[MongolianAbroad]

(06-04-2014 08:13 PM)jackleballs Wrote:  

What's with all the "white loser" talk?

You think the Filipinos distinguish between white guys that wear cargo shorts and guys that dress up pretending to be something they aren't?

You're in a country where basketball outfits are almost as common as school uniforms.

You're a foreigner. Period.

When my girl and I walk around, we look like we match. She's very attractive and dresses in a very proper way. I'm easy on the eyes, and I go for the jeans and a v neck look, or jeans and a long sleeve button up. When you see those 60's, Hawaiian shirt, cargo shorts, sandals guys with a smoking hot girl, it's obvious to every Filipino that it's probably a P4P situation.

Also, this country is WAY more formal than America. I've seen more uniforms here in a couple of months than in my entire life in America. That comment makes me think you may not know the country very well. In this country, what you wear matters, and it matters a lot more than in America.

(06-04-2014 08:13 PM)jackleballs Wrote:  

The girls here aren't with you because of your style or your game or your refusal to spend money on them. They're chasing the dream, or they're looking for cash / support.

Those girls are out there.

Then there's the 18 year old students in the top universities here, the 22 year old hard-working nurses who also work second jobs to help their families, the pretty 20 year old SM City retail girls who work 6 days a week, and aren't allowed to leave the store during their breaks OR their lunch breaks, unless they get written permission, and they often get called in early or work late, and their family depends on them for the income, and ALL of these girls have REFUSED to take a dime from me. I did have one girl who I met at a Davao mall, but who I never got a chance to go on a date with (because I left Davao to move to Manila) ask me for tuition money two months after I left Davao. I never replied to her and I unfriended her on FB. Maybe I've had a mostly different experience because I'm only hitting on girls that are less than 1 in a 1,000 here, as in, VERY hot girls who have their act together. I only go for college students or girls with full time jobs. Their refusal to let me pay for taxis makes logistics a nightmare due to the jeepneys being inefficient, but I respect it. I really respect these girls...these girls are out there, man, just because you're not interacting with them doesn't mean they're not out there. These people, by and large have way more PRIDE than your average American. They may be poor, but they have their dignity, and they value it highly.

If you scrape the bottom of the barrel, then here, like anywhere else, you'll find desperation.

You know, some girls here are 100% open to dating an attractive guy who's got his act together, simply because he's an attractive guy who's got his act together. Normal girls all over the planet are into that. The Philippines is not an exception.

(06-04-2014 08:13 PM)jackleballs Wrote:  

Why come here at all?

The majority of foreigners here are here for one reason. Easy girls. You think the girls don't know that?

You're right. The majority do.

Some of us though, aren't here for easy girls. Why? Because American girls are easy too for some of us.

Why would we be here?

For quality girls. Nice, feminine, beautiful girls from good families. Those girls are almost impossible to find in America.

But you're right...we're not in the majority. The majority's here looking to make an exchange, on the one side there's a man with cash desperate for sex, and on the other side, there's a woman with sex, desperate for cash. It's a match.

I don't dress like those guys, because I'd be insulted if people pegged me as one of them, and also, I don't go after the women that they go after, because I'm not desperate. I can have hot girls in America that are 18 and have full time jobs. I've had that multiple times, and it was offered to me again just a month before I left for the Philippines. That girl sent me a note at work asking me if she could move in with me. I declined because I knew she had lost her virginity at 13, and I knew she lived with her boyfriend and he wanted her out. I knew she was damaged goods, and I don't need that in my life.

I can only speak for myself, but I'm not here for easy girls. There's plenty of those back home, there's no need to fly halfway across the planet for that.

[MongolianAbroad]

(06-05-2014 09:36 AM)Enigma Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 06:59 AM)jackleballs Wrote:  

I'm not here trying to bang chicks but I do browse around online when I am bored.

I'm not here to troll, just don't think "game" means a whole lot here if you're a foreigner.

