1. Why Night Game?
Even though Night game is a shadow of what it once was, partially because of the internet and because of Clubs that are moving to Tables for Whales, Night Game is where I think everyone should learn game.
Night game offers a concentration of impulsive lizards waiting and wanting a bit of dick in their lives. Make no mistake, that's why they're there. Every last one of em can buy some 2 Buck Chuck and drink on the solo. They go for the liquor, music, lights, excitement, and TO BE HIT ON BY GUYS. The warpaint is on, the heels shod, and the bitch shields up.
- hot chicks
- impulsive chicks
- chicks who are happy because of the music and vibe
- drunk/high chicks
- lots of chicks, all dressed to be sexy
- They're going to be in bed with or without you in 3-4 hours
Ideal night game situations allow you to get in a lot of approaches, build up your tolerance, destroy your approach anxiety, and have a reasonable chance of having sex within 3-5 hours.
2. Night Game vs Day Game
In defense of day game
- chicks aren't *as* made up
- the bitch shields *can* be lower. (but lizards get approached and catcalled all day if they're attractive)
- it's low investment
That being said, Day Game doesn't typically give you that night game ease, unless it's particular environments.
3) The Day Game Density Exceptions
"Big City Square" - in NYC it's Union Square, elsewhere in the Americas you have to find yourself close to a college campus. Very few places have that day time density comparable to a decent night club. This usually lacks a key ingredient for inhibition unleashment...alcohol
"The Beach" - the boardwalk can be a good look
"The day time concert/festival with lots of drinking"
"A good higher end shopping mall on the weekend"
There are other examples, but usually you don't get night time opportunities during the day.
4) Night Game - Bars v. Clubs
Clubs serve alcohol. Bars often have DJ's.
What really separates a Bar from a Club is whether or not people are dancing.
The major advantage to going to a Dance club over a bar is that
1) girls feel sexual when they dance (dancing is all about showing fertility)
2) if you can dance, you can -
a) put your hands on her,
b) lead her around,
c) get social proof
d) they pass out Ferraris for the best guy on the dance floor*
*not true
5) Types of bars and clubs
Bars
- Dives and Neighborhood joints - sometimes on the corner, sometimes in a strip mall - this is where you go for local tang and cougars.
- Hotel Bars - speaking of cougars, keep an eye out for the conventions coming to town. You'll always find some randy bitches @ the Hampton Inn. A chick sitting alone at a hotel bar is looking for sex. (but she may also be a pro(stitute) so keep that in mind as well.
- Sports Bars - this is where you go to watch sports. I've seen guys run here, but in general a sports bar is a sausage fest.
- the Bar with a dance floor and DJ - This is ideal in my opinion, because essentially you have a small make shift club. Easy to see everyone, easy to get to and from the bar, probably has a smoking area. And in general, people dress down a little. You won't get the hottest of the hotties, but more than enough cuties and chicks with good bodies go to these places
- Hip Bars/Hipster Bars - Usually packed. This is where you're going to cut your teeth in terms of game if you can't dance.
- High End Bars/Mixology/Bar @ a Hip Restaurant - This is where you go custom suited down. Chances are you can't be Team No Appetizer here either. Less dense, and the chicks split between gold diggers, hotties, scenesters and foodies.
Clubs
- Small Local clubs - have small time usually not as hot chicks. But trawl these when you're coming up
- The Typical club - less than 500 people, 1 dj, possibly a VIP area
- The Mega Club - multiple levels, dress code, cover charge, expensive drinks
- Vegas - I don't need to say more.
With that in mind, I'd say beginners should focus on
- smaller bars
- smaller clubs
6. How you should learn night game
a) Go out multiple times a week.
- helps you get used to it
- see who goes out every night
- find all the good venues and great dj's
b) Focus your energy between Sunday and Thursday
- I've said it before, if a chick is drinking Whisky Sours on a Tuesday night, she ain't doing shit Wednesday morning. Why should you allow her to sleep alone?
- There's always some really good stuff going on during the week.
