[Go-getter]

White american female self-entitlement meets the harsh reality of a market saturated with feminine and cute Asian pussy. 'Where have all the (white and tall) men gone?' wonders our today's featured author. Classic case.

http://blogs.wsj.com/expat/2015/02/12/ex...s-elusive/

White american woman - check
Disappointment after relocating from US to SE Asia - check
Terrible aging - check
Pet in avatar pic - check
Smirking in pic - check

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The dating scene in Hong Kong wasn’t hopeless, but it became almost a cliche in my friend circles to complain about dead-end prospects. We were jet-setting and making huge strides in our careers, but our love lives felt stunted. Why, I wondered, did this otherwise vibrant, diverse city seem so lacking when it came to young, single men?

It's not lacking, heck, there's loads of young, affluent, very well dressed young guys, including many entrepreneurs. But you're invisible to them sweetheart.

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Dating is daunting just about everywhere. But dating as an expat — “expiration dating” as some call it — brings its own unique set of frustrations.

I gave my blessing to my friend, but their courtship fizzled after a second date.

I was 25 when I moved from New York to Hong Kong, a city that, despite an obsession with new architecture and modern infrastructure, still classifies unmarried foreign women as “spinsters” on official visa documents.

[iknowexactly]

gawd her pic... she looks 45 .. also it's interesting the way she talks about "the dating scene for 20-somethings-- including men and women implicitly in that group. As if over-30 adventurers like myself aren't not only going for 20-somethings-- I don't even go after girls over 25 !!

I still don't like kicking people while they're down-- really First World women are the beneficiaries, but also the victims of Feminist indoctrination, how can you expect them to see the whole picture when they:

1) Don't understand the role of women in history prior to the last 50-75 years ( or have been convinced that was all an aberration, and the last 50 years is normal and the prior 3000 years was a mistake or oddity. )

2) Haven't had a chance while young to see their real market value somewhere where men don't kiss ass, like the Philippines.

[Phoenix]

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Hong Kong, a city that, despite an obsession with new architecture and modern infrastructure, still classifies unmarried foreign women as “spinsters” on official visa documents.

Yes. Because they're spinsters.

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She lived in Hong Kong for three years before repatriating to the U.S. in late 2013.

I'm surprised she stuck it out so long. 90% of the American women I've met living in Asia have this same concurrent sense of entitlement and lack of sexual competitiveness. I've yet to meet any long term expats who were women and under the age of 40; men is a different story.

[Sp5]

What a snobby condescending cunt. What's wrong with Dan Brown?

[It_is_my_time]

(03-10-2015 05:03 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

gawd her pic... she looks 45 .. also it's interesting the way she talks about "the dating scene for 20-somethings-- including men and women implicitly in that group. As if over-30 adventurers like myself aren't not only going for 20-somethings-- I don't even go after girls over 25 !!

I still don't like kicking people while they're down-- really First World women are the beneficiaries, but also the victims of Feminist indoctrination, how can you expect them to see the whole picture when they:

1) Don't understand the role of women in history prior to the last 50-75 years ( or have been convinced that was all an aberration, and the last 50 years is normal and the prior 3000 years was a mistake or oddity. )

2) Haven't had a chance while young to see their real market value somewhere where men don't kiss ass, like the Philippines.

Feminism will hurt women more than men in the long run. It has exposed to men the true ignorance and self hatred women have and how they want to lash out at men for no reason what so ever.

If the white knight truly cared about women, they would be working with red pill men to get women out of the voting booth so they don't destroy their own futures.

With that said, it is damn funny seeing an American woman have to face reality for the first time. Their entire fantasy world crumbles before their eyes and the truth they know deep down is let out of its cage.

[Windom Earle]

(03-10-2015 05:41 AM)It_is_my_time Wrote:  

With that said, it is damn funny seeing an American woman have to face reality for the first time. Their entire fantasy world crumbles before their eyes and the truth they know deep down is let out of its cage.

Out of its cage and straight onto a hamster wheel, evidently.

[WanderingSoul]

I like how she completely ignored the obvious reason she is single, she's a poorly dressed, unattractive girl who takes no pride in her personal appearance, living in Asia. She simply cannot compete with even the Chinese girls who would be considered ugly by local standards.

She tries to paint the picture as if she's rejecting all of the "frat boy" bankers she talks about, but the reality is they wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole.

[Parlay44]

I was at a party one time and talking to a girl there. She was about 38. Kinda slutty. Always saying sexual things for attention kinda girl. I told her that I find braces attractive. And she says "Ohh you like younger girls huh". I had to scratch my head for a second. Is there any other choice?

So then I came to the realization that women categorize men and can find any male quality attractive. Money, looks, experience, game, older guys, younger guys etc.

I'm sure some men fetishize certain types of women. But for the most part we desire youth and beauty and subconsciously fertility. Everything else is just a novelty.

I guess women have to find so many different things attractive. It's the only way they can mass market their poosy and get long term security.

[WestIndianArchie]

I am not saddened by this story, not like the last one.

WIA

[Sumanguru]

I'd almost respect her if she'd actually had the courage to admit that she doesn't want to date all the short skinny Asian dudes surrounding her.

[YossariansRight]

(03-10-2015 05:09 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

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Hong Kong, a city that, despite an obsession with new architecture and modern infrastructure, still classifies unmarried foreign women as “spinsters” on official visa documents.

Yes. Because they're spinsters.

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She lived in Hong Kong for three years before repatriating to the U.S. in late 2013.

I'm surprised she stuck it out so long. 90% of the American women I've met living in Asia have this same concurrent sense of entitlement and lack of sexual competitiveness. I've yet to meet any long term expats who were women and under the age of 40; men is a different story.

