[Tuthmosis]

I don't know about you guys, but I regret not getting a lot things on tape over the years. Sure, you can't capture EVERYTHING (and you'd be a goddamn idiot to spend all your time trying to record things rather than LIVING them), but it wouldn't hurt to have some of your slays recorded--purely for your private use and electronic trophy case. I wouldn't pull an upload-your-girls-to-the-Internet dick move. Even my non-principled-ass has SOME decency.

Having said that, I HAVE recorded some of my action with more formal "girlfriends." I have G-rated stills of most everyone, some PG-13 stills of some, and some hardcore video with a few girlfriends. I basically achieved that by pulling the camera out and insisting I wouldn't do "anything" with the video--basically going through the Honest-Abe front door. In the future, I'm considering a more surreptitious approach.

Do any of you record your bangs? What technique/approach/equipment to do use? How do you respond to objections? Etc.

[bigbootyluvr]

the question is, what will you do with it later? watch it in your old age and regret how stupid you were? Give yourself a high five? Prove your manhood? What is the tape for? You created the memory, and you live with it. You don't need a tape to validate you or your existance as a man.

[Tuthmosis]

(01-13-2011 03:03 AM)bigbootyluvr Wrote:  

the question is, what will you do with it later? watch it in your old age and regret how stupid you were? Give yourself a high five? Prove your manhood? What is the tape for? You created the memory, and you live with it. You don't need a tape to validate you or your existance as a man.

How you "use it" depends on the guy, I guess. Apparently, I don't use it anywhere near the way you would. To me, it's a record of where I've been, the things and people I have enjoyed in my life. I take pictures when I'm on vacation abroad having a good time; I don't see this as fundamentally different. Pictures, video, or whatever also serves as a powerful motivator to keep working.

But by your logic, no one should never take photographs of ANYTHING. After all, you "can live with" all those memories too. You don't need to "validate" your ability to travel, your ability to have a good time at a party, your ability to assemble a good costume for Halloween.

I don't see why anyone would regret "how stupid they were" in old age by seeing a video or photograph of themselves fucking (or simply of a girl they once fucked). Frankly, it's liable to make you feel LESS stupid to remember that you were once a young, fit guy able to score hot chicks. Being able to re-live happy, old memories--irrespective of whether they're sexual or not--seems like an unqualified good thing.

[bigbootyluvr]

I stand corrected. To record some young girl hoping for her next meal by fucking you is just amazing. You are a stud and should be honored for your achievement!!!! By all means record it so you can look back when you are 80 and say "Man I was the shit back then!" "I actually had sex with a poor girl who wanted to fuck me because she's hungry!!!!!! now i'm gonna die!!!! total awesomness!!!

just enjoy the bang and don't be a douche. I can't stand gringos like you that go over and piss the girls off and disrespect them for the rest of us to deal with....Yes take pictures, but there is a fine line between being a gringo douche mongering cocksucker and being a human being and enjoying the culture. You should join ISG with the rest of the white van/beanie baby crowd.

[FretDancer]

Viewing yourself banging a chick from a 3rd person view would be cool, but I can see where bigbootyluvr is getting at. I don't see any harm on it if the girl agrees and is up to it though.

[Tuthmosis]

(01-13-2011 04:45 AM)bigbootyluvr Wrote:  

"I actually had sex with a poor girl who wanted to fuck me because she's hungry!!!!!! now i'm gonna die!!!! total awesomness!!!

just enjoy the bang and don't be a douche. I can't stand gringos like you that go over and piss the girls off and disrespect them for the rest of us to deal with....Yes take pictures, but there is a fine line between being a gringo douche mongering cocksucker and being a human being and enjoying the culture. You should join ISG with the rest of the white van/beanie baby crowd.

Dude, what are you even talking about?

1. A girl that's hungry? I'm not sleeping with homeless girls.

2. Don't talk shit about gringos. It's irrelevant and there are a lot of gringos on here. Show some respect.

3. Enjoying the culture? I think you got lost on the way to the Travel section of the board. I'm not talking about traveling anywhere. This is domestic shit. United States of America.

