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Before we begin this edition of Real Talk Sessions, let me issue a friendly reminder about this series.
This is Real Talk Sessions, not Simp Sessions, Non-Pimpin' Sessions, Chump Sessions, Tell You What You Want To Hear So You Can Feel Better About Yourself Sessions, Validate Your Insecurities and Non-Gaming Practices Sessions, this is just Real Talk Sessions.
In these posts, I'm only going to give you the real because the only way you can learn and get better in the game with women and the game of life overall is to soak in the real.
So with that being said, let's get to it.
At this point in the game, it's become fashionable for a man to say he's a player. The classification of "player" has a positive connotation to it, unlike simp, white knight, mangina, etc. so it stands to reason that one would rather be viewed as a player than not.
Most players self-classify because they come up on pussy from time to time, but that alone does not make one a player.
The truth is that there are actually very few true players. Some may even say there are good players and bad players, I said so to an extent in a previous session, but for all intents and purposes the players are the only ones who are actually good at the game. This isn't a sport where you can have guys in the league who are good and guys who aren't, but everyone's still in the league.
Men who aren't even in the game are called non-players.
I make a conscious effort to call out non-players.
You can't learn anything from these guys, and they have no business trying to teach or encourage you to do anything. They'd do better to come forward, confess to being chumps, and sit the fuck down somewhere and take in real game, eschewing anything they previously thought or believed in the process.
Gamblers: Ready To Bet, Ready To Lose
Men who take L's with women are called gamblers.
Again, these guys consider themselves players simply because they come up on pussy, so the fact that they actually have women in their lives gives them some sort of standing to talk about game and how it pertains to women.
You can actually learn something from these guys. You can learn from them by not repeating their mistakes, but because they make costly mistakes, they can't offer you any advice.
The root of the gamblers' problems is that they pedastalize pussy.
They get caught up with how attractive it is to them which blinds their ability to think the game and be rational and objective in that process. They see what they want to see so they're willing to pursue something that's not really there.
Recently, a ROK writer shared his story, in which he claims he "forgot" his game, but given the story he shared, it is my contention that he never had game to begin with.
When you let how a woman looks or how good her sex game is cloud your judgment, you don't have game, you're just a slave to her pussy.
No man can go on the type of ride the man above went on, and yet claim to have had game.
Game helps men win and thus avoid L's.
Let's do another case study, take a look at this woman:
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If you met her at a club and she was willing to go home with you, you would take her home, and then after she broke you off, you probably wouldn't kick her out of bed. Let's keep it 100, most men would find her attractive.
The problem is she has been to many clubs around the country, gone home with many men, fucked them, and then robbed them while they were asleep.
She recently was arrested in Miami for committing this crime. She's robbed at least two men, likely more, in this manner here in the past six months. Her game was to meet men at the infamous Club LIV, go home with them, and then rob them while they were asleep.
Now do you think she would have been able to do that, if she walked into LIV looking like this?
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I've been to LIV so many times, I can't tell you how many, if she showed up looking like that, they wouldn't even let her in.
She is the type of woman who preys on gamblers. In her case, the gamblers were men with money who use the fact that they have money to attract poor women like her with the hopes of fucking them. They put on high-end, name-brand clothes, rock expensive watches, and drive their luxury whips up to valet at expensive, "exclusive" clubs like LIV.
What they don't realize they're doing is, they're making themselves marks, especially in a city full of hustlers like Miami.
Once a woman identifies you as a mark, whether it be because you have money, you're nice, whatever quality it is that you have that she can use for her own gain, you become viewed as someone who she can extract something from, and she will use the fact that you want sex from her, to get it.
In the end, she will have gotten more out of the deal than you, and you'll be left angry, frustrated, etc. You saw what you wanted to see, which made you willing to gamble in the game, and unsurprisingly, you lost.
Players: Ready To Play, Ready To Win
Players don't make the mistakes that gamblers make because they don't get blinded by the pussy. The pussy is the destination, but there's still this journey one has to take before he gets there. During that journey, a player thinks the game. He may like what he sees, but he has to figure out what exactly the end game is, what it's going to take to get there, and if it's worth it or not to take that journey.
If a player meets the aforementioned club rat, he will notice that she's paying close attention to his gear. "Is that a Rolex?" "Are those Gucci loafers?" A player may have bought her a drink, but he would have noticed what she was drinking. For a girl to be on her hustle game, the way this chick was, she can't get drunk. So a player would have noticed that she was drinking light shit and/or nursing her drinks so she could keep her wits about her.
These are red flags.
If her game was really tight, maybe she could have hid some of those markers, but in the end, even if the player might have taken the club rat home, he would have kicked her out shortly after the sex ended. He wouldn't have put himself in a vulnerable position of falling asleep while having a complete stranger in his crib that is full of valuables.
Players don't gamble.
This is why most players only have short relationships with women. Guys like to have fuck buddies -- who are really girls who'd like to be their girlfriend, but accept that all they can get is sex -- but with each fuck buddy they are gambling on these women being able to keep their emotions in check. Their hope is that these women can accept just being side pussy while being conscious of the fact that he continues to chase better pussy and better relationships because he doesn't really want her.
In the long run, that is a bet most guys will lose. Women may give off the appearance that they can do it for a little while, but after a short time -- and a few fuck sessions -- their emotions get the best of them, and they start having feelings.
Players choose to see women for who they are and they use who a woman actually is to define the relationship they are willing to have with her, if any at all. They also must be realistic about how ultimately these relationships are going to turn out. They don't have time to lie themselves about toxic women, and using the fact that have available pussy as justification for dealing with them.
En Resumen
Men should be dealing with women who have their shit together. When a guy is telling you a story about some chick and all he can do is go on and on about "how hot she is", that should let you know that the chick has nothing else to bring to the table. We allow ourselves to be a part of this hypocritical game in which you as the man have to be damn near perfect to pull a 6, but a woman who lives with her mother and the three kids she's had from two different guys in a two-bedroom apartment in Hialeah can get whatever she needs out of a man just because she has a fat ass is a fucking joke.
Men have demonstrated throughout history that they are willing to risk it all over some pussy, the most overrated "accomplishment" on Earth.
You can gamble if you want, but I'm only playing to win.
The Next Real Talk Sessions
Thinking The Game and Female Losers = DOA Relationships
