[Sourcecode]

This isn't me.. stumbled on this Reddit thread and just got so confused

Reddit OKC link

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So I was in town with a friend yesterday, getting coffee, where we were chatting about online dating (he uses pof) and he told me that he and his flatmate had managed to track down my okcupid profile (I'm impressed as I live in a completely different part of the country and use a different name for it).

Anyway, he said that reading my profile made me come across as misogynistic and as "the type of person that might hit women". I'm obviously pretty concerned by this as this so I was wondering if someone could read my profile and let me know if that is the case. Both my friends are the kind of people that overreact and take things too literally but I just wanted to check with a wider group. I think he may have been referring to my "personality" section which describes me as more dominant and sex driven and as less compassionate etc.

I've previously submitted my profile for review and had nothing come up other than picture. I've included the link below.

The dude seems like he is right on the edge of being red pill. knows what he wants in a woman and is trying to get the most out of life by studying engineering.

But he is surrounded by betas and feminist and is confused.
Wont stand up for himself

Then I found out there is actually an extension for people to use.. that automatically tells if a person is feminist or not



I wonder if this is a popular extension..

[Ocelot]

Girls in the online dating scene morally censuring and lecturing men on how to be Good People is fucking hilarious.

It's like a guy who turns up everywhere dressed as a court jester telling his co-worker "people will never take you seriously unless you start wearing a tie".

[jimukr104]

Cool..so you can let feminists screen themselves away/. It sounds like a win/win.

Question? whey haven't they made an extension that screens out hair legged women?

[Lemmo]

I'm not seeing the red pill part. He just comes across as a sniveling faggot eager to please.

[Badamson]

What's wrong with coming off like a misogynist in your profile? Mine even says "I'm a misogynist," right there in the about me. It's a great conversation starter.

[aphelion]

'Great. So if I change this, will you have sex with me? No? Well then what's the point?"

[WesternCancer]

One time a girl got some heavy lmr after telling me that my question answers made her "uncomfortable"

don't underestimate the power of the image your profile is projecting

[Parlay44]

Who cares what your "friends" think. Most of them will not be in your life 5-10 years from now.

[MrXY]

What kind of phaggots track down another guys dating profile and then confront him with a feminist critique of it?

What type of guy takes this seriously and posts about this on Reddit asking for comments?

All three of them sound like they have inverted penises.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

The default answer to this isn't to try proving that you're not misogynistic, but blasting the sanctimonious offender with the facts that A) it's not their business and B) women prefer misogynistic men.

[teh_skeeze]

You should call them creepy for being internet stalkers and that their actions do nothing but perpetuate the rapist patriarchy.

[Glaucon]

you need better friends

[germanico]

(12-24-2014 04:38 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

I wonder if this is a popular extension..

And I wonder if we should give one or two fucks.

Really man. If anyone here is getting laid through OKC, then they are doing something good on their profile/online game. No extension is going to affect that.

Me, on the other hand, havnt got even a date from OKC, which by the way is, to me, populated with entitled stuck up fatties that believe they are golden godesses. Fuck that, Im sticking to cold approaches.

[Samseau]

(12-25-2014 08:25 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

One time a girl got some heavy lmr after telling me that my question answers made her "uncomfortable"

don't underestimate the power of the image your profile is projecting

Isn't it pathetic that women will choose who to sleep with based on an internet profile?

I say lie your asses off to get laid, if that means acting like a puss then go for it. Tell them whatever they want to hear, take the path of least resistance and then tell them how you really feel after you fuck them for the first time (or don't if you want to use them for sex).

Of course, figuring out the "right" answers is a huge timesink just to bang mediocre internet skanks. Still probably much less work to do the approaches and talk to girls in person, at least way you'll know what they look like and won't need to worry about a profile.

[turkishcandy]

I don't get why anyone would resort to online dating unless it's a quick flag mission. It's an absolutely sure way of banging a chick who is way below your value. Of all the fucked up dating markets around the world, online dating sites are the ones that are most tilted towards women's interests with hot young men competing each other for the attention of chubby mediocre girls.

If you are getting bangs out of it you probably think you are doing something right, but I would say with that amount of time and effort you could bang much much hotter girls via cold approach. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and talent trying to stand out from millions of spamming drooling thirsty omegas.

[iop890]

(12-26-2014 05:42 AM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

I don't get why anyone would resort to online dating unless it's a quick flag mission. It's an absolutely sure way of banging a chick who is way below your value. Of all the fucked up dating markets around the world, online dating sites are the ones that are most tilted towards women's interests with hot young men competing each other for the attention of chubby mediocre girls.