4. Stop trolling.

[Luckystar]

(01-13-2011 04:05 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(01-13-2011 03:03 AM)bigbootyluvr Wrote:  

the question is, what will you do with it later? watch it in your old age and regret how stupid you were? Give yourself a high five? Prove your manhood? What is the tape for? You created the memory, and you live with it. You don't need a tape to validate you or your existance as a man.

How you "use it" depends on the guy, I guess. Apparently, I don't use it anywhere near the way you would. To me, it's a record of where I've been, the things and people I have enjoyed in my life. I take pictures when I'm on vacation abroad having a good time; I don't see this as fundamentally different. Pictures, video, or whatever also serves as a powerful motivator to keep working.

But by your logic, no one should never take photographs of ANYTHING. After all, you "can live with" all those memories too. You don't need to "validate" your ability to travel, your ability to have a good time at a party, your ability to assemble a good costume for Halloween.

I don't see why anyone would regret "how stupid they were" in old age by seeing a video or photograph of themselves fucking (or simply of a girl they once fucked). Frankly, it's liable to make you feel LESS stupid to remember that you were once a young, fit guy able to score hot chicks. Being able to re-live happy, old memories--irrespective of whether they're sexual or not--seems like an unqualified good thing.

I don't know any dudes who treasure their photos and video, as you suggest. I do,however, know that just about every bitch does.

Fuck the memories. They're just bitches, nothing special. Move on to your next slay. Assuming you actually get laid on the regular. And, if you do, I don't know why you need to hold on to the 'memories'.

Sounds so weak, dude.

[Tuthmosis]

(01-13-2011 04:40 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  

I don't know any dudes who treasure their photos and video, as you suggest. I do,however, know that just about every bitch does.

Fuck the memories. They're just bitches, nothing special. Move on to your next slay. Assuming you actually get laid on the regular. And, if you do, I don't know why you need to hold on to the 'memories'.

Sounds so weak, dude.

I don't think an affinity for photographs makes you a "bitch" or weak. In fact, I think it's being a little try-hard to avoid doing things you perceive bitches doing. But, whatever homeboy, as they say: "Arguing on the Internet is like the Special Olympics. You may win but you're still retarded."

Having said that, I found good ol' Roissy's thoughts on the subject. Might be worth a read--he's pretty compelling on it:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/d...oto-album/

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/09/26/film-your-bangs/

[Luckystar]

(01-13-2011 04:58 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(01-13-2011 04:40 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  

I don't know any dudes who treasure their photos and video, as you suggest. I do,however, know that just about every bitch does.

Fuck the memories. They're just bitches, nothing special. Move on to your next slay. Assuming you actually get laid on the regular. And, if you do, I don't know why you need to hold on to the 'memories'.

Sounds so weak, dude.

I don't think an affinity for photographs makes you a "bitch" or weak. In fact, I think it's being a little try-hard to avoid doing things you perceive bitches doing. But, whatever homeboy, as they say: "Arguing on the Internet is like the Special Olympics. You may win but you're still retarded."

Having said that, I found good ol' Roissy's thoughts on the subject. Might be worth a read--he's pretty compelling on it:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/d...oto-album/

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/09/26/film-your-bangs/

Fair enough. I ll check out the links.

[IshGibbor]

I could be wrong, this is just my opinion but video taping yourself having sex with girls just to watch it later seems very narcissistic to me. I really don't find the act that memorable.

Ish

[oldnemesis]

(01-12-2011 09:33 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Do any of you record your bangs?

No. But I do not take pictures of girls I go out or have sex with either. It actually amazed a lot of people here in US once I got back from Thailand that I did not bring a picture of any of those chicks I banged there. To me, someone collecting (and especially posting) a lot of pictures like "me and Thai whore #17" basically screams as "I am a loser".

However if she wants to video it (and some girls did), I usually don't mind.

[mikeymike]

Lotsa judgement goin around from a bunch of guys who get around lol Its not like any of us are squeaky clean so why the lookdown on someone for wanting a keepsake of a good memory?

