I wanted to get peoples take on this:
When you enter a room (or a club or restaurant) with a fly girl, do you enter:
1. Ahead of her
2. She is in front of you
3. Enter at the same time (not always possible)
Common thinking would dictate that the most "alpha" is for you to lead her.
However, I just read this on Roissy's blog:
"Interestingly, in other parts of the movie, you’ll see that when a pimp enters a room, his hos precede him. This is an alpha move; the servants and sycophants always walk ahead of the king, who bestrides in behind them to the accolades of the crowd. Seemingly trivial body placements like this can radically alter a man’s sexual value in the eyes of women, and his social value in the eyes of men. This is why bosses generally show up to meetings a little later than their underlings. It’s a status signal." http://roissy.wordpress.com/2011/05/13/w...rom-pimps/
Which is definitely true.
I have noticed, that I occasionally do both.
If it is a crowded environment, I will grab hand and lead. If their are unsavory characters and scoundrels about, I will grab hand and lead. (I really like the word "scoundrel". It's actually the nickname of one of my little brother's friends. "The Scoundrel". But that is neither triple beams nor cocaine dreams).
If it is a tough door of a nightclub, I will often put the fly girl up front because that will get us in faster. (If I don't have the spot on "pre-lock").
If I am entering a room, lets say at a dope party at a palatial estate of her family, I let her enter first because it seems more smooth to be laid back.
Sometimes its easier for her to go first and you can hold it down from the back (so to speak), ie the person in the back of a canoe is more important.
What is the most G?
What do you do?
Thoughts?
When you enter a room (or a club or restaurant) with a fly girl, do you enter:
1. Ahead of her
2. She is in front of you
3. Enter at the same time (not always possible)
Common thinking would dictate that the most "alpha" is for you to lead her.
However, I just read this on Roissy's blog:
"Interestingly, in other parts of the movie, you’ll see that when a pimp enters a room, his hos precede him. This is an alpha move; the servants and sycophants always walk ahead of the king, who bestrides in behind them to the accolades of the crowd. Seemingly trivial body placements like this can radically alter a man’s sexual value in the eyes of women, and his social value in the eyes of men. This is why bosses generally show up to meetings a little later than their underlings. It’s a status signal." http://roissy.wordpress.com/2011/05/13/w...rom-pimps/
Which is definitely true.
I have noticed, that I occasionally do both.
If it is a crowded environment, I will grab hand and lead. If their are unsavory characters and scoundrels about, I will grab hand and lead. (I really like the word "scoundrel". It's actually the nickname of one of my little brother's friends. "The Scoundrel". But that is neither triple beams nor cocaine dreams).
If it is a tough door of a nightclub, I will often put the fly girl up front because that will get us in faster. (If I don't have the spot on "pre-lock").
If I am entering a room, lets say at a dope party at a palatial estate of her family, I let her enter first because it seems more smooth to be laid back.
Sometimes its easier for her to go first and you can hold it down from the back (so to speak), ie the person in the back of a canoe is more important.
What is the most G?
What do you do?
Thoughts?