When you think about it, most clubs make their rent from 11-2 am Friday and Satuday. So 24 hours pays for the entire month. Everything else they do is gravy.
Not as popular stuff happens during the week, but chicks who go out for AfroPop Thursdays or Bloody Indy Sundays are not your average type chicks. They're usually not the typical basic Ugg wearing, pumpkin spice latte bitches that you normally meet on a Friday night.
c) go solo
- your boys will slow you down, especially if they're not into the game
- you'll learn a whole lot more
d) don't drink (a lot)
- being hungover sucks
- being sharp helps you when you talk to these broads and not get caught up
I'd say it's a 2 beer max, and nurse that mf'er.
7. Prep for the night game
- you should already be taking care of yourself, eating right, exercising, lifting heavy, sprinting, vitamins
- you should already have a good hair cut, clipped nails, a sparkling fresh mouth
- you should ideally have your own place, your own car/reliable transportation
The thing you might not have is appropriate clothes.
If you've got some guns, a fitted dress shirt, polo, or nice white t-shirt will show off your merchandise.
Otherwise, you need to figure out what people are wearing and either dress the best you can in that style or adopt a recognizable style. Night Game as a newb is not really the place to wear a Top Hat or feather boa. Once you get the vibe in your city, that's when you can spice things up.
To figure out what to wear, I suggest that you go to club websites and see what the guys are wearing. All the Parties comes to mind. Just heading to the mall and hoping the cute chubby girl @ Express for Men will hook you up is asking for trouble.
- house should be clean, smelling good
- bathroom is immaculate
- alcohol, weed, pills, chocolate chip cookies...whatever your vice is, should be stocked
- condoms in the wallet/pocket
- even if you don't take your shoes off when you enter your spot, temporarily do it so when a broad comes through, she takes her shoes off. (social convention is great for some things)
- no clocks anywhere
8. The Night Of
So you found a cool club night on Thursday. You can afford to be a little tired Friday morning, no big deal.
Going into it, you know that the chicks there are cool with a bang that night with the right guy.
And guess what, you're Mr. Right.
Spot is prepped. You looking dope. Smelling like new cologne. Jamming your favorite hype music.
You're gonna drive there, take a cab, or public transport.
If you meet a chick and she's good to go, you know what to do.
If she's into you, but needs more time, you have a bounce location between the club and your house in mind.
9. The Club Itself
For Newb Players
- meet and greet
- get the lay of the land
Emergency Exits in case them boys wanna start shooting?
Where is the bathroom?
Are there couches for chilling?
Where's the dance floor?
where's the bar?
Where's the smoking area?
Where's parking?
You want to know where you can move a chick around while you're in the club.
Most of the chicks you deal with and end up banging come to the club with people. So sometimes you gotta pull the baby gazelle from the rest of the herd.
10. For the long term players, you want to lock down the spot, and then build a circuit
The Lock down - meet and greet the door guy, bouncer, bartender, and waitress
The Circuit - see if you can find the promoter or dj. Get their info, and see where else they spin/promote. Now you'll know where to find similar girls, and might be able to leverage your way into the scene.
11) Club Timeline
In many places club hours are between 10-2. When a club closes @ 4/6, people still leave earlier than that.
Now most clubs i've been to open the doors @ 8/9.
No one really starts getting there until after 10.
By 11:30 the line is there and the dj is starting to play good stuff, but not the most hype.
12:00 the chicks are getting tipsy and probably dancing
1:00 pm - peak at the club typically, and chicks start to leave.
1:50 am - the scramble, dudes who ain't got nothing for the night start to get bold and come off the wall.
2:00-2:10 - if you close the club this is when you walk out
2:10-2:30 - last ditch effort to pull a chick. Also time to do some parking lot pimping if you shined up the Chevy Cobalt previously.
So as a new player, you might want to get their early.
As a vet trying to lock a new place down, you get their early to connect with folks
But if you're a true bachelor, you show up Around 11 ish to get at the chicks after the alcohol kicks in and the dancing is starting.
12) Your approach to the game
Everyone has a different approach, a different mindset, a different set of assumptions.