So you've never actually even gamed any chicks here, yet you know exactly what all of them are looking for and what is required to game them -- based on browsing online and watching people walk around?

Come on, dude.

Enigma, thanks for sticking up for those girls here who are very different from the ones jackleballs has been associating with.

+ 1 from me.

[MongolianAbroad]

(06-04-2014 09:56 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

I've noticed the same thing, I believe the language of instruction in schools in English, so if their english is really bad, it's not a good sign. The bright girls who worked hard in school have been able to have good conversations and discuss cultural differences etc. They still sometimes don't know a pretty common word or two. For instance, I had one interested that didn't know what "affectionate" meant.

if they are just putting together one and two word sentences and claiming they are serious about your, I would not bite for a LTR. I was going back and forth with a really hot girl with terrible Enlgish for a while. Whenever I started talking about sex, she started talking about money, living on dry fish and not even having a mosquito net in the Phils makes for a rather dreary girl.

You can't really "save" someone from a life of deprivation via a LTR, her worldview, focus, and wants are going to be so different if you came from a middle-class background she is never going to be close to being on the same page as you.

If just "sponsoring" her as a concubine, fine but a real LTR, real difficult in my view.

I hear ya, IKE, I was just talking to my bro about this a couple of days ago. I told him the bottom of the barrel here would require virtually zero effort, but you'd have an "Encino-Man"-like scenario on your hands. It could work, I'm not saying it couldn't, and I'm sure there's plenty of wonderful individuals in that social class...it's just, they've lived a life of true deprivation, and bringing them up to speed would be considerable task. For the right girl, it might be worth it to the right guy, but the challenges this could present are worth noting.

[MongolianAbroad]

(06-03-2014 11:54 PM)Shaftoe Wrote:  

Been in Manila about a week - Tindering more than is healthy. Had a date most nights. Come across 'fishing' hookers trying to invite themselves over for money/food/etc, coked up DTF party sluts, suspicious hard to read girls playing games (after sugar daddies? semi-pros?), promiscuous career girls, shy and sheltered career girls, etc. Unless you're filtering super young I'd say career girls are in the majority.

You can find out pretty quickly whether she studies or has a day job. Anything else is a big red flag. These girls will be free after work around Makati or the Fort (7ish) and I have no problems taking them to dinner & drinks because, well, I have to eat anyway and there's only so much time in the day.

For those of you that are new to the Philippines, this is HUGE if you're looking for a LTR of any kind. If a LTR of any kind is on your mind, I can't understate the significance of Shaftoe's comment. There's a lot of naive guys out there. If you don't have too much experience with women, or if you're prone to fall head over heels in love with any girl that puts out for you, do yourself a favor and keep Shaftoe's comment in mind.

[jackleballs]

If someone current came to manila, how many could afford to go to the show?

[jackleballs]

By the way thanks to all you guys that responded to the post I made weeks ago rather than the one I made yesterday.

Yes...I'm sure your third world girl is different. Your game is weeding out the sub par third world girls without a doubt.

[Onto]

Spaniard88, If I remember right, you were looking for a wife to bring back to Texas? How is your search going? Although I'm hesitant to bring someone back, I do think about it and will probably be out in the Phil this September for about 6 months looking for that kind of woman. Thanks in advance, and sorry if I have you confused with another poster.

[ballybally]

Every girl will change if you bring her back to the western world - I think Roosh wrote an article about that.

I don't mind it at all and I am actually starting to miss slutty, overconfident women back from EU - It's getting annoying how much Filipinas are trying to please - they are agreeing with everything, they are laughing at non-funny stuff, even when it's established that we are just friends with benefits they are spamming phone with stupid messages from morning till night.

On the other hand they are still talking with 15 fugly foreigners trying to "find love" as they call it. Most of them do that - even ones that I got as virgins. OH and they too are copy/pasting mails, so don't be all that happy when they contact you saying how good looking they think you are

So I guess girls are about the same everywhere, these ones here are just better at pretending and lying(even to themselves).

