First of all, I’m a complete beginner, no prior game experience whatsoever. I have been somewhat successful with girls before. But I’ve always been shy and that has cost me multiple bangs in the past. Learning game for me is somewhat reaffirming the things I knew before I had my heart broken by my last LTR, that took me 2 years to recover from but I digress . I’m a male 6 , my forte is that I dress well , I can be funny and my color of skin gives me exotic value .
30/11/2014 1 Approach
This is two days after my success on this thread ; http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-42823.html.
I got dressed nice and went out to town for the sole purpose of day gaming. I could not approach a single women. Every single one was walking too fast or conditions were unfavourable or I was just too shy to approach. I went into a store where a shop assistant who is a solid 10 (even by my high standards) was giving my IOI.
I opened her but I quickly lost frame completely taken over by her beauty. Barely maintaining eye contact and couldn't even muster the force to switch into GALNUC to take the conversation where I wanted it to. Even though she was actually asking my questions and trying to edge me on.
I went home very angry at myself , and I decided as punishment , I would have to open someone as Uni tomorrow . It’s something I hate doing as it’s a small uni and I wanted to keep my daygaming separate from my study life. However I had brought it upon myself .
01/12/2014 1 Approach / 1 number close
So I’m inside the computer room at uni , and as I enter I see a cute girl on the computer , I position myself on the same row as her but about 2-3 chairs away . The room is not crowded at all , but there’s enough about 4-5 people within direct earshot of the possible conversation .
The next 10 mins, I’m preparing myself mentally, I almost cop out but the failure of yesterday is deep in my mind and I decided to compromise.
Here’s what I do: In order to judge how receptive she is to a possible approach, I’ll first ask her to watch my stuff:
M : Excuse me * I lightly touch her forearm *
F : You scared me * She jumps a bit *
M I’m sorry, hey I’m just going over there for a few minutes could you keep an eye on my computer
F Yeah sure
M Thanks * I lightly touch her shoulder again as I walk by *
* I go and talk to a couple girls who are in my uni class on the other side of the room and come back *
M Hey thanks for watching my stuff * as I lightly touch her shoulder again *
f You’re Welcome
m By the way, where did you get that bag? I’m looking for a Christmas present for my little sister *
I got it from new look
M Is it real leather? * I touch the bag *
F No it’s fake
M Does it have a lot of pockets, my sister puts a million things in her bag?
F She shows me the bag tell me it has two pockets as she says this I actually pull the chair and sit next to her
M By the way are you half German?
F * She laughs * No why would you think that? I’m half Malaysian, half Scottish
M Well when I was in France I used to go to Germany for dance competitions, your face has a German features * I’m touching my face, whilst smiling *, half Malaysian , half Scottish , that’s unusual where did your parents meet ?
F * She smiles at my German routine * they met here
M Oh okay that makes sense, so how old are you?
F 20
M What do you study ?
F Law
M Law ? That’s crazy , I used to study law , I gave it up it was too boring
F Really? What did you find boring about it?
M Too many things to learn of by heart, I don’t have time for all that
F So what are you studying now?
M Accounting and finance
F How do you find that compared to law?
M I guess it requires the same level of motivation
M Yeah when I studied law it was my first year in uni so I was focused on partying blah blah blah..
We start to talk about jobs were doing during the years we should have been studying
It’s gone on long enough, It’s time to close and eject
M So where do you hang out? Like when you’re not studying?
F Yeah I don’t really hang out much
M * Perfect * I start to tease her about her lack of social life, using my same jokes “You’ll regret this when your 35 “
Then I start to talk about how there's really not much to do here anyway , when I lived in Paris the clubs were way better
F Oh you lived in Paris ?
M I was born in Paris blah blah blah ( another ramble about my life and how I ended up in my current town )
M Anyway you seem cool * I whip out my phone * we should hang out , what’s your number?
F Yeah I don’t know my phone number of by heart * She actually HANDS me her iPhone
M *Whilst I’m copying it into my phone * Yeah I never learn my numbers of by heart , even since I got myself an iPhone I just whip it out whenever somebody asks me for it
* We exchange names * * I call her so she has mine *
M Okay well I see you around Shona
I get up, log myself out of my session on the computer
As I’m walking away I say “Good luck on your assignment, or whatever it is you’re working on “and lightly touch her arm on my way out.
