So. my 2 cents from most recent to past.
My current Puma is a 31 year old Doctor. This was purely a her approach me. She actually messaged me on CS saying she loved my profile. I thought she was a kinda hippy traveler, but she showed up on our meeting in a dress and heels... Causing her to tower over me. shes 6'1 without heels.(nice slim young looking body)
What I did with her was.
Take her out to a place I have been before. That was she has to roll with me. I had the place locked down decent enough to meet her outside and walk her in.
I didnt act super impressed by her wearing a expensive dress to a bar. I actually made fun of her a little for it.
Even though the bar/club is a young place. I wasnt and didnt plan to get drunk and run around like a child. I let her bask in the high paced event but I stayed calm. Acted mature. She has world experience on me being a doctor thats worked in the 3rd world. But Im a great story teller.
I play up ever angle and story I have to have a much deeper meaning..make myself seem extra worldly.
Im already much more experienced that the average person my age. ( living in a foreign country on my own and racking up travel experience)
Never did I mention our age difference.
and I didnt act shy.
* I hug from the very beginning.Put my arm around her. Treat her as any other date.
Leave my hand on her leg and such.
At no point did she object
*Venue changes
Luckily this is a massive venue. so different rooms are a maze to get to and totally different music. You can go from club pop, so live band in a minute.
So I brought her outside and isolated her away from the crown.
(just in case she didnt want to be physical in front of people.)
I made an excuse about a friend leaving the area...and went for the kiss.
At first she turned her head.
I didnt get mad or annoyed....preceded like normal and eventually got the kiss a little while later.
She brought up the topic that she isnt that girl and that we are different ages.
I told her something along the lines of...I dont think it matters between two attractive and lively people.
my 'neg" with older women usually has do do with telling them that its trivial to go off of age difference.
Two people that are lively and good looking..outgoing, ect should be able to do whatever feels right.
Usually this sort of lines wins thm cause they dont wanna seem prude.
Older chicks dont have time to sit around..no matter if you are gaming her or already on the date....she has invested some time into being with you... she isnt gonna waste it unless she really isnt interested.
I may have pushed to hard to early. she opted to end the date.
again...Im at a venue I was already at...full of other women. I let her leave...told her we wouldsee each other later.
*also being a doctor..she had a valid excuse on not staying out super late.
We talked on whatsapp. I kept things casual with a bit of sexualness.
*important exert*
A little trick that deserves to be put in another thread is a couple questions i use.
Ive got friends that ask girls questions that end in yes or no answers or straight forward answers.
A couple of them think that pushing questions like,
Do you/have you like/had sex?
how many guys have you been with?
will boost a girls attraction...then they wonder why the conversations fizzle.
Women are fickle..but like to talk if you give them a platform.
If you wanna bang Older chicks... they want to feel the maturity in you. and feel like you understand them.
They have a lot of shit possibly doing on their lives.. and possibly have no men to be around.
I ask questions like.
What were you life as a child..
What should i know about you, that i would never think to ask?
Give them really open ended questions that can give them a platform to spill out all their information
*this is also a good tip for getting into a girls head in general*
****back to the story*
With her work schedule and the world cup in play.. I eventually convinced her to invite me to her house.
I bring a bottle of wine
*Shout to Tengen For information on wine*
And we watch the world cup together.
Again.. at her house. I just let maturity take over.
At a young age(under 24)..Ive got a job that puts me in charge of a lot.
Again..being a great talker.. I can talk up anything and throw some emotion into it.
I was already at her house...so eventually nature took its course. and I banged her the rest of the night.
Didnt even sleep... around 2am I put my clothes on and dipped cause I had to catch my flight to turkey at about 5am.
Through skill of game and making myself look interesting and mature*being mature is a big part of keeping milfs around*
Im meeting up with her for a couple hours.
She's gonna cook dinner and wear something nice...she knows whats about to happen when we arrive
So right now..Im working on sugarbaby game.
EU doctors dont make the same cash as American doctors..But Shes working hard shifts and living by herself.
She'll be taking care of me in no time...hopefully