   

[bacon]

A fat american mid 20s girl (also short hair) works at the same school I teach at in Thailand. Me and another male teacher were talking about women in Asia and I brought up how hot Korean chicks are and fat chick jumps into the conversation saying "They are all plastic". I laughed at her comment and said to the male coworker "whatever they do is working they are some of the hottest chicks in Asia". Fatty then mumbles but loud and clear enough that I could hear "well then that kind of makes you a shitty person" To which I call her out "why are you shaming me for my sexual preferences?" Fatty doesnt really have a response and says "I wasnt shaming you" then looks at the ground and makes an excuse to leave. When she leaves male coworker turns to me and says "Yea dont pay attention to her she is really sensitive since she has very low self esteem as she hasnt been getting any attention from men since she moved to Thailand she admitted this to me when she was drunk last week." LOL

[Suits]

(03-10-2015 05:03 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

I still don't like kicking people while they're down--

I do!

I won't go around look for opportunities to attack white women I meet here in Beijing, but if the topic comes up, I'll speak the truth.

And I will do so with out repercussions.

Do you think my Chinese employers care if I hurt some obnoxious white girl's feelings? Even if they did, I have multiple employers for a certain reason.

Do you think a girl with widdle hurt feelings could talk smack about me and hurt my reputation socially? Not unless she speaks Chinese and gets invited to my parties. (She doesn't and she doesn't). She will never meet my friends/FBs and she probably couldn't even talk to them if she did.

I don't hate them. I just don't care. They are invisible to me.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(03-10-2015 06:12 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

I like how she completely ignored the obvious reason she is single, she's a poorly dressed, unattractive girl who takes no pride in her personal appearance, living in Asia. She simply cannot compete with even the Chinese girls who would be considered ugly by local standards.

She tries to paint the picture as if she's rejecting all of the "frat boy" bankers she talks about, but the reality is they wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole.

Hah - Western women cannot deal with a male buyers' market.

The frat boy bankers she saw were not given her the time of day - they were completely ignoring her.

But at least she got a sugar-daddy offer by a local guy, so that's something:



Ah - I wish the entire Western world would be as harsh to them as the Hong Kong dating market. Feminism then would be the least of their worries.

[iknowexactly]

(03-10-2015 05:19 AM)Sp5 Wrote:  

What a snobby condescending cunt. What's wrong with Dan Brown?

Hahaha... she WISHES she had anything near his brains...

Dan Brown's Education:
Education: Phillips Exeter Academy, University of Seville, Amherst College

Shit, _I_ wish I had anything like his brain!!!

[StrikeBack]

(03-10-2015 07:00 AM)Sumanguru Wrote:  

I'd almost respect her if she'd actually had the courage to admit that she doesn't want to date all the short skinny Asian dudes surrounding her.

Perhaps she doesn't, but it doesn't even matter if she does, because those guys can date hotter local girls than her.

This chick looks 45 at 25. She doesn't have a chance in Asia.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(03-10-2015 07:58 AM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

(03-10-2015 07:00 AM)Sumanguru Wrote:  

I'd almost respect her if she'd actually had the courage to admit that she doesn't want to date all the short skinny Asian dudes surrounding her.

Perhaps she doesn't, but it doesn't even matter if she does, because those guys can date hotter local girls than her.

This chick looks 45 at 25. She doesn't have a chance in Asia.

Here some more reasons apart from her deluded mindset which works against her:







The pic that she posts on her website predates her college years - I guess she was 20 back then and 40-80 pounds lighter.



This is probably the more current picture:

What a surprise that hot young men in HK were ignoring her - I am really flabbergasted by it.

[kosko]

She is ugly as a dog. She likely had to fly to Thailand every other week to get boned by drunk dudes as it was the only way she could score in Asia.

[Rompetoto]

I know this has been said numerous times about numerous broads but if she dropped 20-40 pounds did her make up better and grew her hair out her problems would magically vanish.... Then she would proceed to write a article on how all these "creepy asian guys keep trying to talk to her"...

[MrXY]

American women in the US can get away with being overweight and slovenly because the sexual market is so tilted in their favor.

Notice how she abides by political correctness by tiptoeing around the fact that she's not attracted to Asian men

[Bones707]

Who cares. She can always come back to North America and steal all the attention from the hordes of desperate fuckers that roam in North America.

[Fortis]

LOL, she didn't age, she fucking curdled like milk.

[GlockTrigga]

In Japan Gaijin women are largely ignored. Even as an ESL teacher you get no play. The only time you can score is if you are a Scandinavian girl who is 5'6-5'9 with big ass titties and blonde hair. You have to have insane curves and perfect complexion. Basically you have to look better than a Japanese cosplay girl. Good luck ladies, now you know what it feels like to be a Man in the West!

[WanderingSoul]

(03-10-2015 11:43 AM)GlockTrigga Wrote:  

In Japan Gaijin women are largely ignored. Even as an ESL teacher you get no play. The only time you can score is if you are a Scandinavian girl who is 5'6-5'9 with big ass titties and blonde hair. You have to have insane curves and perfect complexion. Basically you have to look better than a Japanese cosplay girl. Good luck ladies, now you know what it feels like to be a Man in the West!

This comes up a lot on threads like this, but I never felt like that in the west.

I think the guys who feel like that back home are basically doing the same things these girls in Asia are doing. Not taking pride in their apperance. Even in the west if you are in shape, dress well and have game you can do well for yourself and you won't be invisible. Just like I know some attractive white women in Bangkok who get plenty of attention because they go to the gym, do their hair and makeup, and dress feminine.

The dating market is definitely skewed back home and more difficult, but if someone is doing as poorly as these white chicks in Asia, it's because they don't have their shit together.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-45804-...#pid976257

There is another thread just about the same kind of HK expat women going on - just older - and Renzy dropped a nice story on that.