Quote: (05-12-2011 08:59 AM)MiXX Wrote:
Quote: (05-12-2011 12:35 AM)CJ Wrote:
Quote: (05-11-2011 09:11 AM)MiXX Wrote:
Besides, survey says that women find men with a bottle of water in their hands MORE attractive than ones with beer in their hand.
Really? I feel stupid drinking my water, so I eventually switch to beer, just so I don´t feel dorky when I´m at a club...
Ya, I don't buy into that... who are they surveying? I think you've got to be smart to not overdo it and lose focus, but a couple drinks (pending on your tolerance) really shouldn't make a difference one way or another.
Well, there is no actual survey per se, I should have written "my experience". You see, throughout the years of sarging women, I've had
SEVERAL women tell me that they are open more to a guy approaching them in a club with a bottle of water, vs a bottle of beer/grey goose in his hand.
One incredibly hot blond told me after I approached her that she specifically found me interesting as I am the only guy she's seen in the club (and approached her) with a bottle of water in hand. She hates how guys breath smells like alcohol and usually are tipsy because they are trying to hide their fear of approaching her.
No woman appreciates seeing a guy not in control and cool...ever.
Now, here is a 100% REAL scenario I ran into once:
Target: "what is that in your hand? Is that water? You don't drink?"
Mixx:"Well, on my long flight from Europe a few months ago, I read a medical journal that says alcohol decreases male sexual performance (pause and smile for a few seconds).....and I'd hate to be a disappointment later on"
Notice how I DHV's and escalated the frame to a sexual nature.
A lot of guys drink because they want to "fit in", or not seem like "the only dork" - Fact is, if you were truly alpha, you do what
YOU want, not follow what others do. That, forum players, is a major turn-on to women.
If drinking is indeed what you want, then do so..but don't ever give in to what others perceive you should be. You'll be following/copying a herd of idiots......that's beta.
Result: Bang!
Mixx
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Insightful.
I´ve discussed or read elsewhere over here about the "drinking game" issue, and since cut down A LOT. But I still felt awkwards...
I shall stick to my bottle of water and try to see what changes...
cheers!