If you are getting bangs out of it you probably think you are doing something right, but I would say with that amount of time and effort you could bang much much hotter girls via cold approach. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and talent trying to stand out from millions of spamming drooling thirsty omegas.

Pipelining.

As for why you'd do it in your home country, well I've never tried it but I see how it could lead to some easy bangs if you don't sink too much time into it.

[runsonmagic]

(12-25-2014 01:44 AM)aphelion Wrote:  

'Great. So if I change this, will you have sex with me? No? Well then what's the point?"

(12-26-2014 03:17 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

I say lie your asses off to get laid, if that means acting like a puss then go for it. Tell them whatever they want to hear, take the path of least resistance and then tell them how you really feel after you fuck them for the first time (or don't if you want to use them for sex).

This.

When I used OKC, I knew there were certain questions what were just "disqualifiers" for women - politics, gay marriage, etc. I don't really give a shit what she thinks on those, but for certain women, your feelings on the tax rate mean sex with you would be wrong. Even talking about these subjects puts her in her head, an you don't want her in her head, you want her having fun.

Women don't answer those questions consistently or honestly. The most common contradiction I saw was "how many dates does it take you to have sex?" Most women mark 3-5, because 1-2 sounds sluttly - but they'll also mark that they'd consider sex on a first date. I'd always mark 3-5 dates, then go for the bang on first date, and consistently get it with women who'd also marked 3-5. It's all bullshit, because what women say publicly about their sex life has no value or inherent meaning.

[Sourcecode]

(12-26-2014 05:42 AM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

I don't get why anyone would resort to online dating unless it's a quick flag mission. It's an absolutely sure way of banging a chick who is way below your value. Of all the fucked up dating markets around the world, online dating sites are the ones that are most tilted towards women's interests with hot young men competing each other for the attention of chubby mediocre girls.

If you are getting bangs out of it you probably think you are doing something right, but I would say with that amount of time and effort you could bang much much hotter girls via cold approach. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and talent trying to stand out from millions of spamming drooling thirsty omegas.

^This is what a person says when they have a horrible profile or arent good looking/no one replies to their messages.

Why?
Because not everyone lives in a high traffic zone. Not everyone lives in a city or college town full of girls.
Some people are in shitty places making money or live far away from the city.

I live 30 minutes from the nearest city worth day gaming in. I get up at the crack of dawn and don't finish work until its already dark.
That would imply..that I would drive 30 minutes just to walk around in shitty weather and try to talk to girls.
Which to me is even more inorganic than just copy and pasting from my phone.

Considering you don't really post much in terms of game..I can also assume you probably have never used online dating.
If your profile is locked up ( Which honestly isn't hard to do) You can easily pull quality chicks with looks an personality..especially in winter when chicks aren't trying to go out as much.

[turkishcandy]

(12-26-2014 04:32 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

(12-26-2014 05:42 AM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

I don't get why anyone would resort to online dating unless it's a quick flag mission. It's an absolutely sure way of banging a chick who is way below your value. Of all the fucked up dating markets around the world, online dating sites are the ones that are most tilted towards women's interests with hot young men competing each other for the attention of chubby mediocre girls.

If you are getting bangs out of it you probably think you are doing something right, but I would say with that amount of time and effort you could bang much much hotter girls via cold approach. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and talent trying to stand out from millions of spamming drooling thirsty omegas.

^This is what a person says when they have a horrible profile or arent good looking/no one replies to their messages.

Why?
Because not everyone lives in a high traffic zone. Not everyone lives in a city or college town full of girls.
Some people are in shitty places making money or live far away from the city.

I live 30 minutes from the nearest city worth day gaming in. I get up at the crack of dawn and don't finish work until its already dark.
That would imply..that I would drive 30 minutes just to walk around in shitty weather and try to talk to girls.
Which to me is even more inorganic than just copy and pasting from my phone.

Considering you don't really post much in terms of game..I can also assume you probably have never used online dating.
If your profile is locked up ( Which honestly isn't hard to do) You can easily pull quality chicks with looks an personality..especially in winter when chicks aren't trying to go out as much.

