Best comebacks when dealing with super-bitch!
02-01-2011, 02:47 PM
I'm going to assume that we all have the same goal in mind, which is to fuck her.
With that in mind, lets assume then that there are two results:
one in which we meet our goal and fuck her, or get as close as possible to it with a girl that truly has some good reasons not to fuck you (marriage, disease/sickness, her mom just died, she's there with 10 girlfriends that won't let you within a ten yards of her vagina no matter what, etc).
The second result is that we fail in our goal, and don't fuck her even though she is open to fucking guys.
There is one real right way to handle this I think, and one wrong way, and one neutral way.
1. I think that the wrong way is to come back with an angry response. First, it shows that she got under your skin and is able to control you emotionally. This puts you into a beta position in her eyes. Second, it makes sure that you will fail in your goal.
2. The neutral way, which really is only slightly better, is to show no emotion and walk away. At least she didn't get under your skin, which is a small victory. But you did fail in your goal, assuming she is open to fucking (but granted, it is hard to know).
3. The right way, as far as I'm concerned, is to come back with a very strong alpha response, showing no emotion to her dismissal, or even showing a heightening of your good mood. Maybe your smile slowly spreads a little wider and your eyes dilate a little more after she dismisses you. Because you realize that the game is on and she is playing hard. These women are ripe for very strong take-downs, because they don't want to deal with the beta wishy washy BS they get from most guys. She has no time for it, and this is your direct invitation to be the other guy.
In a way, whether she or you consciously realize it or not, she is throwing a huge test for alphaness your way. That is, can you stand a very strong rejection and still hold emotional control, stay in the drivers seat, and close her. Depending on her reasons for dismissing you, it may or may not work. But you will keep your dignity, unquestioningly assert your alphaness and control of the situation, and make her vagina tingle whether she admits it or not.
Just say, smile widening:
"Well, me leaving will cut into our one on one time".
That's as polite as it gets in this case. You can either continue with, or even forget the previous statement and lead off with a direct invitation for sex. Remember to slow your pacing down (very, very important) and pause every so often (emotional control). Talk slow, and let your eyes wander over her face:
"I just came over to take my new girlfriend home for a night of amazing sex"
Let her work through her shock, because she will be. Watch for little cues that she is interested. Like sweeping back her hair, a slow smile, opening her stance toward you, anything...This is your cue not to eject, even if she opens up with some more testing. You have to be ready to handle it, but if she isn't giving you signs that she wants you to leave after that, then stick with it with the mindset that she is the prey and you are the predator. She wants you to take her down, although with finesse most likely. You guys know what to do from there.
Cues to eject would be crossing her arms, a scowl, looking around for her friends etc... This probably means that for whatever reason, you have no chance. But at lest you too back emotional control of the situation, put her back on her heels, and kept a snotty cunt from upping her self esteem at your expense.
Also, you can get creative with how you offer the sex. My example is just one of a lot of different things you could say. I like it because it mostly because it isn't a question, but a statement. When picking up women, avoid questions for the most part. But especially in this scenario. I'd be interest in hearing some other versions of the "offer of sex" anyone can come up with.
I also like the end of the dialogue that Roosh has posted as a cartoon video, reenacting when he overheard a direct guy pick up a woman.
At the end the guy asked the woman:
"Are you scared? Because I'm not". I assume while looking directly into her eyes.
I thought that was a smooth way to punctuate any direct approach, including the one in this scenario.