[SheriffBart]

1. Get in the damn gym and get bigger. You don't need to be totally lean, but bigger is a must. I'm about 6'2" 220. Women can feel my muscles in their hands and feel my power when I dominate them. The last two have instinctively just nuzzled up on my chest after the bang and gone right to sleep. Physical size and power is a stimulating and reassuring thing for many women.

2. Dirty talk during the bang is an element of game wholly overlooked. While I've been fucking the latest, I've gotten to the point where I can almost voice command her to cum. Usually within 10-15 second of me telling her to cum for me, she'll do it. You gotta get inside their heads when you're fucking. The dick is only half the battle. Talking isn't only for getting the bang. It makes the bang better.

3. Call the damn shots. Makes decisions, make demands, make plans, give orders, and do so without remorse/guilt and with just the slightest consideration. Most women just fall in line for a take charge man. You can tell secretly they're thinking to themselves "Finally!". They're like ducks to water when a real dominant man comes into their lives. I try to come across like I know what I like and what I want to do and that I'm gonna go for it (which I am!). It's the part of game where you can actually be yourself in a totally genuine way and have it work for you.

[Capitán Peligroso]

Great post.

[Kangaroo]

I have been thinking about point 2 a lot recently, will be giving it a shot this weekend for sure.

[L M McCoy]

How much should I bulk up till I start hitting the weights?

[Wargasm]

(02-19-2014 11:00 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

How much should I bulk up till I start hitting the weights?

You've gotta be lifting already in order to bulk, otherwise its just called getting fat.

[L M McCoy]

(02-19-2014 11:14 PM)Wargasm Wrote:  

(02-19-2014 11:00 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

How much should I bulk up till I start hitting the weights?

You've gotta be lifting already in order to bulk, otherwise its just called getting fat.

haha! You made me spit out my water. I'm going to start lifting soon, tired of being scrawny.

[Kangaroo]

Start today.

[Don Ramon]

(02-19-2014 11:31 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

(02-19-2014 11:14 PM)Wargasm Wrote:  

(02-19-2014 11:00 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

How much should I bulk up till I start hitting the weights?

You've gotta be lifting already in order to bulk, otherwise its just called getting fat.

haha! You made me spit out my water. I'm going to start lifting soon, tired of being scrawny.

I'm also a hardgainer and this blog got me started on the right foot. The more fitness/body building articles I read the more valuable I realise that blog is.

I'm definitely working on number 1. I've been lifting religiously. You say no.2 is wholly overlooked, what kinds of things do you tell her while your banging that makes her cum on command like that? Agree with three, even if you make a stupid decision. When it comes down to it, the girl is still turned on by a guy that takes control. I used to be really indecisive, especially when it came to making decisions on how a night should go. After starting to take initiative and calling the shots, girls and even beta dudes seem relieved. Cool post man.

[General Mayhem]

I will vouch for number three

[The Beast1]

Vouch for number 1. Bigger is better. Get good at game, then get big and learn how much less effort you have to put in to get laid.

[LEMONed IScream]

What about the ectomorphs like me that can't really get bigger ahah, the maximum I can aspire is a Bruce Lee body.

[w00t]

(02-20-2014 11:17 AM)LEMONed IScream Wrote:  

What about the ectomorphs like me that can't really get bigger ahah, the maximum I can aspire is a Bruce Lee body.

What do you mean you cant get bigger?
Eat a caloric surplus and hit heavy weights... its as simple as that.

[SheWantsTheD]

(02-19-2014 10:38 PM)SheriffBart Wrote:  

3. Call the damn shots. Makes decisions, make demands, make plans, give orders, and do so without remorse/guilt and with just the slightest consideration. Most women just fall in line for a take charge man. You can tell secretly they're thinking to themselves "Finally!". They're like ducks to water when a real dominant man comes into their lives. I try to come across like I know what I like and what I want to do and that I'm gonna go for it (which I am!). It's the part of game where you can actually be yourself in a totally genuine way and have it work for you.

What about when she comes back with, "don't tell me what to do" or turns it around "why don't you go get me a drink instead"?

[Kickb]

Thats when you giverher the Uday Hussein Look

   

[SheWantsTheD]

(02-20-2014 03:13 PM)Kickb Wrote:  

Thats when you giverher the Uday Hussein Look

I just hear that sometimes, like "don't tell me what to do." And she's usually playing but I know there is a hint of truth when she says it.