You just danced around my question and proceeded to personal attacks. I must be ugly or have a horrible profile and I'm not using online dating (as if this is a shame). My question is, why would you date down like this when you could date up through normal games? You can be a good looking, high value guy with a terrific profile and getting a lot of easy bangs - that you claim are hot girls-, but you can't be getting girls as hot as you could get through daygame and nightgame. Because your only traits when a girl is viewing your profile are good looks and a popular profile. Game, experience, seduction, personality, many of the manosphere teachings go right out the window when you let a profile page represent your value in the dating market. Online game is settling for the low-hanging fruits. You are essentially using your looks to get easily bangable girls that vary from mediocre to above average girls. I've never seen an 8 or 9 on online dating sites, and the ones who exist have been proven to be just attention-whoring and not interested in actual sex. Because there is absolutely no reason that a truly hot girl would resort to online dating just to have sex with hot guys. No reason. There must be something wrong with her. I'm not calling you a liar, don't get me wrong, you might actually have banged several 8s, but then you must be pretty damn good looking, and you could still get much hotter girls if you put your looks into nightgame and then combined it with the red pill teachings. Do you catch my drift?

Living out of city might be a good reason, like you said. Although that makes it more difficult to meet college girls, hitting clubs on weekend nights still beats online dating, at least in terms of quality. Would you disagree?

If I'm correct you are just focused on the urge of busting your nuts with random girls and not achieving a quantity of quality. There is nothing wrong with that. You can just say ''I just need lots of notches with agreeable girls'' and I will give it to you, online dating is for you. But then don't go around saying online dating works if you are handsome. Because that still doesn't change the fact that you are relatively dating down, you are just taking the easy way and cashing in your looks instead of putting real effort and game into getting actual hotties.

Men are not supposed to let their looks represent their market value. That's girls' job. Men are supposed to use their looks as a boost for their overal value that consists of game, experience, intellectuality, money, charisma, social circle etc. That's the biggest reason why I'm against online dating. And apart from traveling I will never use it, not even if all the clubs and shopping malls closed in my city and they declared a curfew. I refuse to let girls screen me out based on my looks and how well my profile page is organized. This is not masculine to me. This is against my life philosophy.

When somebody tells me he banged numerous girls through this and that, I ask him one simple question: ''Show me the photos?'' Because I'm only interested in quality. That's just me. So I can't stand when someone recommends me online dating for banging quality girls. It goes against everything I know. Pipelining before traveling to a new city? Sure, I do it all the time. That works like a charm. But doing it in your local city doesn't sound, uhmm, self-improving.

[jimukr104]

^^agreed not sure why he attacked you. I hear online dating is more accurate to what you say!

Plus it is subjective..he should know that being in EE where just being a non white can make someone UGLY. Ask my wife if you don't believe me... no racist here! Not that I believe in PC or feminism or SJW or anything like that lol.

But I guess online probably works better in a small town with little night venues since there is little other way to grab chicks. Horny neighbors can be hot! Plus that market probably has a lack of suave players as competition.

[runsonmagic]

(12-26-2014 05:51 PM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

Men are not supposed to let their looks represent their market value. That's girls' job. Men are supposed to use their looks as a boost for their overal value that consists of game, experience, intellectuality, money, charisma, social circle etc. That's the biggest reason why I'm against online dating.

You're just jealous, cause you're not as handsome as we are.

[Sourcecode]

(12-26-2014 05:51 PM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

(12-26-2014 04:32 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

(12-26-2014 05:42 AM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

I don't get why anyone would resort to online dating unless it's a quick flag mission. It's an absolutely sure way of banging a chick who is way below your value. Of all the fucked up dating markets around the world, online dating sites are the ones that are most tilted towards women's interests with hot young men competing each other for the attention of chubby mediocre girls.

If you are getting bangs out of it you probably think you are doing something right, but I would say with that amount of time and effort you could bang much much hotter girls via cold approach. Otherwise you are just wasting your time and talent trying to stand out from millions of spamming drooling thirsty omegas.

^This is what a person says when they have a horrible profile or arent good looking/no one replies to their messages.

Why?
Because not everyone lives in a high traffic zone. Not everyone lives in a city or college town full of girls.
Some people are in shitty places making money or live far away from the city.

I live 30 minutes from the nearest city worth day gaming in. I get up at the crack of dawn and don't finish work until its already dark.
That would imply..that I would drive 30 minutes just to walk around in shitty weather and try to talk to girls.
Which to me is even more inorganic than just copy and pasting from my phone.

Considering you don't really post much in terms of game..I can also assume you probably have never used online dating.
If your profile is locked up ( Which honestly isn't hard to do) You can easily pull quality chicks with looks an personality..especially in winter when chicks aren't trying to go out as much.

My question is, why would you date down like this when you could date up through normal games?



I've never seen an 8 or 9 on online dating sites, and the ones who exist have been proven to be just attention-whoring and not interested in actual sex. Because there is absolutely no reason that a truly hot girl would resort to online dating just to have sex with hot guys. No reason.

Because that still doesn't change the fact that you are relatively dating down, you are just taking the easy way and cashing in your looks instead of putting real effort and game into getting actual hotties.

