This is happening too much that its starting to become a joke.
I went out with a blonde girl last night, she showed interest and I asked her out. We go to a bar, I start to escalate, we start talking about sex etc and she tells me how she had a crush on me. However she starts getting texts from a guy, that I see popping up her phone. She tells me that its her boyfriend and sure enough the texts are full of x's and hearts.
She tells me how she has a boyfriend and I just shrug it off, don't seem phased by it and try to change the subject. We switch location and she starts saying how we can be friends. I tell her straight that I don't want her as a friend and I have enough. Judging by her actions she stays around and we go to the next pub.
She keeps on talking about her boyfriend though, the similarities between me and him, but more on their plans for the future. How she met his family and they were really nice, the holiday they went to, and how he has good honest virtues and ethics.
The whole thing starts to kill off my mood, a lot of the time I am used to girls throwing out bullshit but this seemed sincere. I don't want to be screwing over a guy who sounds like a decent man. Even though she probably went off to shag the nearest degenerate who had some alpha resemblance. The whole thing didn't sit well with me, so I called it a night.
This keeps on happening a lot though, girls with boyfriends who make it clear they have boyfriends but they keep on hitting on me. I am aware of the shit test, that girls throw out here, but I am talking about girls who are leading the initiation and have instagram pictures of their boyfriends writing love poetry in the snow for them outside their windows.
On top of this, its destroying my trust in people. I understand not everyone is perfect and hypergamy etc, but this is taking the mick. Its easier to game girls now who have boyfriends than those who are without. And I am not talking about club bitches here. These are girls who seem to have their head screwed on and have boyfriends who are models and working in investment banking.
Anyway would be interested in hearing what your guys take on this is.
I went out with a blonde girl last night, she showed interest and I asked her out. We go to a bar, I start to escalate, we start talking about sex etc and she tells me how she had a crush on me. However she starts getting texts from a guy, that I see popping up her phone. She tells me that its her boyfriend and sure enough the texts are full of x's and hearts.
She tells me how she has a boyfriend and I just shrug it off, don't seem phased by it and try to change the subject. We switch location and she starts saying how we can be friends. I tell her straight that I don't want her as a friend and I have enough. Judging by her actions she stays around and we go to the next pub.
She keeps on talking about her boyfriend though, the similarities between me and him, but more on their plans for the future. How she met his family and they were really nice, the holiday they went to, and how he has good honest virtues and ethics.
The whole thing starts to kill off my mood, a lot of the time I am used to girls throwing out bullshit but this seemed sincere. I don't want to be screwing over a guy who sounds like a decent man. Even though she probably went off to shag the nearest degenerate who had some alpha resemblance. The whole thing didn't sit well with me, so I called it a night.
This keeps on happening a lot though, girls with boyfriends who make it clear they have boyfriends but they keep on hitting on me. I am aware of the shit test, that girls throw out here, but I am talking about girls who are leading the initiation and have instagram pictures of their boyfriends writing love poetry in the snow for them outside their windows.
On top of this, its destroying my trust in people. I understand not everyone is perfect and hypergamy etc, but this is taking the mick. Its easier to game girls now who have boyfriends than those who are without. And I am not talking about club bitches here. These are girls who seem to have their head screwed on and have boyfriends who are models and working in investment banking.
Anyway would be interested in hearing what your guys take on this is.