I have some pics and some vids of girls ive banged, not anywhere close to most of them, a few that were important to me and I do have my fun on the regular so its not about heres my once a year birthday special lets document it lol, I dont think ive looked at the vids once to be honest and the pics only if they were in with pics I was showing somebody else but never on my own. That said I don't think theres anything wrong with it, I mean if you're frequenting whore # 17 are you any more a loser for documenting it than you are for frequenting her in the first place? I know I dont look at my old hockey, football, soccer and tennis trophies either but I still have them, they were part of great times in my life, if someone feels like they want to remember these particular times so be it, to each their own.

[Larry33]

(01-14-2011 01:56 PM)mikeymike Wrote:  

Lotsa judgement goin around from a bunch of guys who get around lol Its not like any of us are squeaky clean so why the lookdown on someone for wanting a keepsake of a good memory?

I have some pics and some vids of girls ive banged, not anywhere close to most of them, a few that were important to me and I do have my fun on the regular so its not about heres my once a year birthday special lets document it lol, I dont think ive looked at the vids once to be honest and the pics only if they were in with pics I was showing somebody else but never on my own. That said I don't think theres anything wrong with it, I mean if you're frequenting whore # 17 are you any more a loser for documenting it than you are for frequenting her in the first place? I know I dont look at my old hockey, football, soccer and tennis trophies either but I still have them, they were part of great times in my life, if someone feels like they want to remember these particular times so be it, to each their own.

Trophies signify achievement. So if that's the analogy, and you need a video for the same reason, then I think you should ask yourself why you have it on a pedestal. Also, if you never watch the video what is purpose?

Anyway, It's a free country, but I think it's soft.

[gringoed]

Yes I do this with girlfriends often. Simple point and shoots with video capability are good enough and easy to hold. Do it with consent always. Watch porn for tips.

[Tuthmosis]

(01-14-2011 01:56 PM)mikeymike Wrote:  

Lotsa judgement goin around from a bunch of guys who get around lol Its not like any of us are squeaky clean so why the lookdown on someone for wanting a keepsake of a good memory?

I agree. I think it's way softer or beta to brag to people about your notches than to record them for you own occasional viewing. A video or picture (which you don't share) is a private thing. Talking or writing big is a public search for validation.

In either case, it's all about your state of mind and reasons for doing it. If you're bragging OR recording because you rarely get laid or are celebrating the pussy, you suck. If you're doing those things because it's your thing, but you're totally solid and congruent about it, you're cool. Simple as that.

[Duke Castile]

If that's what the guy wants to do, who fucking cares?

Personally, I like being able to look at the hot ass I've nailed (and even the not so hot ass). It's a turn on when a girl sends you a sexy pic. It's a turn on if they want to see you fucking them on film.

As usual, the guys talking shit are the ones self projecting. One man buys a gun for self protection, another buys a gun because he likes to shoot targets, another buys one to make himself feel powerful, all of them are telling the other guy why he's REALLY buying a gun without showing any respect or listening to the other's reasons.

Tuthmosis, just make sure you aren't being deceptive and filming without consent and its all good.

[Qtip]

I could care less about having/making any sex tapes, although when I was 15 getting laid for the first time this sounded like a "sick" idea. But I can't lie, if I had some old tapes I would watch them. I think it comes down to how much effort you're willing to spend on it. The more effort, the weirder You seem. If you bang a different chick every night and have camera handy(I don't even own one) for some reason, I can see how you might effortlessly end up with a few vids. But if you get laid like once a year, don't tell the girl, and bought a video camera just for this purpose, I find that kind of creepy.

Taking a sexy pic of each girl in thong or something I think would be pretty cool and more than enough of a memory.

[AlphaQup2nite]

I dont do videos or photos much at all. Its just not me, id rather go out and make more memories then sittin around muling over the things that have already been done. So from me a resounding no.

[Luckystar]

(01-19-2011 03:07 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

As usual, the guys talking shit are the ones self projecting.

In the original post, Tuthmosis asks 'Do any of you record your bangs?' And thus everyone answered his question with reasons why. Just because we don't agree, doesn't mean we are 'talking shit'. That is self projecting. Don't let your inferiority complex get the best of you, Fisto. If pics and vids and blow by blows is how you roll, you don't need validation from the forum. Even though, those very acts are inheritantly acts to seek validation to begin with IMO.