[MongolianAbroad]

(06-11-2014 07:05 PM)Onto Wrote:  

Spaniard88, If I remember right, you were looking for a wife to bring back to Texas? How is your search going? Although I'm hesitant to bring someone back, I do think about it and will probably be out in the Phil this September for about 6 months looking for that kind of woman. Thanks in advance, and sorry if I have you confused with another poster.

That's me, man.

As far as a LTR, be very honest about what you bring to the table and what you're expecting to get before making the decision to come here. What you bring to the table should match what she brings to the table. However, she should always feel that she's looking up to you, not that you're equal. She should feel that she brings a lot to the table that other girls don't, and that you selected her out of many options, both of which should actually be true for a LTR girl.

If you don't have a number of solid experiences with women under your belt back in your home country, I would not come here in search of a LTR. I think that lack of experience would set a visitor up for failure, LTR-wise. Also, if you lack that experience, if/when you do find a girl worth keeping, you may not realize her value.

I could write about my experiences here, but it would take up a book.

As far as the search, I have a girlfriend...but if I wrote about her, it'd be one VERY long piece of bragging...so...at the moment, I'd rather refrain from elaborating on that.

[Onto]

(06-11-2014 09:27 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

I could write about my experiences here, but it would take up a book.

As far as the search, I have a girlfriend...but if I wrote about her, it'd be one VERY long piece of bragging. So, I'll refrain.

That would be a book worth reading, and there is nothing wrong with that kind of bragging. Congrats on finding someone special, and thanks for keeping us posted!

[iknowexactly]

My impression is the US is a VERY corrupting place for someone from the 3rd world, unless they were genuinely in a comparable middle class life there.

The realization that you can make 20 times what you could in the old country, and that there are guys younger, taller and making 10 times what your (soon-to-be-ex) husband is making, is pretty tempting.

I also imagine them pushing you: "You should work more, you make xx dollars per hour! We need to buy a house!"

I've already had some not even dating me making pat statements like that: "You should buy a house if you have a kid."

No discussion, it's just something everyone knows, right?

Fuck off, YOU work for 15 years, 50 weeks a year, and buy it.

The easy solution is not to bring them to the States, where the debt-til-death lifestyle is mindlessly accepted...

If I do bring them here, I want them anchored with a baby so they're less appealing, but I will stall and stall. Once they make me a baby, they're disposable, just like in the USA a man is disposable once a woman gets the court-ordered child support started. He's just a dollar amount that shows up in her bank account once a month

[iknowexactly]

(06-11-2014 09:13 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

I don't mind it at all and I am actually starting to miss slutty, overconfident women back from EU -

whoa this dude is what you call "hardy psychologically".

[ballybally]

For me slutty women were always favorite since I was never interested in LTR like most of you seem to be.
I would also always choose confident girl that knows how to carry herself and has guys throwing themselves after her over some virgin here who is afraid to tell me what her favorite position is...

We all know what kind of guys are looking for obedient, religion brainwashed women(that they call from "good families") and are afraid to bring her back home.

[iknowexactly]

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

We all know what kind of guys are looking for obedient, religion brainwashed women(that they call from "good families") and are afraid to bring her back home.

Ahh, good that you know. I look forward to you keeping me informed.

[slotek]

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

For me slutty women were always favorite since I was never interested in LTR like most of you seem to be.
I would also always choose confident girl that knows how to carry herself and has guys throwing themselves after her over some virgin here who is afraid to tell me what her favorite position is...

We all know what kind of guys are looking for obedient, religion brainwashed women(that they call from "good families") and are afraid to bring her back home.

I'll take slutty party girls for $500 Bob

[MongolianAbroad]

(05-24-2014 03:33 AM)ballybally Wrote:  

Any ideas on where I can find cialis in Davao ? (no prescription)

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

For me slutty women were always favorite since I was never interested in LTR like most of you seem to be.