For the second time in my entire life , I've seen a women I like who I have no connection to ( No mutual friends ) , and I have left the vicinity with her number . Thank you gaming community.
2 Numbers in 6 Approaches. I feel great
Sensei
30/11/2014 1 Approach
This is two days after my success on this thread ; http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-42823.html.
I got dressed nice and went out to town for the sole purpose of day gaming. I could not approach a single women. Every single one was walking too fast or conditions were unfavourable or I was just too shy to approach. I went into a store where a shop assistant who is a solid 10 (even by my high standards) was giving my IOI.
I opened her but I quickly lost frame completely taken over by her beauty. Barely maintaining eye contact and couldn't even muster the force to switch into GALNUC to take the conversation where I wanted it to. Even though she was actually asking my questions and trying to edge me on.
I went home very angry at myself , and I decided as punishment , I would have to open someone as Uni tomorrow . It’s something I hate doing as it’s a small uni and I wanted to keep my daygaming separate from my study life. However I had brought it upon myself .
01/12/2014 1 Approach / 1 number close
So I’m inside the computer room at uni , and as I enter I see a cute girl on the computer , I position myself on the same row as her but about 2-3 chairs away . The room is not crowded at all , but there’s enough about 4-5 people within direct earshot of the possible conversation .
The next 10 mins, I’m preparing myself mentally, I almost cop out but the failure of yesterday is deep in my mind and I decided to compromise.
Here’s what I do: In order to judge how receptive she is to a possible approach, I’ll first ask her to watch my stuff:
M : Excuse me * I lightly touch her forearm *
F : You scared me * She jumps a bit *
M I’m sorry, hey I’m just going over there for a few minutes could you keep an eye on my computer
F Yeah sure
M Thanks * I lightly touch her shoulder again as I walk by *
* I go and talk to a couple girls who are in my uni class on the other side of the room and come back *
M Hey thanks for watching my stuff * as I lightly touch her shoulder again *
f You’re Welcome
m By the way, where did you get that bag? I’m looking for a Christmas present for my little sister *
I got it from new look
M Is it real leather? * I touch the bag *
F No it’s fake
M Does it have a lot of pockets, my sister puts a million things in her bag?
F She shows me the bag tell me it has two pockets as she says this I actually pull the chair and sit next to her
M By the way are you half German?
F * She laughs * No why would you think that? I’m half Malaysian, half Scottish
M Well when I was in France I used to go to Germany for dance competitions, your face has a German features * I’m touching my face, whilst smiling *, half Malaysian , half Scottish , that’s unusual where did your parents meet ?
F * She smiles at my German routine * they met here
M Oh okay that makes sense, so how old are you?
F 20
M What do you study ?
F Law
M Law ? That’s crazy , I used to study law , I gave it up it was too boring
F Really? What did you find boring about it?
M Too many things to learn of by heart, I don’t have time for all that
F So what are you studying now?
M Accounting and finance
F How do you find that compared to law?
M I guess it requires the same level of motivation
M Yeah when I studied law it was my first year in uni so I was focused on partying blah blah blah..
We start to talk about jobs were doing during the years we should have been studying
It’s gone on long enough, It’s time to close and eject
M So where do you hang out? Like when you’re not studying?
F Yeah I don’t really hang out much
M * Perfect * I start to tease her about her lack of social life, using my same jokes “You’ll regret this when your 35 “
Then I start to talk about how there's really not much to do here anyway , when I lived in Paris the clubs were way better
F Oh you lived in Paris ?
M I was born in Paris blah blah blah ( another ramble about my life and how I ended up in my current town )
M Anyway you seem cool * I whip out my phone * we should hang out , what’s your number?
F Yeah I don’t know my phone number of by heart * She actually HANDS me her iPhone
M *Whilst I’m copying it into my phone * Yeah I never learn my numbers of by heart , even since I got myself an iPhone I just whip it out whenever somebody asks me for it
* We exchange names * * I call her so she has mine *
M Okay well I see you around Shona
I get up, log myself out of my session on the computer
As I’m walking away I say “Good luck on your assignment, or whatever it is you’re working on “and lightly touch her arm on my way out.
For the second time in my entire life , I've seen a women I like who I have no connection to ( No mutual friends ) , and I have left the vicinity with her number . Thank you gaming community.
2 Numbers in 6 Approaches. I feel great
Sensei