one day I would like women, I told him he was a fool- "girls were stupid and they did not like guns, robots, or explosions why would I ever like them? Plus girls always smell like soap, and other clean shit-silly dad, you know nothing father!"-Me at 7.

If you told me in college that the cute little 7.5 with the bubble butt, plump titties, but terrible skin was banging and I should run up on that-I would look at you as if you were a fool and I was above 7.5's in college. I am College Atlanta Man I can't think more than five minutes into the future much less 5 years. It is the same way a hot 20 year old is incapable of seeing a 15 year old girl as competition in 3 years-it just cannot be.

I took my nephew some money and beer to his dorm last week at Emory, and my head was on a fucking swivel- those hot luscious, bitches were so fine dude , and my nephew was just like you said totally unimpressed with anything not 8 or better. This little freshman girl was all on his dick , just staring up at him, doe eyed and longing- he was like whatever, she has a cute face and nice titties but she has no ass. I tried to tell him they all have ass when they put a hump in their back while hitting it doggystyle!

I need a fucking time machine, where is the time machine thread!

I had asked one of my martial arts students to help me fix my laptop. He lived in the dorms. Walking down the hall was RNCB - Random Coed Naked Boobtowel - that's when a girl in the dorms puts on all her best make up...and her towel (neatly tucked over her boobs) to make the strut down the hall to the shower. Young, perfect legs, cleavage, and everything else we like. I hadn't seen RCNB in 20 years...it was glorious! Something about a girl in her PRIME strutting her stuff through the dorm in a towel is amazing. I miss seeing RCNB every day back when I was in college.

#thingsyoudontgetback