Personally, that's not how I roll. I just see it as weak (and douche baggish). I don't need to act on every compulsion that turns me on. I don't believe that self-gratification is an acceptable reason for everything we do. And, I don't give women enough value that I 'high-five' everyone when they get laid (even if it's a 10). I m happy for the guy, but no need to get excited. On to the next. I guess I m just not that much fun!

I have a 'When all I do is score touchdowns, there's no need to celebrate. That's just what I do' mentality. When I see glorifications (the thread is 'Electronic Trophy Case'), I just think that's a guy that not use to success.

Everyone's got the right to their opinion. I m sure you don't agree with mine, and that is totally cool. You wouldn't be 'talking shit' or 'self projecting' by expressing it.

For clarity, there is nothing morally wrong with taping with consent (no moral judgement being passed here). It's your right to do it if you want to.

[Tuthmosis]

Just to clarify: I'm a guy with a little point-and-shoot camera that takes pictures of a bunch of shit anyway. I don't take pictures of girls until I get to know them (I don't want to further inflate their ego by allowing them to attention-whore my camera lens). But once we've hung out, I'll take pictures of stuff--including her. In fact, I'm often asking bitches to take pictures of ME for me. I'm not a creeper with a camera; I'm a guy that learned that you end up thanking yourself later for taking pictures, of even mundane shit. In fact, I learned that from a very famous musician [name withheld] from the 1970s/80s who told me he did all these wonderful things, traveled all over the world, toured with music legends, won Grammies, and performed in regal palaces, and never got a SINGLE picture of it. He regretted the-hell out of that, so in his old age, he was bringing a camera everywhere and snapping everything. He urged me to do the same in my youth.

So, sooner or later my regular pictures of a girl might become a picture of their ass or of her with her hair tussled or whatever. By extension, I might take a picture of a semi-naked girl or, in some rare cases, video us fuckin' around (WITH their consent, for the lawyers on here). By the time we get to that, girls are pretty comfortable that I take pictures (although not to excess; I'm not CONSTANTLY taking pictures; don't fucking misinterpret). The reason I asked about taping YOUR bangs is that I haven't done it that much and was wondering how many other "players" were doing it. I didn't want to know what the weak near-betas and keyboard players on the board thought about the matter, frankly. As for the title "Electronic Trophy Case," that was merely an attention-getting name referring to a lot of guys' motivation for recording or photographing things (as in the popular "Pics of girls we've banged" thread), not necessarily my own motivation. I AM speaking to a community here.

The notion that taping girls is some sort of validation or celebration, and an indication that you don't get laid regularly, is absurd. Even if that were the case, it isn't anymore validation than joining and participating in a forum about systematically picking up chicks here, and abroad, or pursuing as many "notches" as possible. In fact, most of those allegations come from semi-trolls or (fellow) noobs that go on other threads and say the same shit about everything--trying to "call out" every player on here and drag the discussion into a "debate," trying to seem like they're ABOVE certain tactics and methods. Some people think disagreeing is the only way to seem knowledgeable; it's usually a mark of intellectual immaturity.

Do a thread search one or more of the biggest complainers above and see what I mean.

[Luckystar]

(01-20-2011 03:16 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Just to clarify: I'm a guy with a little point-and-shoot camera that takes pictures of a bunch of shit anyway. I don't take pictures of girls until I get to know them (I don't want to further inflate their ego by allowing them to attention-whore my camera lens). But once we've hung out, I'll take pictures of stuff--including her. In fact, I'm often asking bitches to take pictures of ME for me. I'm not a creeper with a camera; I'm a guy that learned that you end up thanking yourself later for taking pictures, of even mundane shit. In fact, I learned that from a very famous musician [name withheld] from the 1970s/80s who told me he did all these wonderful things, traveled all over the world, toured with music legends, won Grammies, and performed in regal palaces, and never got a SINGLE picture of it. He regretted the-hell out of that, so in his old age, he was bringing a camera everywhere and snapping everything. He urged me to do the same in my youth.