Men are not supposed to let their looks represent their market value. That's girls' job. Men are supposed to use their looks as a boost for their overal value that consists of game, experience, intellectuality, money, charisma, social circle etc. That's the biggest reason why I'm against online dating. And apart from traveling I will never use it, not even if all the clubs and shopping malls closed in my city and they declared a curfew. I refuse to let girls screen me out based on my looks and how well my profile page is organized. This is not masculine to me. This is against my life philosophy.

When somebody tells me he banged numerous girls through this and that, I ask him one simple question: ''Show me the photos?''

I chopped your message up.

-I didn't dodge the question of why. I answered that.

-I've seen an banged and dated quality chicks from online game, both in American and around Europe.
It can be done..and I don't even consider myself good looking..Anyone that has met me, knows I smash quality chicks..with a couple sub par chicks thrown in for effect.
But I've always dated up.

The rest of your post.. sounds like a justification for not being as good looking and justifying it.
I'm not trying to insult you.
You say, men aren't suppose to be be judged by their looks... but there are male models, attractive movies stars. ect.
You are instantly judged by your looks when you walk by a girl on the street. At first face impression.. women don't think" he's probably really intellectual"
If looks didn't matter.. there would be no reason to emphasize going the to gym and being fit.. or dressing well.
Thats what women will see first.
Then...its up to you to run your game, and show all your other aspects.
Saying you refuse to let a girl screen you...is you saying..youre cutting our options down to nothing.

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your only traits when a girl is viewing your profile are good looks and a popular profile. Game, experience, seduction, personality, many of the manosphere teachings go right out the window when you let a profile page represent your value in the dating market. Online game is settling for the low-hanging fruits.

Having good pictures and a good profile...means you have found a way to convey your personality, experiences ect.
If you have good style and an "alpha" personality/stance, A good picture of you will more than likely show that.

Asking pictures, is also a interesting way to back someone into the corner.
I have plenty of pictures of the 7.5-9s I've been with... but of course..Im not gonna post random pictures on the board and neither will any of the other vetted players around here

*some of the best profile pictures..don't even show the person clearly.
I know mine don't...The pictures pretty much convey other aspect of your personality.

[turkishcandy]

^Dude, stop saying I'm ugly. What are we, 2nd grade kids? This argument won't get you anywhere. You expect me to post my photo or what? I will send it to you in pm if you ask. Just ask and stop using it to win this debate. I'm slightly above average looking guy and much above average when I go to the right regions of the world (Eastern Europe).

You are saying you smashed 9s. Just to get something clear, this is what I consider a 9:

If you claim you have been smashing such girls through online dating, I'm gonna call you a liar. And then I'm gonna call you out on bigballism.

If not, you still dodged my question and it stands: You are settling through online dating compared to what you could pull through daygame and nightgame, in that case how come you could recommend online dating for men who are interested in quality girls and not pipelining? And stop saying there are quality girls online. We all know how what kind of girls are online and what their standards are. Even if you met their standards somehow, which I'm starting to doubt more every second, that would mean you could meet the standards of much hotter girls in real life, which would mean you are still settling. Will you at least admit that online game is settling, instead of calling me ugly and claiming you are banging 9s?

I didn't engage you in my first post. I just expressed my opinion on online dating. Then you took a hostile attitude against me for criticizing your lord and savior online game, for god knows why. Either drop it or engage me in a meaningful debate that doesn't rely on personal attacks and bigballism.

EDIT: I still stand behind what I said, men are not supposed to let their looks represent their (TOTAL) market value. If you disagree with this, then there is no reason for self improvement for any of us. If you are good looking, it boosts your value. If not, you can still improve your assets and be a high value man. Self improvement is in the essence of man. Women are born what they are, men become what they are through hard work and maybe luck. I don't get how male models and hot movie stars examples are supposed to defeat my argument...

EDIT: I just saw that you are African American. If by 9 you mean black 9s, and if by online dating you mean online dating black girls, I take back everything I said with an apology. I have no interest nor experience in dating black girls. I'm only sure about what works with Caucasian girls. And online dating is not it.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

"Two of my friends found my okc profile and told me I come across as a misogynistic..."

Well, maybe if you hadn't chosen BitchslapU as your user name...(kidding, kidding).

[placer]

(12-26-2014 05:42 AM)turkishcandy Wrote:  

I don't get why anyone would resort to online dating

Because, you know, it gets guys laid. Indeed, we have a thread about getting laid on OKCupid.

I see turkishcandy has a high reputation; it surprises me that he has posted flamebait like this. I will attribute it to holiday season blues.