I know that a man can talk his way into pussy. So I know I can convert a reluctant girl.
But you might not think that way, you might think that a man can only screen a girl to see if she's down to fuck him that night.
It doesn't matter. Just know what your basic assumptions are and test them.
With that in mind, I offer 3 ways to handle your BI.
The Spam Approach - talk to every chick there and see what's up.
The RSD/Boomerrang approach - Talk to every set for 2-5 minutes, get phone #'s and get the logistics for every girl. You'll know quickly if you have some chemistry with a chick. You'll also know fairly quickly if she lives by herself around the corner....
After working the room, pick one chick - hottest? most in to you? best logistics? - and focus on her. Call all the other ones the next day.
The talk to the hottest chick you think you can pull and stay in the set as long ass possible - You can't get good @ the game incrementally, imo. A good opener isn't really good unless it results in a bang.
Lot of guys can open a set, but they don't know enough about the next step in the sequence to get to the promised pussy land. Often they end up changing their openers to make the next steps easier.
Study long, study right!
Whichever method you initially pick, you'll eventually use all of them and then none of them.
13) Run Your Game
This is your black box. I don't know what your game is. Whether it's heavy on compliance, heavy on qualifying, super jokey, lots of kino, observational humor, childish pranks, bemused alpha, stacks of routines - that's up to you and your guru.
The advantages of running game at night means you can be a little more daring, a little more forceful, a little more risque at night without weirding the chick out. And it's typically got enough density that you can try a bunch of things out.
Night Game's looseness benefits all methods.
14) When she's ready - Head on home
You might need to bounce to your bounce location.
You might need some comfort during the drive home, cab ride to her place, on the train...et cetera.
Once she gets to your spot, or you get to hers, and depending on the heat previously generated - commence the hooking up.
If you can sense that she's tense, kiss her and then back off. Up the ante, and then pull back. Tease her until she can't take it anymore.
And then....READ THE BIBLE TOGETHER!
_____________________________________________________
Feel free to ask questions.
WIA
Even though Night game is a shadow of what it once was, partially because of the internet and because of Clubs that are moving to Tables for Whales, Night Game is where I think everyone should learn game.
Night game offers a concentration of impulsive lizards waiting and wanting a bit of dick in their lives. Make no mistake, that's why they're there. Every last one of em can buy some 2 Buck Chuck and drink on the solo. They go for the liquor, music, lights, excitement, and TO BE HIT ON BY GUYS. The warpaint is on, the heels shod, and the bitch shields up.
- hot chicks
- impulsive chicks
- chicks who are happy because of the music and vibe
- drunk/high chicks
- lots of chicks, all dressed to be sexy
- They're going to be in bed with or without you in 3-4 hours
Ideal night game situations allow you to get in a lot of approaches, build up your tolerance, destroy your approach anxiety, and have a reasonable chance of having sex within 3-5 hours.
2. Night Game vs Day Game
In defense of day game
- chicks aren't *as* made up
- the bitch shields *can* be lower. (but lizards get approached and catcalled all day if they're attractive)
- it's low investment
That being said, Day Game doesn't typically give you that night game ease, unless it's particular environments.
3) The Day Game Density Exceptions
"Big City Square" - in NYC it's Union Square, elsewhere in the Americas you have to find yourself close to a college campus. Very few places have that day time density comparable to a decent night club. This usually lacks a key ingredient for inhibition unleashment...alcohol
"The Beach" - the boardwalk can be a good look
"The day time concert/festival with lots of drinking"
"A good higher end shopping mall on the weekend"
There are other examples, but usually you don't get night time opportunities during the day.
4) Night Game - Bars v. Clubs
Clubs serve alcohol. Bars often have DJ's.
What really separates a Bar from a Club is whether or not people are dancing.
The major advantage to going to a Dance club over a bar is that
1) girls feel sexual when they dance (dancing is all about showing fertility)
2) if you can dance, you can -
a) put your hands on her,
b) lead her around,
c) get social proof
d) they pass out Ferraris for the best guy on the dance floor*
*not true
5) Types of bars and clubs
Bars
- Dives and Neighborhood joints - sometimes on the corner, sometimes in a strip mall - this is where you go for local tang and cougars.
