Quote: (04-30-2011 01:10 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:
There are an amazing amount of stereotypes about "America" and Americans. What's even more surprising is the number of people that subscribe to them, including our close neighbors the Canadians. However, its usually Canadians that have spent either zero or very little time here. Most of the stereotypes tend to center around work, money, selfishness, and narcissistic behavior. Sometimes they hold true, but most of the time they do not. However, realize that most people suck and so in any sample of Americans, or even Canadians, you will have a large amount of stupid people. Being a retard is not just an American phenomenon. Therefore, don't be ashamed of where your from, and don't apologize. Own it. Have some balls and some pride, for the love of god. What do you care if some fat British female backpacker finds out if your American? Fuck her if she pre-judges you for being such. And if she's attractive, then your double fucked because no woman will like a man who isn't confident enough to tell her what country he is from. That lack of confidence will carry over into other parts of your personality.
As far as the "everyone who lives on the Americas is American" argument goes, its a nonsense argument born out of a dead end in semantics. Both sides are right. The only people that I have an issue with are the morons who try to make logical points using this semantic clusterfuck.
My favorite argument is the one self entitled aspiring immigrants use. "You are American, and so are we, so we have a right to come to "America".
Not to be confused with the "You were once an immigrant too, 300 years ago." They are both nonsense "we're the same" entitlement arguments. But I digress.
I agree with you to some degree, Hydro to the point that one should never internalise the shame of whatever country they are from. However, on an external level, I personally leverage whatever country I can convincingly associate myself with in order to increase the chances of me accomplishing what I want to. I dislike being stereotyped according to what country I am supposed to be from instead of being given a chance to be judged from my character. I will leverage whatever countries that don't cause drama. It's easy to be huffy and proud of being America when you are in America but I've been in countries where they are anxious to beat an American to the ground.
I have fam in the U.S and I always defend the U.S against Europeans and Canadians who even though they live next door, have not even travelled as extensively across the U.S as I have.
They have also not taken the time to really observe the American culture honestly WITHOUT being influenced by media and the crap that people say.
One hispanic cat I know from Mia went to France with his brother and they got into a fight with some French cats who trying to punk them out just because they are American. I believe some knuckledusters came out and the hispanic dude got his jaw broke (but he fcuked those French cats up nice).
When I was in Paris, I got no love because they thought I was an American. I was ignored regularly.
You gotta be smart, Hydro, sometimes you have to swallow your pride and use your brain.
I am very proud of where I am from and I like Americans because they stand up for who they are and are also proud of where they are from.
However, outside of America, it's a different beast and that 'I'm American buddy so deal with it' attitude can get you stunned in a Euro ditch or Asia, South America wherever they don't like Americans. Whenever you become a minority, unless there is no way to hide it, lie about where you are from.
My advice to my travelling American compadres is, if asked, say that you are Canadian. Canada has a non existent foreign reputation and most non North Americans can't even differentiate between a Canadian and American accent so it's the easiest one to fake for a true American.
Most people have zero opinion about Canadians. Americans are either loved or hated, there is no middle ground with that type of personality.
This is concluded from my global experience.
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