[hoops330]

So you find out that she has herpes and then give LMR??? What a hypocrite !

[R Smoov]

How do you bang 60+ girls but now worried about herpes?

[mental]

You are, most likely, not working as, "your honors".

No body, and me, knows; what has gone through his inner mental faculties;



Your "sarcasm", does not help;

It only serves to satisfy
The whims, of the ego

Give a little; it will pay back, very handsomely!
Everythimg taken, WILL come around.

Peace!

[Sonsowey]

In NYC 36% of women have genital herpes.

Of men and women, 46% Of African Americans, and 14% of whites have it. Presumably among whites and African Americans, women have it more commonly.

So even if you are only fucking white girls, at least 15-20% of them have genital herpes.

So I guess just marry a virgin and retire from the game.

http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/html/pr2008/pr039-08.shtmli

[lurker]

(03-30-2014 03:13 PM)clever alias Wrote:  

are you kidding me?
You can't get "back herpes," it's not a thing.
80% of the population already has oral herpes
She could have not told you, be thankful she did before anything really happened
Herpes lives outside its environment for only a few seconds, so it can't be spread by anything buy direct genital/mouth contact. Otherwise, everyone who shared a toilet would have herpes.
if someone has genital herpes, uses a condom, avoids sex during outbreaks, and takes daily antivirals, the risk of transmission is less than 1% annually.
if you're this paranoid, don't come to a forum, spend 5 minutes on google.

You can get back herpes. Competitive wrestlers get it a lot, which is why it's called herpes gladiatorum.

Everything else you wrote is true.

Soup, you were at low risk. In fact, you probably had a lower risk of catching herp from this chick than from another random NYC girl.

[soup]

Rosca- because I've banged a lot of girls raw, and my test results are perfect.

That gave me a different perspective on raw dogging. Keep on mind that it was like 63 or 64 girls just in 2013. It was 40 something in 2012.

Either I'm really lucky or the std stats are off.

[Borealis]

Don't 50% of the adult population have herpes anyway? The OP might have herpes and not even know it.

[Nolecbo]

(03-30-2014 03:50 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

Like I said, I can understand passing it up, even if it was unnecessary.

But being surprised or freaked about it, given Soup's chosen lifestyle. It just seems silly.

I understand Soup being freaked out. He DOES have his chosen lifestyle, and it flashed right in front of his eyes. If he had left this encounter infected, his entire life would have changed.

I think we all can guess - a girl can go around knowingly passing out STD's and not face consequences. If a guy does it, you are tempting the courts to make new law to stop your 'public menacing'.

I will add - it seems that every medical professional has checked in saying Soup is fine, it is probably safe to unclench.

[Young T.R.]

It's not that big of a deal. If the girl is on valtrex and you wear a condom your chances of catching it are 1 in 1000 or less, if I remember correctly.
Even people who have herpes and use no protection aren't shedding the virus for the majority of the year.
I was in the same situation as you, back in December. I met a sexy half asian, half Russian girl on Tinder. Took the girl home, we made out and I had her mostly naked and she told me. I was hesitant at first, so I just let her suck my dick. We ended up hanging out for a couple days of awesome bjs. I did some research on my phone (mid-bj haha), put on a condom and fucked her. Not a big deal.
That said, I went in accepting the risk. For a few weeks afterwards I was kind of paranoid. But like others have said, statistically there are almost certainly more girls w herpes that I've already fucked raw.

[clever alias]

even if you dont pass along herpes, probably evertone here has given warts on to someone else. once you get past the stigma, most people into casual sex are either aware or infected

[gringochileno]

(03-31-2014 11:15 AM)soup Wrote:  

Rosca- because I've banged a lot of girls raw, and my test results are perfect.

That gave me a different perspective on raw dogging. Keep on mind that it was like 63 or 64 girls just in 2013. It was 40 something in 2012.

Either I'm really lucky or the std stats are off.

Do you specifically ask to be tested for herpes (HSV-1 and HSV-2 IgG) every time you get an STD test? If you don't, you're probably not getting it--the standard battery is usually just gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV, syphilis, and maybe stuff like Hep C if your insurance covers it and your doctor's in a "why the hell not?" kind of mood.

[soup]

(03-31-2014 07:13 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

(03-31-2014 11:15 AM)soup Wrote:  

Rosca- because I've banged a lot of girls raw, and my test results are perfect.

That gave me a different perspective on raw dogging. Keep on mind that it was like 63 or 64 girls just in 2013. It was 40 something in 2012.

Either I'm really lucky or the std stats are off.

Do you specifically ask to be tested for herpes (HSV-1 and HSV-2 IgG) every time you get an STD test? If you don't, you're probably not getting it--the standard battery is usually just gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV, syphilis, and maybe stuff like Hep C if your insurance covers it and your doctor's in a "why the hell not?" kind of mood.

Yes- I ask them to test me for everything.

[ChocolateCockOfZeus]

My ex had the Herp. I was 18 and she was the first chick I really fell hard for. I thought I was winning when I got her because she was a stunner to me and a lot of guys. I liked her a lot, but the fact that she turned heads everywhere we went made me feel like I really had something I should do my best to hold on to. She made me wait months before having sex and I didn't get it. She was really into me, and I fingered her many times and every time she was soaked. She was fighting not to have sex with me and I could tell it was a struggle for her, but I went right along with it because I didn't know any better.