- Hotel Bars - speaking of cougars, keep an eye out for the conventions coming to town. You'll always find some randy bitches @ the Hampton Inn. A chick sitting alone at a hotel bar is looking for sex. (but she may also be a pro(stitute) so keep that in mind as well.
- Sports Bars - this is where you go to watch sports. I've seen guys run here, but in general a sports bar is a sausage fest.
- the Bar with a dance floor and DJ - This is ideal in my opinion, because essentially you have a small make shift club. Easy to see everyone, easy to get to and from the bar, probably has a smoking area. And in general, people dress down a little. You won't get the hottest of the hotties, but more than enough cuties and chicks with good bodies go to these places
- Hip Bars/Hipster Bars - Usually packed. This is where you're going to cut your teeth in terms of game if you can't dance.
- High End Bars/Mixology/Bar @ a Hip Restaurant - This is where you go custom suited down. Chances are you can't be Team No Appetizer here either. Less dense, and the chicks split between gold diggers, hotties, scenesters and foodies.
Clubs
- Small Local clubs - have small time usually not as hot chicks. But trawl these when you're coming up
- The Typical club - less than 500 people, 1 dj, possibly a VIP area
- The Mega Club - multiple levels, dress code, cover charge, expensive drinks
- Vegas - I don't need to say more.
With that in mind, I'd say beginners should focus on
- smaller bars
- smaller clubs
6. How you should learn night game
a) Go out multiple times a week.
- helps you get used to it
- see who goes out every night
- find all the good venues and great dj's
b) Focus your energy between Sunday and Thursday
- I've said it before, if a chick is drinking Whisky Sours on a Tuesday night, she ain't doing shit Wednesday morning. Why should you allow her to sleep alone?
- There's always some really good stuff going on during the week.
When you think about it, most clubs make their rent from 11-2 am Friday and Satuday. So 24 hours pays for the entire month. Everything else they do is gravy.
Not as popular stuff happens during the week, but chicks who go out for AfroPop Thursdays or Bloody Indy Sundays are not your average type chicks. They're usually not the typical basic Ugg wearing, pumpkin spice latte bitches that you normally meet on a Friday night.
c) go solo
- your boys will slow you down, especially if they're not into the game
- you'll learn a whole lot more
d) don't drink (a lot)
- being hungover sucks
- being sharp helps you when you talk to these broads and not get caught up
I'd say it's a 2 beer max, and nurse that mf'er.
7. Prep for the night game
- you should already be taking care of yourself, eating right, exercising, lifting heavy, sprinting, vitamins
- you should already have a good hair cut, clipped nails, a sparkling fresh mouth
- you should ideally have your own place, your own car/reliable transportation
The thing you might not have is appropriate clothes.
If you've got some guns, a fitted dress shirt, polo, or nice white t-shirt will show off your merchandise.
Otherwise, you need to figure out what people are wearing and either dress the best you can in that style or adopt a recognizable style. Night Game as a newb is not really the place to wear a Top Hat or feather boa. Once you get the vibe in your city, that's when you can spice things up.
To figure out what to wear, I suggest that you go to club websites and see what the guys are wearing. All the Parties comes to mind. Just heading to the mall and hoping the cute chubby girl @ Express for Men will hook you up is asking for trouble.
- house should be clean, smelling good
- bathroom is immaculate
- alcohol, weed, pills, chocolate chip cookies...whatever your vice is, should be stocked
- condoms in the wallet/pocket
- even if you don't take your shoes off when you enter your spot, temporarily do it so when a broad comes through, she takes her shoes off. (social convention is great for some things)
- no clocks anywhere
8. The Night Of
So you found a cool club night on Thursday. You can afford to be a little tired Friday morning, no big deal.
Going into it, you know that the chicks there are cool with a bang that night with the right guy.
And guess what, you're Mr. Right.
