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05-12-2011, 12:14 AM
Lmao. Awesome suggestions especially #9.
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11-06-2011, 03:25 PM
This whole indian guy having no game, low-self esteem, can't get with hot girls stems from the fact that they're raised to be polite, gentlemen like, and being good boys...but it's becoming to extreme these days. I'm an indian guy(born in india but raised here in los angeles for over 20 years, I am 27 now), and i swear to you, i have indian cousins/friends that pull girls. Not always the hottest or best from the bunch, but they definitely can pull if someone dared them or just wanted to get laid. The indian guys that aren't too good in the dating game are the same ones that just haven't grown any balls/guts and are always worried what their friends/family would think or in general very shy. Theres just too many of those indian guys. My advice to growing guts is learn some martial arts, do some physical contact sports basically, that will start training your mind to becoming less worried or always being pussy. Thats how I matured and got with ladies. And shiit, none of my cousins/friends really helped lol...i just decided to do it, and never looked back.
The Indian guys here in los angeles are either fit/athletic/workout have a social life, or the complete opposite...lol no grey in between. And even if your the type of indian guy that just can't pick up game and tried and failed repeatedly, keep improving yourselves in other ways, going to the gym is a definite must and thats where indian guys need to start putting more time in general. Everytime I go to the gym I see just about every race except indian lol...and when I see indian guys, they don't take it very seriously, its like they're just there to kill time. And I'm sure the ladies at the gym aren't impressed by it.
Let me share an experience that shows how important it is for a guy to be in shape at the very least: I go to the gym regularly like couple times a week, not everyday or anything, and over time i got bigger more cut etc...and as soon as I was showing results, more ladies started to approach me. Most are not up-front when they approach you, they act like they're looking for something or in general ask "help me" questions. Now any guy with a brain and some level of self-esteem would realize the girl can ask anyone, so if she's taking the time to walk over to you then for sure she's got some interest in you. And thats it! it doesn't take much more to get attention from women...And I don't talk like a gentlemen or extremely polite to them, i play around with their questions like "can't you read" lol, or "sure give me a couple of mins"...lol, and they laugh it off.
Another problem with indian guys is they rarely ever help their indian friends advance in life in terms of socially or getting women. They just point fingers lol or just pretend like its not their problem. And I have to tell you, thats just f'd up. Everytime I'm with my cousins or friends, I take the initiative to help them out, not to say I do everything or I'm a push over, its more like I do things to back them up or help them out with their situation. It helps them, which in turn helps me b/c it looks good in front of other people, and people start getting a better perception of us. It's like the "what goes around comes around" effect.
And god dammit, stop reading these topics about indain guys not being able to get girls etc and totally let it control your life or depress you, it should'nt be taken that seriously, if anything learn from it or just don't let it bother you at all...thats it. For every indian guy posting about having no game and not getting laid, there are more out there that are getting plenty of action, like me for instance.
And for all the indian sluts out there blaming their own race for w/e reason, you all need to stfu and start contributing instead of adding to the problem...lazy bitches.
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11-06-2011, 03:34 PM
Oh and one last thing, indian guys need to stop treating indian women like queens, its seriously ruining our chances getting laid or getting freaky(lol) with our own women. Because as soon as you start treating a bitch like she's the only hot bitch in the world, she'll expect more and more, and the shiit never ends. Women are evil and cynical as fuck, and completely shameless in their game, so be a man, take charge and let that bitch know whose wearing the pants in the relationship. Dont be a jerk directly necessarily, just don't treat them like queens. Seriously I've several indian women in the past that have these double standards for indian men, like they have to be rich or very good looking or both BUT they have no standards or concerns about guys of other ethnicities, its just fucked up how we indians are raising our women, its totally screwing it up for us. Not to mention its boring always being nice.
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12-09-2011, 08:20 PM
Actually Indian srilankan dark skin types do well in scandinavia, Canada, and some parts of europe with more whitter skinned people but stay out of anywhere tanned or brown (africa, asia, carribean, latin america)
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12-10-2011, 12:28 PM
I get ignored in the US because I have dark hair, the US ladies have nazi complex and only like guys with blond hair and who are at least 6 1'. The funny thing is that those guys in the US make up a minority unless you are talking about upper midwestern states, Neither white american women are that tall to demand such tall guys, average young white american girl is not over 5'5 (165 cm)
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12-10-2011, 02:45 PM
Yeah, i do get a kick out of it that white women want a 6'3 man, really, do you only want to marry baseball players and guys from the oc or something.
But some white american women are very tall almost as tall as me 6'0
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12-10-2011, 02:48 PM
I am starting to really wonder about Indian guys and what the fuck the problem is. Again last night I'm talking with a girl and another one epic cockblocked me. Calling me a liar and almost yelling at me for talking to a girl sitting near him that he didn't even know.
Now this is the third time and also about the only three times I've even been around one of the dudes.
Would somebody please explain to me Why this is happening? I just don't get it and it's getting old now
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12-10-2011, 03:21 PM
95% of desi men have no game and get jealous when western men are hitting on desi women. Shit they get jealous when other desi men are hitting on women. They are many reasons why
1) If their FOB there not use to having other colors beside brown talking to women and for some reason think the women is being threatened.
2) Deep down inside they know Indian women prefer white guys to Indian males and try to hate.
3) They cant handle their alcohol.
4) They probably have more drama inside then females
Growing up in chicago, 5-6 years ago I use to pick up mad women left and right being a light skin pakistani, If I tried hard I could get away looking like wilmer valderrama. But ever since the desi explosion within the past few years ever night spot have floods of desi men acting like either douche bag drunks or typical creepy smelly stereotypical desi men, so by the time I approach women they already have a preset stereotypical image of what ill be like.
This is why I pretty much never hit on indian / pakistani women, not worth the headaches and drama. If they approach me, cool otherwise no thanks
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12-10-2011, 05:17 PM
The cooler laid back Indian bro's will come off more like Kal Penn's character Kumar from Harold & Kumar, lol. They're basically no different than any of the dudes on this forum. There are a LOT of the weird, antisocial ones (both FOB and the ABCD's that grew up here) that are cliquey & insecure and will screw things up in a social setting. Too many desi's (Indians, Southasians) are into money & status, showing off, etc.