(05-25-2014 03:15 AM)ballybally Wrote:  

I am just 23(above normal testosterone had it tested) but I probably have some kind of porn induced ED that becomes apparent when combining alcohol and chicks that barely pass boner test but are too good to just pass up (majority of chicks around here). Got myself virgin 2 days ago and she generously offered her ass after I "hurt" her main entrance but I wasn't able to get hard enough to enter (she was super tight though)

Haha if anyone wonders how hard it was to get this girl, she clicked me online - asked me which part of city I am from and offered to come over Once here we get drunk and even despite her being virgin, no LMR, no bullshit... This shit is almost too easy here for young white guys such as myself.

Not the first time this happened when I was drunk hoping its the last time though, that's why CIALIS

#3rdworldproblems

Ok, porn doesn't cause ED, it causes boners, let's clear that up. Excessive masturbation, whether watching porn or not, does cause "ED," lol!

So, basically, you masturbate excessively to porn, then on top of that, you're banging sluts so ugly you have to get yourself drunk to psyche yourself up to fuck them, and then you're wondering why you're "impotent?"

Let me get this straight. A "virgin" clicked on your profile, offered to come over, got drunk with you (a complete stranger she met online), offered "no LMR, no bullshit," then "generously offered," anal sex when you were too limp to have sex otherwise?

What are you, "The Most Interesting Man in The World?"

"I don't often fuck virgins, but when I do, they find my online dating profile, click on it, ask me where I am, come over and get drunk with me, offer no LMR, no bullshit, then generously offer anal sex when I can't get hard enough to have sex with them."

ROFLMAO!!! BULLSHIT. That girl was no virgin.

Man, I honestly think the whole growth in the "ED" industry is fueled by feminists who want to pander to the myth that men are supposed to get turned on by anything other than hot young women.

Have a smoking hot 18 year old blow a guy with "ED" or bend over in front of him, ready and willing, and I'd bet 80% or more of those cases would be "miraculously" cured, lmfao! Even for the manginas that claim otherwise!

Man, the first time I fucked my current girlfriend, I came four times over the course of that Sunday morning. On a regular day, I only fuck her twice a day, because she's got curfew and has to be home by 8 p.m.-ish, so I don't have time for round three. I'm 31. You're 23! The problem isn't porn or ED, the problem is you're fucking (or attempting to fuck) "barely passable" sluts, and your dick is staging a mutiny! If you've got no physical issues like being overweight, then excessive masturbation and ugly sluts are causing this.

It's all good, I understand it, it's less work, both in personal self-improvement, and in game itself, going after the low hanging fruit, but I don't think you're even going for the low hanging fruit, I think you're scavenging the rotten fruit on the ground. That's what I gather from your above three posts man.

You want to fix your impotence? Improve yourself. Become a better man, one that's able to pull a girl attractive enough you don't have to be liquored up to fuck her. That'll fix your "ED."

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

I would also always choose confident girl that knows how to carry herself and has guys throwing themselves after her over some virgin here who is afraid to tell me what her favorite position is...

You think sluts are confident? Dude, they don't value themselves! That's why they're sluts in the first place! Your hamster is so strong! You're banging sluts not because you want to, if you actually wanted to, your dick would work! Think about it, man. You're banging ugly sluts because you don't want to put in the work to get a hot, good girl, and then you're hamstering away that you prefer sluts! Your dick CANNOT lie! It's telling you the truth, loud and clear, man, listen to your boner!

Me, I choose the shy, self-respecting virgin who knows how to carry herself and also has guys throwing themselves at her, yet she turns them down, because she knows she's meant for something better than a common man. She may or may not have faith in God, but she does have faith in herself.

And why would you ask a girl what her favorite position is? Who cares? My favorite position is the only position that matters.

One more thing...if you're in a wheelchair or something like that, you have my sincerest apologies.