Spot is prepped. You looking dope. Smelling like new cologne. Jamming your favorite hype music.
You're gonna drive there, take a cab, or public transport.
If you meet a chick and she's good to go, you know what to do.
If she's into you, but needs more time, you have a bounce location between the club and your house in mind.
9. The Club Itself
For Newb Players
- meet and greet
- get the lay of the land
Emergency Exits in case them boys wanna start shooting?
Where is the bathroom?
Are there couches for chilling?
Where's the dance floor?
where's the bar?
Where's the smoking area?
Where's parking?
You want to know where you can move a chick around while you're in the club.
Most of the chicks you deal with and end up banging come to the club with people. So sometimes you gotta pull the baby gazelle from the rest of the herd.
10. For the long term players, you want to lock down the spot, and then build a circuit
The Lock down - meet and greet the door guy, bouncer, bartender, and waitress
The Circuit - see if you can find the promoter or dj. Get their info, and see where else they spin/promote. Now you'll know where to find similar girls, and might be able to leverage your way into the scene.
11) Club Timeline
In many places club hours are between 10-2. When a club closes @ 4/6, people still leave earlier than that.
Now most clubs i've been to open the doors @ 8/9.
No one really starts getting there until after 10.
By 11:30 the line is there and the dj is starting to play good stuff, but not the most hype.
12:00 the chicks are getting tipsy and probably dancing
1:00 pm - peak at the club typically, and chicks start to leave.
1:50 am - the scramble, dudes who ain't got nothing for the night start to get bold and come off the wall.
2:00-2:10 - if you close the club this is when you walk out
2:10-2:30 - last ditch effort to pull a chick. Also time to do some parking lot pimping if you shined up the Chevy Cobalt previously.
So as a new player, you might want to get their early.
As a vet trying to lock a new place down, you get their early to connect with folks
But if you're a true bachelor, you show up Around 11 ish to get at the chicks after the alcohol kicks in and the dancing is starting.
12) Your approach to the game
Everyone has a different approach, a different mindset, a different set of assumptions.
I know that a man can talk his way into pussy. So I know I can convert a reluctant girl.
But you might not think that way, you might think that a man can only screen a girl to see if she's down to fuck him that night.
It doesn't matter. Just know what your basic assumptions are and test them.
With that in mind, I offer 3 ways to handle your BI.
The Spam Approach - talk to every chick there and see what's up.
The RSD/Boomerrang approach - Talk to every set for 2-5 minutes, get phone #'s and get the logistics for every girl. You'll know quickly if you have some chemistry with a chick. You'll also know fairly quickly if she lives by herself around the corner....
After working the room, pick one chick - hottest? most in to you? best logistics? - and focus on her. Call all the other ones the next day.
The talk to the hottest chick you think you can pull and stay in the set as long ass possible - You can't get good @ the game incrementally, imo. A good opener isn't really good unless it results in a bang.
Lot of guys can open a set, but they don't know enough about the next step in the sequence to get to the promised pussy land. Often they end up changing their openers to make the next steps easier.
Study long, study right!
Whichever method you initially pick, you'll eventually use all of them and then none of them.
13) Run Your Game
This is your black box. I don't know what your game is. Whether it's heavy on compliance, heavy on qualifying, super jokey, lots of kino, observational humor, childish pranks, bemused alpha, stacks of routines - that's up to you and your guru.
The advantages of running game at night means you can be a little more daring, a little more forceful, a little more risque at night without weirding the chick out. And it's typically got enough density that you can try a bunch of things out.
Night Game's looseness benefits all methods.
14) When she's ready - Head on home
You might need to bounce to your bounce location.
You might need some comfort during the drive home, cab ride to her place, on the train...et cetera.
Once she gets to your spot, or you get to hers, and depending on the heat previously generated - commence the hooking up.
If you can sense that she's tense, kiss her and then back off. Up the ante, and then pull back. Tease her until she can't take it anymore.
And then....READ THE BIBLE TOGETHER!
_____________________________________________________
Feel free to ask questions.
WIA