So, sooner or later my regular pictures of a girl might become a picture of their ass or of her with her hair tussled or whatever. By extension, I might take a picture of a semi-naked girl or, in some rare cases, video us fuckin' around (WITH their consent, for the lawyers on here). By the time we get to that, girls are pretty comfortable that I take pictures (although not to excess; I'm not CONSTANTLY taking pictures; don't fucking misinterpret). The reason I asked about taping YOUR bangs is that I haven't done it that much and was wondering how many other "players" were doing it. I didn't want to know what the weak near-betas and keyboard players on the board thought about the matter, frankly. As for the title "Electronic Trophy Case," that was merely an attention-getting name referring to a lot of guys' motivation for recording or photographing things (as in the popular "Pics of girls we've banged" thread), not necessarily my own motivation. I AM speaking to a community here.

The notion that taping girls is some sort of validation or celebration, and an indication that you don't get laid regularly, is absurd. Even if that were the case, it isn't anymore validation than joining and participating in a forum about systematically picking up chicks here, and abroad, or pursuing as many "notches" as possible. In fact, most of those allegations come from semi-trolls or (fellow) noobs that go on other threads and say the same shit about everything--trying to "call out" every player on here and drag the discussion into a "debate," trying to seem like they're ABOVE certain tactics and methods. Some people think disagreeing is the only way to seem knowledgeable; it's usually a mark of intellectual immaturity.

Do a thread search one or more of the biggest complainers above and see what I mean.

So go ahead and tape away, dog. You are the only one complaining. Not anyone's problem if you can handle a different perspective. You asked for it, you got it. It's cool that the forum has diverse opinions IMO.

Anyway, enjoy your taping. Wish you all the best.

[Duke Castile]

(01-20-2011 10:59 AM)Luckystar Wrote:  

(01-19-2011 03:07 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

As usual, the guys talking shit are the ones self projecting.

In the original post, Tuthmosis asks 'Do any of you record your bangs?' And thus everyone answered his question with reasons why. Just because we don't agree, doesn't mean we are 'talking shit'. That is self projecting. Don't let your inferiority complex get the best of you, Fisto. If pics and vids and blow by blows is how you roll, you don't need validation from the forum. Even though, those very acts are inheritantly acts to seek validation to begin with IMO.

Personally, that's not how I roll. I just see it as weak (and douche baggish). I don't need to act on every compulsion that turns me on. I don't believe that self-gratification is an acceptable reason for everything we do. And, I don't give women enough value that I 'high-five' everyone when they get laid (even if it's a 10). I m happy for the guy, but no need to get excited. On to the next. I guess I m just not that much fun!

I have a 'When all I do is score touchdowns, there's no need to celebrate. That's just what I do' mentality. When I see glorifications (the thread is 'Electronic Trophy Case'), I just think that's a guy that not use to success.

Everyone's got the right to their opinion. I m sure you don't agree with mine, and that is totally cool. You wouldn't be 'talking shit' or 'self projecting' by expressing it.

For clarity, there is nothing morally wrong with taping with consent (no moral judgement being passed here). It's your right to do it if you want to.

Lucky, it becomes "talking shit" when someone gets insulting and ridicules someone for their harmless choices. I don't think the guy asked to be called a douche bag or whatever it is you think the reason is. Politely or even jokingly disagreeing is totally fine, it's when comments jump straight to being disrespectful to the poster is when I get irritated.

What makes you think I was addressing you to begin with? I don't even remember reading your post so for all I know you were cordial and polite with your detraction and not at all a fucking jerk taking pleasure in being "holier than thou". So unless you were doing that, that comment wasn't applicable to you. You seem to do that a lot I've noticed, that is to say, make inferences that where never there to begin with. Case in point, I don't have an inferiority complex Lucky, I don't know where you got that idea. I'm sure you "score" lots of touchdowns so here's an unwanted High five for you.

[Samseau]

http://www.spycameras.com/item,dvrl-4g,u...amera.html

[Luckystar]

(01-20-2011 11:09 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(01-20-2011 10:59 AM)Luckystar Wrote:  

(01-19-2011 03:07 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

As usual, the guys talking shit are the ones self projecting.

In the original post, Tuthmosis asks 'Do any of you record your bangs?' And thus everyone answered his question with reasons why. Just because we don't agree, doesn't mean we are 'talking shit'. That is self projecting. Don't let your inferiority complex get the best of you, Fisto. If pics and vids and blow by blows is how you roll, you don't need validation from the forum. Even though, those very acts are inheritantly acts to seek validation to begin with IMO.

