Quote: (11-01-2014 01:15 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
Now in retrospect, I can see how foolish I was to disregard all the red flags. From the get go she seemed like a wild party girl and gave the pussy up so easy, and was freaky as hell. Any girl who can deepthroat like a champ, has learned that shit practicing on a bunch of other dudes.
She had tattoos and piercings, she had told me about a lot of coke and mdma use in her past. She told me she had turned to stripping when she moved to LA, when she was completely broke and had no other option, spinning it into a story that made her look like the victim.
I was finding out about multiple past boyfriends and everytime we were at a cafe or grocery store she would try to duck this one particular ex-bf of hers and I later found out that's because she fucked one of his business partners.
Lol man, you're not the only one.
My ex had banged 3 of her ex-roommates friends. 3. And she always denied having banged the ex roommate, which I somehow doubt. She had done xtc and tried LSD, she called herself a feminist and didn't see anythingwrong with sleeping around. She also claims to have been raped and was bulimic. She had also been in a threesome and had friends who'd travel to Barcelona and have competitions about how many guys they could fuck in 7 days... this wasn't just one red flag, it was a fucking red flag parade. Also, what this made is that once the novelty of it all fell off, a normal relationship was impossible. I had to keep up the drama or else she'd get bored, complaining to her friends that her boyfriend was just "too good to her" and "boring". Yep, she was as emotionally toxic as it gets.
I stuck around bc she was hot and I was too invested. All it got me in the end was headaches.
And yes, also her, within 4 weeks of us breaking up, she was travelling with some new dude, hugging him on her Instagram and sitting on him on another picture (while posting maybe 2 pictures over the course of our 18 month relationship). On top of it all, she went on a 4 week road trip through europe, while claiming that she was too broke to help pay the bills at home
I'm extremely grateful it happened tho. I judge women now ruthlessly depending on their past, I always assume they have the worst intentions and I will surely not start exclusively dating a girl after a month of hooking up (like in my ex's case, where all the crazy shit came out in month 3 or 4). I now am as fit as ever, I have more money as ever, I drive better cars than ever, and I have more time for my family, friends and travelling.
Not a single day passes by where I don't think what I'd tell that fucking bitch if I would run into her. But man, it gets better. I noticed lately that it has gotten less and less on my mind and I am sure in a month or two, it'll be nonexistent. Man, I could go on about this bitch and it was a fun ride for sure. All I'm trying to say to you is.. keep your head up and keep working on yourself.