[ballybally]

About porn, I don't know what to tell you I like watching it and fapping - it's called high libido. It's the same with girls that pass the boner test .... I am not picky, I want as many as possible rather then focusing on finding a fucking "lawyer" or rich/educated 10s that some of you dream about here.

Yeah that's how it happened with virgin: http://i.imgur.com/cMaoCsX.jpg

Wait I assume that's not enough for you: http://i.imgur.com/v3QIKRz.png

Took screens for buddy when it happened to show him how easy this place is

(06-12-2014 01:33 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

You're 23! The problem isn't porn or ED, the problem is you're a low value guy who's dating your female equivalents! You're probably overweight too, but it could be just excessive masturbation and ugly sluts causing this.

It's all good, I understand it, it's less work, both in personal self-improvement, and in game itself, going after the low hanging fruit, but I don't think you're even going for the low hanging fruit, I think you're a scavenger going for the rotten fruit on the ground. That's what I gather from your above three posts man.

You want to fix your impotence? Improve yourself. Become a better man, one that's able to pull an attractive, good girl. That'll fix your ED. apologies.

Come find me next time you are in this place, 6'2 white guy staying at Linmarr Towers - shouldn't be to hard to spot and you can tell me all about my low value.

[ballybally]

Oh also about the "rotten fruit"

http://i.imgur.com/zm512vb.jpg

I guess there's a lot of it around here.

[MongolianAbroad]

(06-12-2014 01:54 AM)ballybally Wrote:  

About porn, I don't know what to tell you I like watching it and fapping - it's called high libido. It's the same with girls that pass the boner test .... I am not picky, I want as many as possible rather then focusing on finding a fucking "lawyer" or rich/educated 10s that some of you dream about here.

Yeah that's how it happened with virgin: http://i.imgur.com/cMaoCsX.jpg

Wait I assume that's not enough for you: http://i.imgur.com/v3QIKRz.png

Took screens for buddy when it happened to show him how easy this place is

(06-12-2014 01:33 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

You're 23! The problem isn't porn or ED, the problem is you're a low value guy who's dating your female equivalents! You're probably overweight too, but it could be just excessive masturbation and ugly sluts causing this.

It's all good, I understand it, it's less work, both in personal self-improvement, and in game itself, going after the low hanging fruit, but I don't think you're even going for the low hanging fruit, I think you're a scavenger going for the rotten fruit on the ground. That's what I gather from your above three posts man.

You want to fix your impotence? Improve yourself. Become a better man, one that's able to pull an attractive, good girl. That'll fix your ED. apologies.

Come find me next time you are in this place, 6'2 white guy staying at Linmarr Towers - shouldn't be to hard to spot and you can tell me all about my low value.

I'd edited my post to not be so harsh on you and saw that you replied before I'd edited it.

Moving on.

I do believe you slept with her, I'm not doubting that at all.

And you don't have ED, man. If you're functioning when you watch hot chicks in porn, you don't have ED, you're just out of steam from masturbation, plus a barely passable girl, plus alcohol.

That's not ED, that's the normal result of the scenario you're describing.

There isn't anything physically wrong with you.

[Onto]

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

We all know what kind of guys are looking for obedient, religion brainwashed women(that they call from "good families") and are afraid to bring her back home.

Tell us, what kind of guys are they?

[Enigma]

(06-11-2014 09:13 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

I don't mind it at all and I am actually starting to miss slutty, overconfident women back from EU - It's getting annoying how much Filipinas are trying to please

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

For me slutty women were always favorite since I was never interested in LTR like most of you seem to be.
I would also always choose confident girl that knows how to carry herself and has guys throwing themselves after her over some virgin here who is afraid to tell me what her favorite position is...

We all know what kind of guys are looking for obedient, religion brainwashed women(that they call from "good families") and are afraid to bring her back home.

This reads like a page out of the feminist propaganda handbook.

