Quote: (03-23-2014 02:28 PM)cardguy Wrote:
I know this is beta as fuck. But I get pretty depressed. Sometimes it scrambles my brain for an hour or two.
What good is a hot super hot chick who is not going to fuck me?
And before you start trying to turn this into a 'turn your life around and master game' thread.
Too late, you've come to the wrong place (Roosh V forum)
To expect NOT to hear that kind of stuff.
However, What I'm goin to say may sound strange, so take with it what you will.
You're not doing enough things that you like, are fun, make you feel good & Happy.
How do I know this? Because you feel depressed when you see a hot girl walk by, you only feel depressed because you don't think that girl (or any girl that good looking) would ever sleep with you. Or that it IS possbile to sleep with a girl like her but it will take you years and years of work, doing countless day game approaches and getting rejected over and over etc. . .basically a lot of work that you don't want to do.
Your mind thinks that but your body disagrees, so it sends that feeling to you to let you know that you're. . ."doing it wrong"
When I say do things you like, makes you happy etc etc... I say that because your mind/brain becomes UESD to feeling that way,(feelign good and confident) and as you get used to feeling that way, you will feel more worthiness in your life, you'll eventually ingrain that feeling as a habit untill you prety much feel like that all the time. And by that time, the next time a super hot girl crosses your path, you GENIUNELY smile. . .and maybe start a conversation. . . in which the woman is interested in you because you FEEL GOOD, FEEL HAPPY and FEEL CONFIDENT (which is all the same thing) Because you've trained yourself to feel that way by. . .having fun as much as you can.
Suddenly:
1)Meeting women like that becomes easy
2)you don't get that depression because you're happy
3)because you feel good you attract MORE hot women like that nearly effortlessly
4) You stop caring about hot women, or how hot they are, or just stop caring about getting women...or rather stop being neruotic and thinking about how you're NOT with that hot woman right now. . .because you don't have that NEED for her, you are happy without her. . .THAT feeling, that vide. . .is chick crack. WHen you're happy WITHOUT a hot woman, then that hot woman is going to wonder "what is it abotu cardguy" that makes him so happy"? These women will want an "in" to your world.
Really, feeling good, being happy, and training yourself that way is pretty much the first thing you need to do before you jump into game.
And the easiest way to get there is to find the things you love to do, things you do that makes time fly by AND that makes you feel good while doing it. . .
and do that. as much as you can.
Then the next posts you'll be writing will be about how to get all these hot women to stop approaching you since you have a full harem!
One misconception that I see all the time and saw in this forum:
Motivation vs Inspiration.
Motivation is just doin gsomething because you're afraid of what happens if you don't do it, implies that you don't really want to do it.
INSPIRATION however is something you're compelled to do, something you love. The MJ video that was posted is a product of inspiration. Jordan LOVED the game, THAT's why he was able to get up at 5am every morning and be the first guy to drive down to practice, I mean imagine if you found something that you really really really loved to do, something that woke you up at 6 in the morning because you were so excited to do that thing, and while you did it, time just flew by. THAT's inspiration. and it's a million times more powerful than motivation.
When you're inspired, people around you call it "hard work" as that dont have that same inspiration to do what it is they love (or havent found that thing that inspires them yet)
I'm going to tell you this:
Don't do "hard work." Do INSPIRED work. That is the work that will make 12 hours of doing it seem like 5 minutes. It is the same work that people will call "hard work" but to you its fun, its your life, its that thing that consumes you 24/7 in the best way possible.
Quote: (03-25-2014 09:40 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:
"Cool - but has anyone got any real experience of approaching a legit '9' or '10' in the street and taking her away for a bang?"
When I lived in Tokyo I was getting off work and feeling really great (I just got off work and it was Friday) and I was in Shibuya and I walked by a bar called scramble (its in area under the train bridge across the stret from Shibuya station near the famous crossing if anyone's curious. . .dont know if its still there though)with this 9 in the window eyeing me, I pretty much Just automatically smiled, went in and ordered a drink and sat next to her, At first she told me "I'm not going to have sex with you" Since I was in a really good mood, it was funnny to me and I didn't care at all, We did small talk for like 5 minutes and then left for a love hotel which she paid for." Banged all night.
Second instance of this was me going to my regular bar with a friend of mine, chilling and joking around. He had to leave early so after he left, I just instinctively talked to a woman sitting alone. WE didn't communicate much at ALL but I got her digits (cell phone mail adress) set up a date for the next week at a bar near my place, took her there, left towards my place while it was POURING rain (had no umbrella, didn't give a fuck) and proceeded to have the best sex sessions with a woman in my life. It was EASY, (compared to all the cold approaching I was doing around that time. . . I did a lot.)
Quote: (03-24-2014 09:48 PM)dreambig Wrote:
I can relate to what you are saying Cardguy.
Here in Tokyo I sometimes see girls so hot that it makes me hurt a little inside. There is a little voice inside that says "You will never get her" and it sucks.
Don't go to Enoshima beach in August then hahaha. Or maybe you should. . .its an amazing experience.