[Kickb]

Yea I'm curious about what to do in that situation too

[SheWantsTheD]

(02-20-2014 04:14 PM)Kickb Wrote:  

Yea I'm curious about what to do in that situation too

Just not sure if I should keep reinforcing whatever it is I am demanding or asking for. I just don't understand how to keep frame in such a situation? If I ask for her to make me a sandwich and she says "don't tell me what to do" (even if it's playful) and I end up making it on my own I fail the shit test, right? Should I keep saying it? Ignore it? Agree and amplify? I'm at a loss.

[Kickb]

Maybe give her another demand after she says dont tell me what to do. Idk!

Make me a sandwhich

Dont tell me what to do!

And grab me a beer too

[augen sehen]

(02-19-2014 10:38 PM)SheriffBart Wrote:  

2. Dirty talk during the bang is an element of game wholly overlooked. While I've been fucking the latest, I've gotten to the point where I can almost voice command her to cum. Usually within 10-15 second of me telling her to cum for me, she'll do it. You gotta get inside their heads when you're fucking. The dick is only half the battle. Talking isn't only for getting the bang. It makes the bang better.

I've been doing the rank amateur of this but I'd love more pointers on dirty talk and how to tailor it to each girl. Some girls don't really take to "say my name bitch" very well

[augen sehen]

(02-20-2014 03:08 PM)SheWantsTheD Wrote:  

What about when she comes back with, "don't tell me what to do" or turns it around "why don't you go get me a drink instead"?

Tell her, "get me a pen and paper and I will explain to you, in detail, with the help of a chart, why you should do that."

When she does, say, "you took too long, I don't feel like showing you anymore. Go make me a sandwich."

[sonicboom]

its not a bad idea to test for compliance fairly regularly. try to have 80%+ confidence that she will do as you ask, before you ask it.

Just MHO.

[Ingocnito]

(02-20-2014 03:08 PM)SheWantsTheD Wrote:  

(02-19-2014 10:38 PM)SheriffBart Wrote:  

3. Call the damn shots. Makes decisions, make demands, make plans, give orders, and do so without remorse/guilt and with just the slightest consideration. Most women just fall in line for a take charge man. You can tell secretly they're thinking to themselves "Finally!". They're like ducks to water when a real dominant man comes into their lives. I try to come across like I know what I like and what I want to do and that I'm gonna go for it (which I am!). It's the part of game where you can actually be yourself in a totally genuine way and have it work for you.

What about when she comes back with, "don't tell me what to do" or turns it around "why don't you go get me a drink instead"?

That's when you take the "agree" part out of the Agree and Amplify concept.

Let's say you command her to get on her knees and suck your dick.

She says:"Don't tell me what to do."

Don't say shit, grab her, turn her around, yank her pants down and bang her doggie for it. Punishment is in order for insubordination.

[Ternarydemonite]

Eating well is a very overlooked part or bulking up in gym. I was hitting the gym for two years and got lean but not ripped, eating normally.

This january I just made calculations and I need 150 grams of protein per day to bulk up, probably was eating half of that. Now, I take 3 eggs, some nuts, some cottage cheese, meat in lunch and dinner, tuna can, and two spoons of quality whey protein, each workout day and the following. Weighted 73 kg and now I am at 82 kg. Most clothes are fitting tighter. Belly is same size at 82 than at 73, so you really have to eat well or you can't make muscle, it is physioogically impossible.

[sonicboom]

(02-20-2014 04:32 PM)augen sehen Wrote:  

(02-19-2014 10:38 PM)SheriffBart Wrote:  

2. Dirty talk during the bang is an element of game wholly overlooked. While I've been fucking the latest, I've gotten to the point where I can almost voice command her to cum. Usually within 10-15 second of me telling her to cum for me, she'll do it. You gotta get inside their heads when you're fucking. The dick is only half the battle. Talking isn't only for getting the bang. It makes the bang better.

I've been doing the rank amateur of this but I'd love more pointers on dirty talk and how to tailor it to each girl. Some girls don't really take to "say my name bitch" very well

Do you calibrate and test? Pick up on what's going on, get some small compliance, and work up from there.

"squeeze my cock".. compliance (you're already fucking, so you should be getting a good response here, it should feel good for you as well, and when she complies, you provide positive reinforcement)

"squeeze it like a sexy bitch" compliance

"you like being my sexy bitch" compliance

"you like please me, you like being my sexy bitch" compliance

"you like being my good bitch" compliance

"good job use your holes to make me feel good" etc...

obvs, if you can't get a small compliance, larger won't work either, and will make you seem creepy.

[Kickb]

"Good job use your holes to make me feel good."

I think that sounds creepy anyway you say it.