[ballybally]

I personally don't believe in monogamy and don't need girl to be loyal to me to be happy. Though I am 23 years old, tall, good looking guy with expanding business(reason I am here in PH) so go figure how often girls want to see other guys.

I am extremely busy here, working like 12h everyday and basically only setting up dates at my place with girls that live near and message me first, because they are almost always completely DTF. I am not complaining but if those girls would be less religious and more sexually liberated it wouldn't do any damage to me, I might get even more pussy. I don't care about their rights like AT ALL, if you still want to call me feminist np.

Oh and if you want to see what real feminists are about nowadays check out Rebecca Watson and others like her, those are the real problem.

(06-12-2014 05:58 AM)Onto Wrote:  

(06-11-2014 11:55 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

We all know what kind of guys are looking for obedient, religion brainwashed women(that they call from "good families") and are afraid to bring her back home.

Tell us, what kind of guys are they?

Vast majority would be guys that can't get quality girlfriend(or any gf for that matter) back at home. Some might be just smart guys that want to get more value for their $$$ here but still have provider mindset - Though as I said #1 represent vast majority here from what I've seen. I am not judging, more power to you if you are resourceful.

Everyone that I know that has success with girls back in EU would NEVER,EVER,EVER want to come here to get a serious GF/wife here... Why on earth would they want that? To them these girls are lower value in everything then girls back at home. Only insecure guys are obsessed with loyal girlfriends(but those represent like 99% of male population so it's accepted as norm)

I know am younger then most here and will probably change my opinions down the line, but that's how I see it right now - I know am gonna get called troll or feminist... Whatever.

[Onto]

(06-13-2014 11:18 PM)ballybally Wrote:  

I know am gonna get called troll or feminist... Whatever.

Yeah, I would say you pretty much outed yourself

[CaptainCrazy]

ballybally Wrote:

I am extremely busy here, working like 12h everyday and basically only setting up dates at my place with girls that live near and message me first, because they are almost always completely DTF. I am not complaining but if those girls would be less religious and more sexually liberated it wouldn't do any damage to me, I might get even more pussy. I don't care about their rights like AT ALL, if you still want to call me feminist np.

Dude, people who put pussy before business won't understand you. With 12h work days I'd simply go for a bargirl. They suck better dick. Screw this dating bullshit.

[Enigma]

(06-14-2014 01:48 AM)CaptainCrazy Wrote:  

Dude, people who put pussy before business won't understand you. With 12h work days I'd simply go for a bargirl. They suck better dick. Screw this dating bullshit.

Nice, man. Where did you find the bargirls when you were in Davao? Because I know MTS, Brick Lane, and Torres St all have mostly male staff. Since that covers 10+ of the most popular venues here and the bars stop serving at midnight, I'm genuinely curious about where all these dick sucking bar girls are hanging out.

I'm also wondering How does getting belligerently drunk and hopped up on Cialis save you more time than just having a 30 minute coffee date so you can build enough comfort to fuck a woman who isn't barely bangable?

How does going out to bars every night to pick up sluts helps you be more productive with work over an LTR aka pussy, cooking, and cleaning on tap. Care to break that down?

Somehow the two of you have extropolated the posts of two members into everyone posting on this thread is trying to find a woman for marriage

Apparently not wanting to fuck 5s and 6s your whole life means you're an insecure guy just dying to settle down. We're all just pathetic little betas compared to you budding moguls.

When in fact, most of us just understand that the women throwing themselves at white guys online aren't high quality. I've smashed these chicks myself, but I don't try to play it off like they're not low hanging fruit. I don't care what anyone fucks, but if you're on the forum asking for advice, what do you expect us to say?

The most attractive women here aren't throwing themselves at guys online and they come from good families. Most of the hotter girls here won't even meet you for the first time without a friend or family member. Rationalize that however you want to, but it doesn't change the truth.

And if you're looking for sluts, why go to Davao over Cebu or Manila?

It just doesn't make sense. Why go to a place known for conservative women and then complain that the women are conservative?