Personally, that's not how I roll. I just see it as weak (and douche baggish). I don't need to act on every compulsion that turns me on. I don't believe that self-gratification is an acceptable reason for everything we do. And, I don't give women enough value that I 'high-five' everyone when they get laid (even if it's a 10). I m happy for the guy, but no need to get excited. On to the next. I guess I m just not that much fun!

I have a 'When all I do is score touchdowns, there's no need to celebrate. That's just what I do' mentality. When I see glorifications (the thread is 'Electronic Trophy Case'), I just think that's a guy that not use to success.

Everyone's got the right to their opinion. I m sure you don't agree with mine, and that is totally cool. You wouldn't be 'talking shit' or 'self projecting' by expressing it.

For clarity, there is nothing morally wrong with taping with consent (no moral judgement being passed here). It's your right to do it if you want to.

Lucky, it becomes "talking shit" when someone gets insulting and ridicules someone for their harmless choices. I don't think the guy asked to be called a douche bag or whatever it is you think the reason is. Politely or even jokingly disagreeing is totally fine, it's when comments jump straight to being disrespectful to the poster is when I get irritated.

What makes you think I was addressing you to begin with? I don't even remember reading your post so for all I know you were cordial and polite with your detraction and not at all a fucking jerk taking pleasure in being "holier than thou". So unless you were doing that, that comment wasn't applicable to you. You seem to do that a lot I've noticed, that is to say, make inferences that where never there to begin with. Case in point, I don't have an inferiority complex Lucky, I don't know where you got that idea. I'm sure you "score" lots of touchdowns so here's an unwanted High five for you.

Points well takin, Fisto. Didn't mean to offend you or anyone else. Sorry if I did.

[Duke Castile]

(01-21-2011 05:03 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  

(01-20-2011 11:09 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(01-20-2011 10:59 AM)Luckystar Wrote:  

(01-19-2011 03:07 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

As usual, the guys talking shit are the ones self projecting.

In the original post, Tuthmosis asks 'Do any of you record your bangs?' And thus everyone answered his question with reasons why. Just because we don't agree, doesn't mean we are 'talking shit'. That is self projecting. Don't let your inferiority complex get the best of you, Fisto. If pics and vids and blow by blows is how you roll, you don't need validation from the forum. Even though, those very acts are inheritantly acts to seek validation to begin with IMO.

Personally, that's not how I roll. I just see it as weak (and douche baggish). I don't need to act on every compulsion that turns me on. I don't believe that self-gratification is an acceptable reason for everything we do. And, I don't give women enough value that I 'high-five' everyone when they get laid (even if it's a 10). I m happy for the guy, but no need to get excited. On to the next. I guess I m just not that much fun!

I have a 'When all I do is score touchdowns, there's no need to celebrate. That's just what I do' mentality. When I see glorifications (the thread is 'Electronic Trophy Case'), I just think that's a guy that not use to success.

Everyone's got the right to their opinion. I m sure you don't agree with mine, and that is totally cool. You wouldn't be 'talking shit' or 'self projecting' by expressing it.

For clarity, there is nothing morally wrong with taping with consent (no moral judgement being passed here). It's your right to do it if you want to.

Lucky, it becomes "talking shit" when someone gets insulting and ridicules someone for their harmless choices. I don't think the guy asked to be called a douche bag or whatever it is you think the reason is. Politely or even jokingly disagreeing is totally fine, it's when comments jump straight to being disrespectful to the poster is when I get irritated.

What makes you think I was addressing you to begin with? I don't even remember reading your post so for all I know you were cordial and polite with your detraction and not at all a fucking jerk taking pleasure in being "holier than thou". So unless you were doing that, that comment wasn't applicable to you. You seem to do that a lot I've noticed, that is to say, make inferences that where never there to begin with. Case in point, I don't have an inferiority complex Lucky, I don't know where you got that idea. I'm sure you "score" lots of touchdowns so here's an unwanted High five for you.

Points well takin, Fisto. Didn't mean to offend you or anyone else. Sorry if I did.

You made me realize what I said on another thread could be taken out of context and I'm glad you did. All good.