After months of waiting patiently, she tells me we need to talk, but she can't talk in person, she can only tell me over the phone. I'm shitting myself because I think she's about to break up with me. She calls me and she's quiet for a long time. She's really struggling and it gets to the point where I can hear her crying, so I start asking questions like "did you cheat?". She finally comes out with it; she has oral herpes.

I want to go back in time and smack the holy shit out of myself for this, but my reaction in that moment was a sigh of relief... I was so into this girl that I didn't mind her having herpes at all. I was supportive as hell, did and said everything to make her feel good about herself, did the research, collected my "best boyfriend in the world" points, and cashed them on for sex with my 10. We were very safe about everything.

Then one night I woke up next to her horny as all hell, felt her and as always she was wet like the Pacific. Of course there were no condoms in sight. She's giving courtesy resistance, but I say fuck it, lift her up and put her on top of me like a cave man, and raw dog for the first time in my life. Still probably the best feeling sex of my life...I came in less than 10 strokes. We threw all caution to the wind and lived wildly for the rest of the relationship.

Of course after this comes the reality stage where you see who a person really is, I see her without makeup for the first time, I see how much of a bitch she really is, and that 10 becomes a hard 2/10 wnb (again). At this point the "oh shit, I've exposed myself to a serious std..." kicks in. Then comes the panic, and the doctor visits. Damn that shit was scary. But 7 years later I'm herpes free.

[AneroidOcean]

(03-30-2014 04:15 PM)soup Wrote:  

I got a little mad because this girl waited until after I had already fingered her to tell me. There's a possibility that she may have been lying.

Soup you're overreacting. The simplest explanation is usually the likeliest.

She probably has no idea that she could transmit it to the skin and like you and the rest of the mostly STD uneducated population thought that she could only transmit it to your dick or mouth, and then only when she has an outbreak.

She probably told you exactly when she thought she needed to.

You should be happy that she brought it up. You should be happy to have had a chance to avoid it. Being angry and blaming her is hypocritical when you are banging girls left and right. Your own actions put you way, WAY more at risk than anything she likely inadvertently did.

Thanks for sharing the story, though. I'm glad there's some good STD info being spread. I always struggle myself between STD risk and number of girls I date/pursue.

[soup]

(03-31-2014 08:08 PM)ChocolateCockOfZeus Wrote:  

My ex had the Herp. I was 18 and she was the first chick I really fell hard for. I thought I was winning when I got her because she was a stunner to me and a lot of guys. I liked her a lot, but the fact that she turned heads everywhere we went made me feel like I really had something I should do my best to hold on to. She made me wait months before having sex and I didn't get it. She was really into me, and I fingered her many times and every time she was soaked. She was fighting not to have sex with me and I could tell it was a struggle for her, but I went right along with it because I didn't know any better.

After months of waiting patiently, she tells me we need to talk, but she can't talk in person, she can only tell me over the phone. I'm shitting myself because I think she's about to break up with me. She calls me and she's quiet for a long time. She's really struggling and it gets to the point where I can hear her crying, so I start asking questions like "did you cheat?". She finally comes out with it; she has oral herpes.

I want to go back in time and smack the holy shit out of myself for this, but my reaction in that moment was a sigh of relief... I was so into this girl that I didn't mind her having herpes at all. I was supportive as hell, did and said everything to make her feel good about herself, did the research, collected my "best boyfriend in the world" points, and cashed them on for sex with my 10. We were very safe about everything.

Then one night I woke up next to her horny as all hell, felt her and as always she was wet like the Pacific. Of course there were no condoms in sight. She's giving courtesy resistance, but I say fuck it, lift her up and put her on top of me like a cave man, and raw dog for the first time in my life. Still probably the best feeling sex of my life...I came in less than 10 strokes. We threw all caution to the wind and lived wildly for the rest of the relationship.

Of course after this comes the reality stage where you see who a person really is, I see her without makeup for the first time, I see how much of a bitch she really is, and that 10 becomes a hard 2/10 wnb (again). At this point the "oh shit, I've exposed myself to a serious std..." kicks in. Then comes the panic, and the doctor visits. Damn that shit was scary. But 7 years later I'm herpes free.

Thanks for sharing, ChocolateCockOfZeus.

[ddjembe mutombo]

I don't understand any STD scare if you are out to collect notches. If you are going to swim with sharks you will eventually get bit.

Also, 90% of the adult population has oral herpes, but most don't even know it. That is because a lot of people don't know what that split on their lip is. It is also because a lot of people don't even get it on their lip, they get it inside their mouth and they write it off as a canker sore. Oral herpes is most commonly spread through sharing drinks and whatnot. I've had it since I was a child, so it really is no big deal to me. I still go down on girls, but I just make sure I check my lips and gums in a mirror before doing so.

Genital herpes is a little more severe of a story, but there is honestly too much of a stigma against it. I would much rather have genital herpes than HPV.

[TonySandos]

I see now why the mass populous is vastly incorrect on STI facts.........................................................